| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/8/2009 7:08:40 PM | | Even though i am 35 I don't consider myself a couger. I actually would like to find a man that is within 5 years of my age. I rather date older. My experience on this sight with men around 30 is they seem to be pretty immature. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/8/2009 7:53:12 PM | I'll be the first to admit (IMHO anyway) that a woman in her 30's and beyond often has many special qualities that a woman in her early 20's often does not. I'm not talking in a sexual sense either - often it is more in the depth of emotions and maturity shown, not to mention compassion and consideration.
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/9/2009 5:56:24 AM | "hello every one i have dated a young man he was 21 when i ment him and now he is 23 he wanted to get married and have kids but he got on my dam nerves at 30 so bad i did not even want to come home i would stay in my car as long as i could untill i thought he was asleep he really is a good guy but i just cant do it i had tried to make him leave more than 10 time i put his things out i made him think me and my ex slept together and this dam guy is still saying please let him love me and take care of you what do you guys make of that what should i do he sends my roses and leaves gifts at my door he just wont go away"
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/9/2009 8:57:16 AM | My whole .02 on this subject as I do get pursued ALOT by younger men.
I have children and I am done having any more therefore I would never even think of getting involved with a younger man starting out in life. I feel like I'm robbing him of a chance to experience the first time of falling love with a beautiful young woman, get married, have children, etc etc. I've experienced all that in my own life.
I have a hard time accepting that any man more then 10 years younger being on the same level as me.
Any interest towards me is perceived as an attempt to catch a "cougar" which gets a literal eye rolling from me. I can't imagine their interest being serious and heartfelt.
There was a time that I could not be bothered with being serious about relationships and yes, younger men are perfect for full filling this phase.
Now, looking back on it. I realized that I've insulted myself. I deserved respect and to be loved. I'm not going to get that from any horny young man am I? No...
same goes for any other women being "chased" but hey, if the woman wants/likes this.. its' your life
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/9/2009 10:10:57 AM | I AM a cougar... and proud of it..
When I divorced my children's dad... I was 33... the first man that asked me out was 10 years younger...and his b-day was the same as mine... We dated for over a year... but he moved to another state...
I was 'single' for a long time... but I found myself being surrounded by younger men ALL the time...NEVER anyone older than me...
I married someone a LOT younger... He didn't want any kids... still doesn't...he's always dated older women... That lasted 4+ years... and the reason I divorced him was that after we got married...he turned into an OLD MAN... He never wanted to do anything... was very comfortable just staying home watching TV...and THAT is NOT me!!!!
Other things went down hill also... he just didn't want sex as often as I needed it... so all in all... we decided to end it...
Now, I'm TRYING really hard to find a man around my age or so... but funny thing is...THOSE guys just want ARM CANDY... very young thangs... and have the maturity level of a fly...
So, I'm sticking to the young ones... they are MUCH MORE FUN...which is all I want for now at least!!!!  | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/9/2009 11:06:42 AM |
Now, I'm TRYING really hard to find a man around my age or so... but funny thing is...THOSE guys just want ARM CANDY... very young thangs... and have the maturity level of a fly...
lmao...NOT ALL of us guys around your age want what you call "ARM CANDY". I'm almost 40, but still have the desire to have a kid...but that doesn't mean it has to be with a "young thang". I'd actually like to find someone who is in their 30's that might still have a slight desire to have a child...or just has one kid. I have no desire to enter into family larger family than that. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/9/2009 3:02:13 PM | I AM a cougar... and proud of it..
When I divorced my children's dad... I was 33... the first man that asked me out was 10 years younger...and his b-day was the same as mine... We dated for over a year... but he moved to another state...
I was 'single' for a long time... but I found myself being surrounded by younger men ALL the time...NEVER anyone older than me...
I married someone a LOT younger... He didn't want any kids... still doesn't...he's always dated older women... That lasted 4+ years... and the reason I divorced him was that after we got married...he turned into an OLD MAN... He never wanted to do anything... was very comfortable just staying home watching TV...and THAT is NOT me!!!!
Other things went down hill also... he just didn't want sex as often as I needed it... so all in all... we decided to end it...
Now, I'm TRYING really hard to find a man around my age or so... but funny thing is...THOSE guys just want ARM CANDY... very young thangs... and have the maturity level of a fly...
So, I'm sticking to the young ones... they are MUCH MORE FUN...which is all I want for now at least!!!!
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Let's see... First you call yourself "cougar" and you're even proud of it. Where's YOUR maturity level at? - "Other things went down hill also... he just didn't want sex as often as I needed it... so all in all... we decided to end it..." Yeah, there it is...
Do you think that a cougar is anywhere NEAR being a mature, serious person? No. It's all about getting banged and it doesn't matter who it is as long as the prick you're receiving is at least 10-20 years younger (nowadays preferably more).
You're surrounded by younger men all the time? That's a load of crap. All it takes is rejection and they're gone. But of course that's not going to happen and we know why... There are many single men your age. Start hanging out where you're supposed to hang out before you're called paedophile.
"When I divorced my children's dad... I was 33... the first man that asked me out was 10 years younger..." I'd like to know how much in common people like that have in the first place - nothing. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/9/2009 3:28:01 PM | | Im 31, got a 35 year old- she says she is a PUMA, lol. Young dudes that are unsure of themselves want an older woman. They have issues: Am I good, Penis size, ect...Men that are want to be taught are kinda weird to me- I am guessing they want an older woman to validate their sexual prowess so they can move on to women their own age. Younger men need to be more outgoing...I can go on and on... | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/9/2009 6:45:41 PM | Now, I'm TRYING really hard to find a man around my age or so... but funny thing is...THOSE guys just want ARM CANDY... very young thangs... and have the maturity level of a fly...
