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 FineJewels

Joined: 3/13/2007
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What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/9/2007 2:46:47 AM
I know you wanted a man's answer but this is what I did:

1. Take a friend with you.They will be brutally honest.
2. If you do not have a teenage girl to help you, borrow your niece, your neighbours.
3. Go to a store and ask for individual attention and have them pick stuff out. That is their job and trust me it is nice to find stuff that looks great that you would have normally not tried on.
4. Go to a store geared towards your age and style you are looking for. Around here I love Winners, Laura, and surprisingly Reitmans(because of my small size). I also like a small shop downtown that is not a chain.

Good luck.

PS Go all out to a hairdresser(don't go cheap here!) and ask them for a hair makeover. That is great too! If you don' t have one, ask a friend for one.
 HandsomeCaribe

Joined: 12/5/2006
Msg: 27
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/9/2007 1:29:39 PM
Pantyhose or a nice pair of high arched heels.
 TroyMcLure

Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 28
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/9/2007 4:24:22 PM
oh bnt...
you dont have a clue do ya....
1 wrong
2 wrong
3 also wrong
4 wrong again (see a pattern here?)

Its ok to call shopping / gambling / alchoholism for what it is ..... I mean if the point is spend money I am sure you will accomplish that. Looking good is not synonomous with spending money, yes it will cost you but, no you will come away with some style....
 twistedromantic

Joined: 6/24/2006
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What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/9/2007 10:53:15 PM
OP. Honestly those outfits you mentioned are great to look at give the right body is wearing them. But it does give me an insight to there personality and what they are trying to attract.

It has been said that women dress not for men but for other women. I believe this to some extent, as most of us guys never even look at women's shoes, something that lots of women take great pride in. Being mature and dressing accordingly is sexy in its self, and well help you find a man that is mature as well. Try to chose clothes that your comfortable with and while still being flirty. The right amount of cleavage can do this nicely, so can a anklet, as I find them sexy for some unknown reason. The over all look of clothes, hair, makeup, jewelry, nails should be targeted to the type of man you wish to attract. Lets not forget about fragrance, I really dislike an over powering amount of perfume on a other wise very sharply dress woman, to such a turn off.
I do love a woman in a nice summers dress. My favorite outfit/style is the very sexy thigh high boots and skirt combo that leaves that oh so little bit of leg showing.
I can spot that from a mile down the road in my rear-view mirror while doing 60 down a crowded freeway. Also can be worn with the above mentioned warm and comfy turtle neck sweater in cooler temps. Plunging neckline or Veer cut blouses, with a sparkling pendent nestled a valley of cleavage is a great way to attract an eye. Just don't be mad when we take a peek. (not staring! Just browsing ) Don't be afraid to make new trends and not to follow them.
Good luck and
 1sweeetguy

Joined: 7/3/2007
Msg: 30
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/9/2007 11:20:50 PM
anything slutty: fishnet, crotchless, pigtails, soothers, piercings connecting chains, schoolgirl outfits complete with giant lolly, rubber gimp suits, leashes... and the dirtier those panties, the better.
 Greyfeld

Joined: 1/11/2007
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Posted: 7/10/2007 2:39:42 AM
Less is not more!!

The tight little outfits may get a rise out of most guys (including myself, i won't lie) but girls that get more attention than just getting a salute from my penis are the ones that dress comfortably, and conservatively.

Regular jeans or khakis with a collared shirt... a cute little sweater maybe... tshirts are just fine. Long skirts that hug the hips are VERY hot.
 oysterloaf

Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 7/10/2007 4:31:36 AM
Maybe it's fair to ask are you dressing primarily for yourself or are are you dressing to principally appeal to the tastes of others. I think that there are two ways to answer this one.

The first way is to look at your peer group to see what successful single women of that age range who are attracting the attention of men are wearing. Then go after that style or look. After all, what better indicator to go by than what seems to work in your demographic. Nothing succeeds like success, does it?

The second course is to dress in a way that makes you feel like who you actually are. The pro side of this choice is that men won't get a crossed signal a to who you are or who they think you are and those who show an initial attraction to you are thinking "what you see is what you get." The con side of this choice is your sense of style and taste may not attract as many potential suitors so they might be fewer to choose from.
 Montreal_Guy

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Posted: 7/10/2007 9:30:37 AM
Too revealing isn't sexy .

I'm a leg man, and a mini that's cut to the size of a belt will get me to look....but that's about it. There's a certain "sweet spot" on a woman's leg (varies with individual women) where a skirt just looks incredibly sexy.

The simple classic l'il black dress ?

Jeans ? T-Shirts ? A hint of cleavage ?

I'll have to stop and take a cold shower now.

