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 DrDrakeRemore

Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 51
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/18/2007 1:02:07 PM
This is a trick question ain't it? Do I look fat in those jeans type of question? Why bother asking what men find sexy if you have no intention of wearing it. I had a girlfriend like that once. She asked me to come shopping with her to decide on a pair of jean that I would find fits her nice and make her look sexy. as it turned out all the one I said were sexy and that I like she didn't. she ened up buying the same old crap jeans that made her ass look fat instead.
 rayboy51

Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 52
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/18/2007 6:55:03 PM
OP

Well fittings jeans and T shirts do it for me.

I agree with a "hint of cleavage" and the oh so sexy "little black dress".

Looking at your pic...Girl you got nothing to worry about.
 Irishlass0668

Joined: 5/6/2007
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What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 7/18/2007 10:29:18 PM
I'm all about well fitting jeans and a Tee. Oh and for the record...I have never asked a guy if anything makes me look fat. I know better than that. If I'm going to ask a guys opinion...I'll ask what looks good and sexy...like I already did!
 Paprikash!

Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 54
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 8/16/2007 1:04:49 PM
How do men feel about aprons? I mean worn in the kitchen, with clothes on - in a regular situation - do they have any thoughts about them?...How about in 'other' situations? :)
 jsdude

Joined: 11/10/2005
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Posted: 8/16/2007 3:13:46 PM
I love the black buisness slacks not too tight not too loose, heels, don't be afraid to show that butt woo! as for a top i don't really like a girl whose boobs are going to flop out of there shirt, not what id call sexy. just a nice shirt don't necessarily show alot of cleavage but don't be afraid to show you have stuff up there:) I think women generally do a good job dressing.
 At_Fates_Gate™

Joined: 6/9/2005
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Posted: 8/16/2007 3:35:56 PM
Camel toes of course....


 ubkobalt

Joined: 5/7/2006
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Posted: 8/16/2007 3:40:13 PM

How do men feel about aprons? I mean worn in the kitchen, with clothes on


Oh, you HAD to add that stipulation at the end.

Well, it removes the figure. Honestly, I can't tell how attractive someone's body is when I go to a restraunt or something. Because at Starbucks, I saw a girl take her's off, and she went from, eh to wow! So, not quite sexy.

More motherly.

And a reminder that food is coming soon, so that's not a bad thing!
 Fun Guy 1

Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 58
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 8/16/2007 3:40:15 PM
Well, today I found a ka-zillion hot women walking downtown on the bar strip, what to me looked like high schoolers. Everyone is wearing short skirts and heels. Always a turn on. Besides the obvious, I find it sexy when a woman has a style to her, and wears clothing that is not faded or torn. Clothing that looks new, not that wrinkled. It all really depends on the females figure, to how clothing style figures into the equation.

Clevage is always good. But there becomes a line that you cross, from looking sexy, to looking like a *hore. Lately I find myself looking at women in those stretchy black pants, or white pants. Tight fighting of course, that is not to say a chubbier woman in some 3/4 pants with those strings hanging everywhere is not sexy. It really depends on how you match it all up. I have a very wide range to the body styles I dig.

A professional looking woman, is sexy as well.
 musicjunky1967

Joined: 6/3/2007
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Posted: 8/16/2007 5:30:11 PM
On the right woman, a dirty t shirt and sweats would be sexy to me. Seriously, there's a difference between dressing like a skank and looking sexy. I see a lot of women out there that confuse the two. Women that dress stylish look sexy to me.
 vavoura

Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 60
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Posted: 9/17/2007 2:19:07 PM
It doesn't really matter what you wear but how you wear it. if you feel sexy in it then it is sexy. Attitude has just as much to do with how you look. The clothes that I think are sexy are the ones that show just enough but also leave a lot to the imagination. Also clothes with a nice texture to them that feel good to the touch if your getting touchy feelly with your man. Stuff like silk, satin, leather, soft cotton stuff. that when he grabs you it also feels good on the hand.
 Libertine154

Joined: 12/7/2005
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Posted: 9/17/2007 2:26:55 PM
Oh sh1t, OP...I didnt know I was supposed to revamp my wardrobe! When I hit the Irish sweepstakes, I guess. This probably explains my lack of success in the dating department.;)
 tablesalt123

Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 62
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 9/27/2007 6:47:02 PM
Personally, you can do anything except follow the latest fashion trend. I remember the first cold day of my first year of college. Maybe 1/10 of the girls on campus wore the "big poofy boots", oversized sunglasses, bleached hair, shoestring purse, and poofy jacket. That just tells a man you are insecure and trying to fit in. My personal favorite is the skirt w/ the old style sneakers and a plain top.
 kawi-rider

Joined: 6/10/2006
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Posted: 9/27/2007 8:03:33 PM
Blue jeans, a nice white blouse, and comfortable shoes.

Yowza!
 jewelescent

Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 64
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 9/27/2007 9:21:10 PM
You have to find out what works best for your body and what fits your style. Dont follow trends. Like if you have big boobs, dont wear turtlenecks because they will look humongous. I made the mistake of buying one(after not owning one in yrs for the reason above) without trying it on and returned it today.

Oh, you have to find the right shoes to compliment your wardrobe. Do you have any friends with great taste, take them shopping with you or let them buy pieces for you if they happen to find something that might work for your body type and try it on.

