| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/18/2009 1:29:01 PM | novembers fire :-
I actually prefer to date someone closer to my age, I am just looking for someone as youthful as myself :P | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:49:34 AM | In my experience.. when a guy marries an older woman, he eventually dumps her when she starts to age.. (saggy breasts, turkey neck, and many other issues.).. There are dozens of single older women like this around Lake Tahoe for that very reason. They are pretty, but their husband had a lot of money and eventually wanted a younger woman instead. They gave up the house and everything to be with the younger, hotter woman. They can always buy another car and house.
Like Tom Leykis says, "we want them hot, we want them fresh and we want them now! Just like Dominos Pizza."
haha! Very true.
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/27/2009 5:36:15 AM | well im 23 and look youge i get asked for ID when i go out, well not in barrow coz they all know me lol but when im off some wer else.
i think coz i look younger i dont attact any one out coz there looking for the roid boys and that uno my mojo as it were comes out later lol im not all brawn and no brain lol | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/27/2009 7:53:07 AM | I have to be honest, I used to date older men. Not looking for a father figure but thinking that the maturity and stability would be there. Wouldn't ya know it, I'm 32 and still single.
After my last bf, who was 15 years old than me, proved to be no more stable and mature than one of HS students, I decided that perhaps I was looking the wrong way!  He also wanted to shut me out from my family and was very controlling!
And that's when I started to date younger men!  The first younger guy I dated was 25. That's a 7 year difference. He was more mature than the 45 year old I dated. Of course, he wasn't ready to tred down the path that I was and so we broke up.  I was really sad because I liked him very much and he had a lot of the qualities I was looking for in a partner!
The next guy I dated was 28! He is still working on developing his career, but he is definately thinking along the same lines I am. To be honest, I won't date someone more than 3 years older than me or 7 years younger.  I think if you go to old, the father figure problem comes into play. If you go tooo younger then they aren't ready for the same things you are. 
I think you have to find what works for you.
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:15:04 PM |
I actually prefer to date someone closer to my age, I am just looking for someone as youthful as myself :P
Good point. A person who is youthful need not be young, which is awesome because actual young people are immature, and usually boring. A youthful older dude would be aces for me, too. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:26:59 PM | | I guess it is just our time. When we were younger we were sluts for having a few partners while men were studs. Now your a pervert and I am a cougar, I'm good with it. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/28/2009 1:45:15 AM | Hi everyone I am 6I yrs and I have had contacts from guys from the age of I8 to 50yrs I consider them way too young .The young ones really get me its creepy I always answer back .. Go and dial a granny at $3.95 a min.
As for the older ones I was sorely tempted a while ago by a 42yro and he was rather nice ,talked on the phone, well spoken made a date !but could not do it scared stiff and cancelled.
Do not regret it ...um ..er well most of the time.Trouble is in my mind I do not feel old and some of the guys my age are fuddy duddys or the players that are legends in thier own minds.
Alas that does not leave many in between. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/28/2009 2:11:25 PM | | Personally I've always hated that term. Well, as a woman in her mid-40's, I have noticed that I get approached an awful lot by young guys. It's very flattering, but as you said, some guys get down right rude if you say "no". What's up with that? Are we OBLIGED to say yes just because they ask? I think not. If the guy is mature and ambitious, it can be a fun date. If he's immature and acts silly, it makes you feel ridiculous and leaves you wondering why you left the house in the first place..lol | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/28/2009 2:20:42 PM | Well, my Cougar is a 94 and well spec'd.
I can see why everyone wants one, but I'm not selling mine. There are plans in the woodworks to restore it and maybe even increase the performance.
My woman is only 4 years older than me. Guess that doesn't make her much of a cougar though, now does it? | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/28/2009 3:34:46 PM | | *Laugh* 20 and 30 something, maybe early 40's perhaps looks like an incest relationship to me - you know - mother and son. Again, if maturity would ever be a problem you look for mature men/women at your own age (+-5 years). You don't look for mature boys or girls. It only makes sense. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/28/2009 4:26:23 PM | | msg 1: maybe so (albeit highly-unlikely), but not every cougar (sic) wants a child with an over-active imagination and little to talk about (in wave-length speak) .... | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/28/2009 7:36:44 PM | I think the younger guys think that when a woman is older and single then we must need sex to fulfill us and that since they are young that they are like stallions to us and they can boast their egos. I have the problem of the younger guys that are young enough to be my kid and the older ones that are old enough to be my grandfather hitting on me all of the time and not just on these sites. I just can't seem to attract the guys who are closer to my age.  | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:07:30 PM | | I dont think most older women want to have a real relationship with a younger guy, so no raising or diaper changing need be done, its all about just having fun. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 2:14:20 PM | Many of my emails are from men in their 20's, and I always say "no thank you". They are interested only in a sexual relationship and say they want me to teach them what I know about sex. Why would I bother? I would much rather find a man my own age who already knows what he is doing.