Clothes should compliment you, not distract .
 oysterloaf

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 34
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/10/2007 10:09:55 AM
^^^Exactly. Well said. Think of jewelry. If the rock on the ring is too big, you notice the gem, not the woman. You probably want the clothes/jewelry to enhance the attractiveness of the woman. You want the men to notice you, not oggle the accessories.
 charliemcsd

Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 7/10/2007 10:18:43 AM

I feel like I've got some pretty stiff competition out there.

Though your profile just has a head shot, based on that, it seems to me you have little to worry about.


What I'd like to know...do men really find the aforementioned styles sexy???


I thought women really despise being sex objects?
 Irishlass0668

Joined: 5/6/2007
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Posted: 7/10/2007 9:24:06 PM
I know its not all about the looks. You can't deny the importance of them, though. I feel like I need something to draw people in and let my personality do the rest. I certainly don't want to attract the wrong kind of attention( sorry no rubber suits, lol). Again I don't want to be looking frumpy. I like a lot of the ideas here and as soon as I'm able I'll get some more new clothes!
 TroyMcLure

Joined: 4/8/2007
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What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/10/2007 9:43:50 PM
yes rubber and frumpy bad
but new look baby good

ignore everything we said and take a red blooded guy friend with you when you do go ... and ask him what he thinks....

I cant explain why more women do not do this.... why ... people why ???


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 Irishlass0668

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What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/10/2007 9:57:36 PM
Most men don't like to shop and I don't have any willing candidates.... unless you want to come on out to AZ and give me a hand
 TroyMcLure

Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 39
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/10/2007 10:10:58 PM
so close but yet so far.....
Id be happy to help , and get to see AZ too...
but for the moment it isnt possible..... hmmm
there must be another way .......


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 HEMI6point1

Joined: 6/18/2007
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Posted: 7/17/2007 7:48:33 AM
There are many different looks that I can find sexy on a woman but these are among my favorite styles:

Low-cut strappy tanks.

Halter tops.

off-the-shoulder tops.

Anything strapless.

Those one-shoulder tops (is that what they're called?).

And dresses of the same types above. I like skirts, my 2 faves is if they're long, have a slit up to the girl's thigh, but mostly I like the minis. I don't think the "micros" are that hot.

But jeans on a girl... now that's hot.
 m7arpeggio

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Posted: 7/17/2007 9:54:46 AM
A nice sun dress. The classier the better. Pearls. Shoes that show her ankles - high heels preferred but not necessary. Stockings. A little decolatage. If the occasion is less forgiving - nice shorts and a clean bright colored blouse. Class beats ass every time.
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
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Posted: 7/17/2007 10:18:51 AM
Imperturbable: My soul bruthuh. LMFAO! Awesome.
 Bene elim

Joined: 6/28/2007
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Posted: 7/17/2007 10:55:05 AM
I love it if a girl looks sophisticated and sharp such as wearing a suit or something elegant. I love the "business woman" "secetarial" look.

However, I equally adore the "simple all black" look. Simple black figure hugging top (turtle necks are best), jeans and a pair of black Docs. for example. Unbeatable! Alas, I have met every who who are able to pull off either of the "looks".
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
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Posted: 7/17/2007 11:26:54 AM
...her clothes, looking cute on the floor, next to mine, next to the bed...
 Bene elim

Joined: 6/28/2007
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Posted: 7/17/2007 12:17:42 PM
SLEAZY! *Pukes*
 NerdStatus

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Posted: 7/17/2007 3:57:31 PM

do men really find the aforementioned styles sexy???

No, not at all. I'm sure those girls have a hard time getting dates. (end sarcasm)


If not what do men find sexy on a woman in her late 30s to early 40s?

Wear something appropriate to your body type, and makes YOU feel good about YOURSELF. If you still need help, go to your local gay bar and find a shopping partner.
 get_rad

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Posted: 7/17/2007 4:17:53 PM
low rise jeans and a tube top buhahahahahahaha oh and no underwear!
 Montreal_Guy

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Posted: 7/18/2007 5:55:12 AM
One I forgot to mention, but was reminded of while out taking a walk the other day, is the jean skirt ( and heels...not flats....).
 sweetmari101

Joined: 7/8/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 7/18/2007 12:03:19 PM
durrrr, no clothes is what a man wants
 obviousman

Joined: 10/17/2006
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Posted: 7/18/2007 12:44:15 PM
A few choices here; you can take pictures of yourself and post them on the hot or not website and see what type of responses you get, 2. you can post your pictures on your profile HERE and let us tell you what we think, or 3. go to fredericks of hollywood's website, and just look at the ' clothes' section (not the bedroom or fetish attire). Their regular clothing line is invariably 'sexy' with a capital S, and is geared towards women who aren't afraid to show off what they have. If you think you'd be comfortable in that, you'll get the attention of most men, and from then on can let your 'personality' do the talking. Now, whether or not they can handle being with a sexily dressed woman is another thing. Some men prefer plainly dressed women.
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