Ok let me get this right. You "try" to find a man your age but complaing all they want is "young thangs", and have the maturiy of a fly. Yet when you go out with a younger man its just for fun and you expect nothing out of of it.
so lets break it down...
guys your age that go out with young girls...maturity of a fly...
you go out with younger men...its all in fun...
GOTCHA....
but I found myself being surrounded by younger men ALL the time...NEVER anyone older than me...
another statement that is kinda funny to me.
Do you work in construction? Are you a college teacher? Are you a bartender at a meat market club?
If a man were to say the same thing you just did, he would get blasted..
If you want to date younger men, so be it. But dont come in here with lame reasonings of WHY you do it. Just admit its for the sex and be done with it....jeez...
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/10/2009 5:26:40 AM | Those criticizing Munenca should remember one thing:
To each his or her own - as long as it's two consenting adults, it's really nobody's place to judge.
It's her that has to live with the outcomes of her choices, not any of us.
Dollar to a dime says most of the "outrage" at her statement comes out of jealousy that it's whatever guy she chooses to be with, and not them. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/10/2009 5:37:31 AM | | Not cricizing her, I just find it funny that she complains that older men want someone young and they have the mentality of a fly, but yet when she goes younger its all in fun and makes it ok.... | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/10/2009 5:40:37 AM | | One thing I've found out about living life like that is that it gets old very quickly. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/10/2009 2:14:34 PM | | Hey...I feel the same way about men my age.. I have nothing in common with them.. your only as old as you feel.. If you ever hung out with me you would know that.. Dang you guys.. leave miss cougar alone.. Shes doin her thing!!! Same old thing.. if it was a dude it would be a totally differnt story.. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/10/2009 6:03:14 PM |
Same old thing.. if it was a dude it would be a totally differnt story..
Your right, it would be different. I can just imagine a man that is in his 40's trying to convice people that he has more in common with a 25 year old. The only thing they have in common is what EVERYBODY on the face of the earth have in common...SEX...
Your talking to someone who went out with a 24 year old just last year. We boinked like rabbits, it wasnt about the money cause I dont have a lot of it. I like her because of her 25 year old body, she liked me cause I acted like an adult(her words), but we also boinked like rabbits(did I mention that).... | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/10/2009 7:42:48 PM |
Hey...I feel the same way about men my age.. I have nothing in common with them.. your only as old as you feel..
yeah I feel the same way about women around my age and older. I have next to nothing in common with them. I like to stay out late...go see a good band....stop out at some late night food joint. I don't like a lot of the music that most of the people my age listen to. Hell I still hang out close to the stage at most of the rock concerts I go to. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/10/2009 8:21:31 PM | (Your right, it would be different. I can just imagine a man that is in his 40's trying to convice people that he has more in common with a 25 year old. The only thing they have in common is what EVERYBODY on the face of the earth have in common...SEX...
Your talking to someone who went out with a 24 year old just last year. We boinked like rabbits, it wasnt about the money cause I dont have a lot of it. I like her because of her 25 year old body, she liked me cause I acted like an adult(her words), but we also boinked like rabbits(did I mention that).... )
I kinda have said this before.. I'm not trying to be reduntant but make a point...
For me personally.... I'm very imature.. esp now.. I'm not trying to have responsability.. ..I just came off a lot of pressure of owning my own co.. sick mom.. whatever... done the responsable thing.. This is my time to be stupid.. And I'm thouroughly enjoying it..
I would love a young **** buddy... It would be more ideal for me to be in a more meaningful relationship... but I went 6 years with no sex.. I would take either.. as long as he was respectful and nice to me.. cause I take zero shit..at my age..
so you boinked like rabbits!! awesome!!! I dont see the problem here.. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/11/2009 5:19:13 AM | Sure... yeah.
Give me a young 20 something any day. A cougar wishes she has a 20 year old body.
Any guy worth the eyesight God gave him would much rather bang a 23 year old than a 40 year old 9/10. Don't kid yourself. Just because she hasn't been around the block 800 times does not mean she's worthless in bed.
Tell you what... can the "cougar" train the 23 year old before I get her naked... you know, coach her? Perfect scenario. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/11/2009 8:25:49 AM | Coach her... Ew...that's your job
Younger, older... as long as there's an attraction... I hear from younger guys sometimes... being young and attractive isn't always the end all and be all. I don't like pushy men of any age. There needs to be compatibility and that starts with physical but whether it goes any further has to do with personality
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/14/2009 11:29:55 AM | | I hope those women who consider themselves cougars and are done having kids think about the younger guy for a minute.I was with someone 9 years older than me for 12 years.I fell hard for her when I was 24 with no kids.She was done having kids already had three.I was happy for most of those years.She treated me much better the women my age.Now however I'm older divorced and will probably never have kids because I am too old.Young guys don't think about it then but will if they wind up where I am at in few years.I wouldn't do it again if I could do it over. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/14/2009 2:23:20 PM | | Jeffery, it desn't matter if I am 24, 34, 44, or 84. I was never going to have children. Never wanted them. Any man who dates me knows that so the kid factor doesn't enter into the equation for some of us. Should I not have dated people my own age when I was younger because some day they might decide they wanted kids? | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/14/2009 5:21:34 PM | There is nothing wrong with being a cougar. 
cougar = 40+
jaguar = 50+ | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/15/2009 1:26:54 AM | Now however I'm older divorced and will probably never have kids because I am too old
Too old??? You're just in your 30s ~ don't throw in the towel just yet
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 9/15/2009 7:54:11 AM | "There is nothing wrong with being a cougar."
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Well, it's probably not something you want to tell everybody either. Someone who's chasing kids tends to have a rather bad reputation among people who don't. Not all of us think with our genitals. | |
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