| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 11/25/2007 9:25:04 AM |
I don't know about everyone..... but for me, I'd be like "they already have or can get hot girls, why would they write to me?" kind of thing....
That's exactly what I think when I see those profiles. What do they need me for if they're with those hotties? Why would I want that kind of competition? etc etc... | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 11/25/2007 9:25:13 AM | | Because it's LAME AND PATHETIC, that's why! I usually won't respond to guys who post pictures of themselves with females. Haha, the worst is when a guy posts a picture of himself with Hooters babes. Give me a break! *insert eye roll here* It just seems like you're trying too hard to prove to the world that you're some studmuffin who can attract attractive females, and in turn you make yourself look like a loser. Plain and simple. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 1/15/2008 4:42:30 PM | | Why would anyone want to put attractive girls with you in your pics guys? how are women supposed to respond to you we will think that is your woman or you are a player...better just to have pics of yourself...that way I think us women will respond to you better you don't see us women having some hot guys with us in are our pics am I right? I think its so hot seeing a guy with just himself in the pics...they don't have to be shirtless showing thier muscles just be yourself...I don't judge...but having other ladies on your profile too is just a turn off...least for me it is... | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 1/15/2008 7:15:07 PM |
Haha, the worst is when a guy posts a picture of himself with Hooters babes. Give me a break! C'mon, that's not fair! Maybe they're his sisters... and his mom... and his aunts... it could be a beautiful family portrait!
Just one big happy family running a Hooters franchise together, how sweet.
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jf468
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Joined: 12/4/2007
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 1/15/2008 7:40:48 PM | Because it's LAME AND PATHETIC, that's why! I usually won't respond to guys who post pictures of themselves with females.
Why are some women so angry about this? Maybe these women are friends, co-workers, or relatives. Maybe these pics were the best shots of him. Maybe these pictures show him doing something that he likes. Maybe these pics were taken during an important event. Of course there is chance that he has attractive women in his pics just to brag about himself. But that is just one of several possible reasons. People shouldn't be quick to assume things. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 3/4/2008 2:50:30 PM | | Well, that is fine if a man wants to put a picture of himself on the internet with women, but to be honest, any women with class would be turned off, and as far as your comment about maybe it is family, co-worker, etc...that is one thing, but when he is posing with women on his lap or it is obvious that it is not family, then that is just tacky. I myself would not contact a man who thinks he needs to validate himself with his own vainity of women in his pic. Everyone is different, but not something that would make me look at him twice. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 3/4/2008 3:57:58 PM | It is rude, in my opinion. I don't understand the need to do this. One of two things will happen.
1. They will assume you are lying about your single status and not be interested.
2. They will see you as a player and not be interested.
Of course, this is just my two cents. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 3/4/2008 4:02:08 PM | It is absolutely MORONIC to put pictures of yourself with hot chicks in your profile.....
Your reason is "my feeling is that it shows you're able to attract the hotties"...
Who the hell are you trying to impress? GUYS???? or women? Cuz WE AINT IMPRESSED BY YER ABILITY TO ATTRACT THE HOTTIES. You SEVERELY got us confused with your BUDS. Hell....whats your next move - a picture of yourself banging a hottie? so your feeling will be that it shows you are able to bang hotties"?
My favorite is the morons who post pictures of themselves with hookers or strippers. Or better yet, some chick half their age. I know the guys will all want ya....but all I want to do is delete and block.
I won't even speak to a man who has pictures of himself with hot chicks draped over him in pictures. Not goin there. Period. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 3/4/2008 4:07:29 PM | OP - you'd probably do better posting a picture of you posing with your Mom  For me, group shots are kind of a turn-off. I guess I live by the "ol 3 is a crowd". If you want to increase your chances for "meet & greet", leave the groupies at home or join them on the weekend. Just don't put them on your profile. After all, it's YOU that wants to get noticed, not your groupies. Do you wanna sell yourself or sell your friends? | |
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swf40
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Joined: 2/25/2008
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swf40
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Joined: 2/25/2008
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/13/2008 8:52:08 PM | Funny that a man would put a pic of himself and beautiful women on a dating website as an advertisement for another beautiful women to come into his life. Nothing wrong with posing with your female friends or having plenty of beautiful women in your life be it daughters, aunts, lawyers, assistants etc. In my opinion I only want to see the man not his house, car, or bare chest.
