| ok girl thinks we are dating
Posted: 6/10/2008 1:16:43 PM | | Be honest with her and yeah it's gonna break her heart. But, at age 16 she's only just begun to understand the complexities of love. Trust me, she wont even remember your name come age 18. | |
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| ok girl thinks we are dating
Posted: 6/11/2008 12:32:23 AM | you talk to her thats what you do; act like a man and tell her you are freinds and thats it. This young girl isnt' a psycho at all; she's hurting. So be a real man and be nice to tell her you are not interested in her.
You are not innocent either. You lead her on a bit and I know it. You guys didnt' hang out a few times and then her just get this in her mind. A little flirtiness a little sweet talk.
Man up and tell her your friendship means the world to her. you shouldn't have let it get this far. Do it today. | |
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| ok girl thinks we are dating
Posted: 6/11/2008 12:51:19 AM | You tell her you are there as a friend and any other relationship is not going to happen. Explain to her one, you see her as a friend two, you could go to jail and three, you care enough to tell her the truth even if it hurts because that is what a true friend does instead of take advantage of a situation.
This could help her in future years to understand the difference between types of relationships and their boundries. Please, help her with this step toward adulthood it can only make you and her better. If after that things start drifting to an unhealthy area tell her you will have to end the relationship altogether. | |
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| ok girl thinks we are dating
Posted: 6/11/2008 12:12:40 PM | | She is only 16. Some younger girls think differently plus she might be rebounding because of the recient break-up. | |
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| ok girl thinks we are dating
Posted: 6/11/2008 12:15:57 PM | It might be a better move to speak to her with her parent(s). Tell them what happened, how she states these things online, and since she isn't of legal age, you didn't want to do anything to hurt her and cause them concern. And say you're sorry and mean it. Say it more than once.
If you hurt a young fragile girl, no telling how she may handle it and which end of a shotgun you might end up on. | |
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Dia623
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Joined: 5/13/2008
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| ok girl thinks we are dating
Posted: 6/11/2008 4:08:39 PM | HEY!!!!!!!! Just b/c I am assuming you all didnt see that this was posted about a year ago...someone else mentioned it earlier....whoops! | |
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| ok girl thinks we are dating
Posted: 6/11/2008 8:59:38 PM | | Yes, the thread is old but still has value. For one reason or another someone reactivated it by making a comment. I think if anyone can make a helpful point it's never to late for others to recieve benefit. | |
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