Also, I am insulted when some man refers to me as a cougar. I do not hunt these men; they hunt me, and they are not always very nice when I don't express interest. I get the feeling they think I should be thankful they are sexually interested in me.
That kind of immaturity is a real turn-off. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:00:10 PM | Give me a break! I'm an older woman (42), and possibly some women, although I can't understand why, would want to just have meaningless sex with someone they could of given birth to, for myself, I just don't get it. So, think about it, the older woman can get laid by the younger man but that's all it will ever be, and the older men don't want someone their same age because that's just old, so okay, and where does that leave the women past 35? Is it truly ALL about sex, is that all that matters? And drama......
drama is at any age, man or woman, and maturity.....well, sorry guys, but women seem to have maturity over men of any age. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:26:03 PM |
well, sorry guys, but women seem to have maturity over men of any age.
gee...with statements like this, it doesnt bother me to say something like this...
"sorry girls, men make more than women cause we are just smarter than any women at any age"..... | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 7:32:13 PM | I have to differ with you on that one broncs....I am not bashing what you say or anyone else, but some women are just as smart if not smarter than a man that went to college several times to get a few master's degrees and she never stepped foot into a college, but that is not to say that there are men out there that are not smarter then some women.
I guess it just depends on the woman and the man and the lesson at the time.....  | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 7:45:16 PM | Hmm,
I'm new here and to dating in general. I have been in contact with a 29 year old. I am 46. I guess since I'm new to this, it's flattering for me to have someone that young interested. I guess because I consider myself young at heart. When men over 55 contact me, it just seems so much older than me!
So am I being a fool to consider meeting this youngin'? | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:26:03 PM | I suppose meeting younger or older people is something each takes to their own accountability. But my question to those who want REALLY younger or older partners is..... "What in the world do you have in common??????" You would be in different places in your lives..... different eperiences, different perspwectives. The older one must feel like.... I don't know.... "Is this my kid?"
As a man in my 50's, I don't want to be involvelved with a woman under 40 really...... I would feel like I was dating my daughter!!!!!! No Thanks!!!!! I love and appreciate maturity! There has to be something there when your feet hit the floor... sexuality is great! But you got to have something else to keep you going. Do you love being with this person? Can you do what turns them on for indefinitely? Does it turn you on too? Would you commit yourself to them? Will you be there no matter what? If the answwers to any of these questions is "NO", you damn well better re-think it!!!!!
Apologies for the typos..... didn't feel like goig back........ although this typing was probably more effort!!!! JHahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:34:34 PM | Seems to me that the law of Cougar attraction creates an interesting equation:
The Cougar's lack of self-esteem is in direct ratio to the Youngster's need to find an easy mark. Men like it easy and women like the attention so it looks like a good deal... for about two seconds.
Come on, why do women pretend not to care when they really do? If a guy sticks around, we care about them. That's nice but not workable... or healthy.
Instead of acting out on your fear of growning old, how about being your best self and your soul's compliment? If he doesn't come along, remember this is the electronic age. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 11:31:04 PM | Redhorse said.... "How about being your best self and your soul's compliment"!!!! Excellent comment!!! How about we all reflect on that?????
Thanks Redhorse!!!! | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/29/2009 11:37:22 PM | | Reddhorase, you seem so cool.... I read your profile and it is awesome! I am in a relationship, but I think you would be great to talk to . I don't have a pic, so message me if ya weant to talk. OK? ....... | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 6/30/2009 3:58:09 AM | Well...since I'm almost 52 I can state EMPHATICALLY that I've no interest in a 70 year old cougar.
That just grosses me out.
And as for "cinnamonchips"....I'd date ya in a heartbeat!
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar - Everyone deserves one too.
Posted: 6/30/2009 6:32:33 AM | | I am in my mid 50s and am flattered when I get messages from guys 20 years my junior. They are persistent. But let's get real. I ache in the mornings, I have stretch marks from babies, I like different music and they could be friends of my kids. I'm sure the sex would be great but I prefer men in my own age bracket. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar - Everyone deserves one too.
Posted: 6/30/2009 5:19:38 PM | I love the whole "Mrs. Robinson" thing. Older women may be the exact opposite of me in terms of interests but I guess it's that same reason why I am interested in them, because for both of us everything we do and talk about is new and different to the other. I think for both we don't put up "defensive barriers" like we do with most people our own age, so we have our vulnerable minds more open. Older women are hot too  | |
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