When was the last time you ever dated a man for his chest? We dont date men for their chests!
I wonder why frequently men put pics of their motorcycles on the site? We are not interested in dating the motorcycle its about the man correct? Same with family photos on here, do the family members give permission to advertise with their loved ones for a date for dad or mom? For what its worth .... opinions are free. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/13/2008 9:38:44 PM | | OP - awesome if you can attract the hotties - perhaps you ought to put that on a neon sign. If I were you, and you're on a dating site, the last thing a woman wants to see is a mug of you with other dames. Think about it if it's in reverse, a woman that you may think is hot, you take a look at her mug, and she's surrounded by studs! | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/13/2008 10:25:26 PM |
I don't know about everyone..... but for me, I'd be like "they already have or can get hot girls, why would they write to me?" kind of thing....
I also tell my guy friends not to post pictures with me there... they will think I'm an ex girlfriend, or someone they are still dating!
I think most girls feel this way but very few will admit it, especially in the forums lol. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/14/2008 5:16:16 AM |
Why are some women so angry about this? Maybe these women are friends, co-workers, or relatives.
And this site allows captions. You can put "At my parents' anniversary party with my sisters" or "At the Air-Space Museum with my niece". | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/14/2008 5:20:02 AM | Are group shots a turn-off?
It depends. Is it a guy with chicks draped over him at Spring Break? Yeah, turn-off. Is it a pic of him with the other volunteers building a Habitat for Humanity house? Is it him with his mountain climbing expedition? Him with his parents at their anniversary? I do like to see that he has people in is life. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/14/2008 5:23:28 AM |
I wonder why frequently men put pics of their motorcycles on the site? We are not interested in dating the motorcycle its about the man correct? Same with family photos on here, do the family members give permission to advertise with their loved ones for a date for dad or mom? For what its worth .... opinions are free.
I like a bike pic. Or an airplane or boat pic, if that's what he's into. Ditto for a family shot. If he's on the rugby team, a shot of him with the team is fine. If he's in a band, a pic of him with the band. I want to get an idea what he does and what's important to him. I get tired of pics of him, him, him, with no context to the picture. I don't just want what he looks like, I want to know who he is, and well-chosen pictures will illustrate that. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/14/2008 5:27:15 AM | My feeling is that it shows you're able to attract the hotties, but what do I know?
If you belive that than your right...waht do you know. Do you think women care to see who u have dated? of course not. Do u think that who u have dated in the past is gonna have bearing on who u date today? of course not. Do you think your the only man to have dated hotties as u call them? Of course not.
You will never attract a woman for a serious relatiosnhip if u jsut wnat to through past dates in their face. Big Big turn off. We women do not care who u have dated in ur lifetime. what we care about is who you are as a person, on the inside...not who u have dated. We could care less who u have dated. would you want a woman to through it in ur face all the good looking men she has dated? no you would not.
U do not need pics of other women to try to get a new woman. will not work. what u need to do is work on ur self esteem. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/14/2008 6:21:07 AM | Personally, I don't like group shots, especially when there are a bevvy of women around the man who is the subject of the profile who aren't his family, I always wonder about this. I'd rather see just a pic of the man alone.
I wonder why frequently men put pics of their motorcycles on the site? We are not interested in dating the motorcycle its about the man correct? Yeah, I agree, I don't date motorcycles. And pic's of his car alone or house....etc.....then they would come back here, start a thread, titled...."Why don't women love me for who I am instead of for what I own?" Actually, I think there IS an old thread around here somewhere sort of like that. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/14/2008 6:52:19 AM |
Yeah, I agree, I don't date motorcycles. And pic's of his car alone or house....etc....
Well, I'd not want to see a picture of the motorcycle, house, dog, RV, etc. But a picture of the guy on the bike, in the house, with the dog, etc., would be good. | |
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| Putting attractive women in your pics - what's the problem?
Posted: 6/14/2008 7:31:49 AM | Do you have permission from these women to post their pictures on a dating site?
If you dont, then you're a bottom-feeding creep willing to exploit his friends. That's always my first thought.
I feel the same way about people who post pictures of their children.
People are entitled to their privacy. If you dont respect your friends privacy, I wouldn't trust you to respect mine. | |
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