| how is it some guys expect sex on the first date even when..
Posted: 7/18/2007 11:36:31 AM | WOS typed:
I am very offended by the reply posted by futurebf with an attitude like that you will future loser.
Which one of them? The one about the juicy kiss, or the one about people kvetching just to have something dramatic to queen about?
And if you're really offended, ask me about my money-back guarantee of bliss and completeness. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2007 8:36:29 AM | FutureBF WOS typed that?? have another
To those who think im an exotic dancer? Im 47 yrs old for god sakes and a grandma too. Im a belly dancer, clothes on, biggest tippers ,european women {older} Im a sesual woman its part of my personality. So im wearing a dance costume in my profile, there is no cleavage showing i made sure of that. so does a man not have a brain to work out just because you dont look like a librarian your easy prey? | |
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Posted: 7/20/2007 9:02:59 AM | | Just to clarify: I did not make your attire an issue. I'm going to practice what I preach regarding hyperventilating forum participants and shadduppamymouth. You can't do logic when someone else insists on doing emotion, only. | |
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| how is it some guys expect sex on the first date even when..
Posted: 7/20/2007 9:22:33 AM | scorpiomover on 7/18/2007 12 48 AM
Subject: how is it some guys expect sex on the first date even when..
Message: OP, 2 things:
1) You list your profession as a "dancer", although profession is optional and a lot of people put things that are not a job at all. I don't know what type of dancing you do, but most guys who are only interested in sex with perk up at that.
2) You wrote that "under no circumstances am i a pushover for an easy lay". Most players know that putting that anyone who says that they don't want players is usually saying that because they've been played before, and most people who have been played before can be played again.
3) You wrote that "im a pretty easy going girl". Most people take that to mean you're a pushover.
Take them ALL out. Maybe then, you might get LESS players.
Good advice there
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| how is it some guys expect sex on the first date even when..
Posted: 11/28/2007 3:48:59 AM | another add on question.........how did it go in one generation from not having sex before marriage to not having sex on a first date? Frankly, stripping down and sharing the most intimate part of yourself with an almost total stranger seems kind of bizarre and gross if you really think about it, at least it is to me.
And for the guys who believe in always giving it the "ole college try" because that what guys do, I have this question to ask. Isn`t dating supposed to be a pleasurable experience? Your particular attitude turns it into a war of wills, where there is winner and loser, and if the woman gives in, she is weak and has lost. Dating with these goals to me is both confrontational and unpleasant. Why would I choose to go on a second date with somone I have battled with all night ( to maintain my integrity and win his respect?) Maybe if he is all over me on the first date I won`t respect him and not want a second? To the gentlemen who choose this attitude, I would just like to add this. You may be "getting" it , but when you are battling a lady all evening to wear her down, you are giving her a really bad and uncomfortable experience, and alot of these women will think you are a big jerk. (not that this matters to some) | |
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Posted: 11/28/2007 9:43:03 AM | I think johnnyprophet makes a good point....the more you bring up sex and protest it, the more of a challenge you may appear...and it may seem to him that you are laying "good girl" groundwork only to "change" your mind later and then not be thought of badly.
Kinda like salespeople go first to the doors of those with "no solicitors" signs up - if the person could turn down a sale, they wouldn't need the sign but they're softies! So it may not always be true, or true in YOUR case, but it happens enough that guys think they have a bit better chance if you go on and on about not being "that kind" - the lady doth protest too much? | |
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Posted: 11/28/2007 2:26:08 PM | O brother!
Firstly substance , how many boyfriends have you had in the past and how many of them have YOU dumped.
Modern men are more relatinship savvvy and it doesn't go down well with them when women use expressions ike "forever rrelatinship" when 80% of all divorces are instaged solely by the wife. Morre and more men are aware ofthis and the women usng expresssions like "committment" leaves the modern man feeling disgusted.
Secondly what's with the female hang up about short skirts?. Half the womens sporting clothing is short skirts and sex is the last thing on the minds of these women on the sports ground.
If you think that long skirts is a clear mesage that you don't want sex then you must genuinely thing that women wearin g short skirts are "asking for it".
Finally just because a guy doesn't turn down sex on the first date that doesn't mean he expects it. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2008 5:49:52 PM | | Well you asked some men are pigs lol.Some should live in Nevada brothels are legal.It really sounds like these are guys you do want anyway.So just go find the guy you want.This is like planting a garden pull out and toss the weeds out to the rubish bin . then look for the plant that yeilds to your life and keep it . | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 2:10:57 PM | | I believe they expect it because there are women who provide it. I.e. not enough women have disabused them of that notion. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 2:46:20 PM | If it happens, it's because we're both head over heels for each other. But it's not something I'd expect.
Myself, I need to love someone, before making love to them.
But I know a lot of guys (ie the players, jerks, ***holes, etc) want a quick lay before they'll even consider a second date. Of course, such guys don't deserve the first date. :p
And yes, I'm sure there's some guys who would see a woman like you to be a "challenge". You're a wonderful woman, who's got a good head on her shoulders, and not just some "party girl". And they want to see if they can make you change your ways.
Sorry you have to deal with such losers. | |
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