| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 6/17/2009 4:43:18 PM | | I agree with what you have said about "wild monkey sex". That's why I refuse to date most white men that I've met. Most of the ones I've met even on this website approach things like a "meat market". On the other hand there is an enormous dilemma with how Black men approach relationship. I think that's why dating has to be approached selectively----solely based on who you are and who you are attrated to. | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 6/17/2009 6:07:43 PM | I've tried interracial dating twice, both times were pretty unpleasant to be honest, the first was with a jamaican girl. I used to get evil looks from white women and the occasional black man would give a brief look of disapproval too. They do it in a really sly way but you know that they were staring at you. I recal even seeing another interracial couple (black female, white male) and even they disapproved!
The other time was with a Turkish girl (who looked indian / pakistani). This was a real hassle, once I even had to start a fight because an Asian male made a rascist comment about us for no reason.
After this I decided that interracial dating is more hassle than it's worth. Maybe it's different in other countries but not here (UK) | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 6/17/2009 6:27:03 PM |
That's why I refuse to date most white men that I've met......On the other hand there is an enormous dilemma with how Black men approach relationship
I'm glad you view it as a gender problem moreso than a racial problem. Dating sites are breeding grounds for dogs (men)... regardless of race, origin or ethnicity. I think some women (as per the thread topic) may have been hurt by men and it's easy to pick on a certain group to feed their anger and frustration.
In truth, I think many women and men in many races, ethnicities, etc., are somewhat opposed to interracial relationships because it leaves them feeling inferior within their own race, ethnicity. I've heard white women complain about a white guy being with a black woman.... I don't think these kind of feelings are any different for anyone except the fact that black women may be more vocal about it.
But then again, are we only focussing on black women complaining just because they are black women?
Who knows?
Me, personally, I curl up in the fetal position every time any woman complains. | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 7/31/2009 8:27:33 PM | I am much older than you kids, so I can speak from experience. I lived in a small city in Ontario where there was one black family. Oh my goodness, how my parents could talk about them. They didn't hardly know any other family in town. But, they knew all there was to know (according to them) about this family.
I never got really close to a black person until I was a teenager. My dad and I went to the library and sat across a black man and his daughter. I was so amazed. They seemed so similar and yet so different.
Luckily, I have got to know many black people over the years. As individuals, we are so fortunate to be individuals and yet part of larger groups such as race, nationality, gender and culture. As Canadians, we are lucky to have the benefit of being different and unique but similar. In the States, people have to be the same or different. Either speak English and fit in, or you are a rebel.
I have learned so much about others getting to know them personally rather than lumping them into one group. Relationships are much more than these broad categories. If I was blind, I would not make a choice based upon these groups. | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 8/19/2009 4:08:06 PM | As a mixed woman who dates outside of her race i’ll have to say the racism is pretty much equal. There are countless times when I’ve been out on a date with a white man and we’ll get looks and sometimes even rude comments. I’ve never understood it because I’m a product of an interracial relationship, I just so happen to have a preference towards white men.
When in relationships I’ve had black men insult, hit of me ignoring my ever present boyfriend and even tell me to leave him. I’ve been threatened and even once told that I was a disgrace to my race! All the while these people usually black ignore the fact that I’m both. I’m both black and white and don’t consider myself more or less of one or the other! It frustrates me to no end! | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 10/19/2009 10:37:02 AM | I've not been in a relationship with black woman, but have slept with 2 in my lifetime.
The second black woman, well I went to school with her sister, so one night I wound up going home with her. She was arguably the most attractive, sexy and alluring woman I'd been with before or since. If I had the chance, I'd go for a relationship with her.
Summing up, I think Black women are more attentive to the men they're with, than most of the white women I've either had relationships with, or slept with.
I'd date a sexy, Black woman over a white woman, any day of the week !!!! | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 10/21/2009 5:47:17 PM | I'm an Asian guy, and I am not against interracial relationships but it is just so much easier to date within my own race. I've lived in Canada since I was 1 years old, so I am pretty Canadian. Most of my friends growing up were caucasian and the first girl that had a crush on me was caucasian. However, since I completed school years ago, it has been harder and harder for caucasian women to get to know me and vice versa. There were some occasians where I was almost certain someone outside my race was interested in me but I am a pretty shy guy and never quite worked up the nerve to ask them out, and outside of school, you don't have enough time to really get to know someone, and know if they are really interested in you.
I am much more confident around Asian women, as they approach me quite often and ask questions about me. With non-asian women there is a bit of insecurity since I've read all over these forums how uncool it is to be an asian guy and a smaller percentage of them have shown romantic interest in me in real life.
I have no issues with seeing interracial couples in public. I think some asian guys are upset because it is one fewer asian girl to date, but there are still plenty of asian girls out there to date and I have never had trouble getting a date with an asian woman, so I don't see why there is a reason to be resentful.
I think if I could get past my insecurities of approaching women outside of my race, I might have tried interracial dating myself. | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 10/24/2009 2:05:21 PM | | I think the OP is generalizing. I don't think black women are more against interracial relationships than any other race. Canada is a multiracial nation and I think of course everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. However, I think people should mind their own business and let people into relationships live their own lives. Nobody has a right to judge what happens between two consenting adults. | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 10/25/2009 9:34:41 AM | | I disagree w u jordan i think black women are more oppossed to interracial dating compared to other races of women just look at the marriage stats. blk women r the lowest n numbers who are married interracially yet asian women are far lower n their numbers n the population yet they hav higher numbers of interracial marriage as do wht hispanic and other women simply put blk women are racist close minded and prejudiced | |
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| Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 10/28/2009 3:28:44 PM | | I'm surprised you even feel the need to ask such a question. Whenever SOME black woman see's a black man with a woman of any other background they take it as a personal slant on them. Some black women figure in their own minds at least that it's hard enough finding a black man who isn't gay, married or in prison so when the few decent ones that are single and available decide to date white women and really this isn't limited to just white women, asian, south-american and mixed-race women same deal, they develop a false perception of "shortage". In reality every demographic experiences similar problem. There are a number of fine good looking men that are gay and it really doesn't matter if you look like Gabrelle union, Stacey Dash or Cheryl Cole no amount of Alizé is straightening them out sorry girls deal with. So don't worry about those haters if you're happy and the lady your with is happy then - Do you! If they don't like it, it's their problem and not yours. | |
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