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| Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that?
Posted: 7/18/2008 10:02:55 AM | because guys and girls have different "ladders"
Guys have ONE ladder, and every guy places that girl on the ladder in order of what level he would sleep with her. the top of the ladder being the impossible dream girl like jessica alba or something like that.
Girls have two ladders. One ladder is the Friend ladder And the other ladder is the Sex ladder. Girl will automatically know which ladder you are going on when they first meet you. The top of there sex ladder being the impossible dream guy like brad pitt or something like that.
Now the top of the Friend ladder is know as the Cuddle B****. This is the guy who a girl can cozy up to without fear of sex happening.
Now It is Possible For the Person on the top of the friends ladder to make the leap to the sex ladder. Bear in mind, that You can't just jump straight across from top to top. There is gravity. So you will inevitably fall down to somewhere around the middle of the womans sex ladder. But here is the thing. While in mid flight to the sex ladder, a girl can kick you off. At which point you fall into the abyss. not reaching the sex ladder and not getting back to the friend ladder, things just become wierd and akward. and any hope of a relationship of anykind is now over!
Its just a joke, but it's kind of true to. | |
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| Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that?
Posted: 7/18/2008 9:50:39 PM | look...women and men have different sexual responses... men are very visually stimulated... with women... it's more about the whole person... also, men can have sex with a woman that they find attractive, and not have any feelings for her... women in general can't do that... we just don't have that separation between sex and the emotional part of it. men do.
i think this goes right to the heart of why men and women differ on this topic of friendship. women can do it, but honestly, i have only had friendships with men...and i mean true friends... if a) we had dated previously... and are no longer interested in eachother as partners, and b) if the guy was gay.
all other scenarios... the guy was interested in me on a romantic level, and therefore was not really my "friend." i think men do this if they think there might be a chance, otherwise they just could care less...
but the truth is... i don't really think men and women can be close friends...it's truly rare... i mean, when was the last time you saw some decent looking guy being a pals with a very unattractive woman who weighed 300lbs? answer...never!
gee, i wonder WHY?
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| Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that?
Posted: 7/18/2008 11:43:52 PM | | most womens like to still have guy as friend even if theyre not attracted to them cause they enjoy the attention plain and simple.most womens are smarter than most men.womens know how men act around them when they want to get laid and womens enjoy that attention even if they dont want the guy in question.the only thing is the guy has to be smart enough to know that.so my advice is please mens get your balls in order and get yourself together and dont let most womens make fools of ya.yes most guys like womens and tends to get weak around good looking womens but be a man and be smart when needed to.dont become wuss around womens.stand tall and be a man. | |
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| Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that?
Posted: 7/19/2008 2:41:44 AM | I kind of see the pendulum swinging in both directions on this, lately. Think about the number of men out there who only want a FWB or something like that, as opposed to a relationship? The true problem here is finding that rare occurance when two people meet that both want the same things out of life and love. Everyone seems to be on a different page lately, and I dont know why because it seems like its getting worse the older I get.
But from my perspective, Ill be honest in saying I dont WANT to be someone's friend anymore than I want to be someone's sex buddy. What I want is a relationship, and male or female this seems to be the most difficult thing in the entire world to find. | |
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