After all this, then you can try finding sexy pieces that wont make it seem like you're trying too hard. And remember, you dont have to spend a lot of money to look good!!
 robfish

Joined: 11/14/2006
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Posted: 9/27/2007 9:31:44 PM
Silky pj's and fluffy cartoon character slippers! Might not go down too well during for a candle light dinner but I think simplicity is adorable. Jeans and a top.....the more casual, the better!
 Smilin_bob

Joined: 8/7/2007
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Posted: 9/27/2007 10:03:27 PM
To me, sexy is an attitude or characterstic, not a clothes style. You could be wearing a burlap bag, and if your attitude is sexy, and you are confident about yourself, you would be sexy in my eyes.

I don't think I have ever said "you are sexy" to anyone based on what clothes they are wearing. This just reiterates the point.

Wear what you feel comfortable in. Wear what gives you confidence. Clothing style should not make you sexy. That has to come from within yourself.

~Just my two cents~
 moviebuff4u

Joined: 6/28/2006
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Posted: 9/27/2007 10:23:46 PM
The following I find very sexy on a woman:

blue jeans fitted
black jeans fitted
a classic elegant evening gown
a****ail dress

those skin tight lululemon pants
her hair in a sexy up do
her hair down and loose in the breeze

high heels stiletto even better

volleyball shorts
silk teddy's

andf the list goes on but there is a good start

but i find its the woman that can really make the clothes sexy!!!
 freelancemark

Joined: 10/24/2005
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Posted: 9/28/2007 12:52:12 AM
What you really mean is what would look sexy on you to men in the socioeconomic age group you want to attract. So ask yourself what that is and what do their women wear. You are not old, and are good looking, though the dress in your photo is a bit dowdy to my 63 year old eyes.

I think you would look good wearing skirts within an inch or two below the knee to the knee.

Your tops can show as much cleavage as you dare, but more is less, so to speak. A hint is as good as a nod to us war horses.

And I recommend going to a photographer for a series of photos for the web, carrying a suitcase of clothing changes for him/her to get your best foot forward. Take that advice, and select the photog. that makes people look good, but real, not staged.

One or two face shots, the rest - full on fashion figure. Try not to blow 'em away with sophistication.
 Irishlass0668

Joined: 5/6/2007
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Posted: 9/28/2007 10:49:00 PM
[. And I recommend going to a photographer for a series of photos for the web, carrying a suitcase of clothing changes for him/her to get your best foot forward. Take that advice, and select the photog. that makes people look good, but real, not staged.] You've gotta be kidding me!!!!!....thats not cheap. Altough I wouldn't mind being on What Not to Wear and get $5000.00 bucks to blow on a new wardrobe and makeover.
As for the dress in the profile pic....I actually have gotten a lot of compliments on it and a lot more contacts than I did with just the head shots
As for revamping my wardrobe. Yes, that was very important to me. After six years of marriage it desparately needed it. I had no one to tell me what I could and could and couldn't spend money on. At that time I had money from selling a house. I also dropped 4 sizes . Additionally, another odd thing about me is that if an item of clothing reminds me of something negative...I won't wear it anymore. I can't feel sexy in something that doesn't even make me feel good.
 Montreal_Guy

Joined: 3/8/2004
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Posted: 9/29/2007 12:15:15 PM

Your tops can show as much cleavage as you dare, but more is less, so to speak. A hint is as good as a nod to us war horses.


So true.

Like I keep saying about the length of a woman's skirt, there is this magical point where it can (if she has the right legs for it) just enthrall me .

Too short, and I may look....but it's giving me too much information.

Too long, and it hides it.

It depends on the woman, and her figure. If they can hit that "sweet spot" of length, it's just so darn sexy.
 Lyricallady

Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 71
What do men find sexy as far as clothes go
Posted: 9/29/2007 12:37:23 PM
In my experience...

You don’t have to show cleavage, or wear tight fitting pants when you’re “curvy”. There’s nothing you can do (beyond wearing a moo moo) to stop from showing a “curvy” shape.

Ok, guys on this thread….question….
So my dilemma is: Do I wear the moo moo, so I don’t appear too seductive (and hope for a man who will like me beyond looks alone)?
OR
Do I wear the clothes that “fit” and fend off the wolves? (so to speak)
Which is the better scenario?
Guys/Gals? Comments please…
 lady_bug_9

Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 9/29/2007 2:18:12 PM
things like the shirts that look like dresses are ment for super skinny flay chested women they look good in it and they have to be very tall
i think that the best way you can dress hun is mature and sexy filled with confidence little things like doing your hair and light makeup with somthing on your outfit that pops like a necklace or a sassy purse make an outfit stylish
and it depends on what kind of guy you want to attract
just be yourself and be comfortable why dress to fit them dress to fit yourself
 stirfry1

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 9/29/2007 6:51:49 PM
How about a nice somewhat revealing blouse with a silk camiolsole? Really entreagues the mind without being trampy
 papa-joe

Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 9/29/2007 7:15:09 PM
A pair of spiked heeled high leather boots and a g-string. That would do it for me.
 zebra210

Joined: 11/23/2006
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Posted: 9/29/2007 7:19:19 PM
Sexy has nothing to do with cloths. It is all about attitude.

99% of all women don't understand this. You probably don't.
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