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 468jeffery

Joined: 7/2/2009
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Posted: 9/15/2009 8:45:56 AM
I know a woman who 32 dating a 19 yearold.She has two kids.I asked her what if he wants kids in a few years.She responded well he is SOL isn't he.I want to find the 19 year old and talk to him.Pretty funny though She probably would consider me too old.If I tried to date someone 13 years younger than me I would be a pervert.
 RobertKoi

Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 9/15/2009 9:06:10 AM
"I know a woman who 32 dating a 19 yearold.She has two kids.I asked her what if he wants kids in a few years."
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I just can't get stuff like that through my head. I mean, if I'd start dating someone THAT young it wouldn't be for a serious relationship that's for sure. The difference between a kid at 19 and her at 32 is absolutely huge unless she's got some serious issues.
 ColonelIngus

Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 328
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Posted: 9/15/2009 12:49:22 PM
This thread is too funny.. Any woman who is being hit on by men is NOT a cougar, no matter what age(s) the men are, or what her age is. A cougar is a woman who is so old and undesirable she has to prey - a key word in the definition - on young horny men to get any male attention whatsoever. Think Joan Rivers without the gazillions of dollars of plastic surgery (and no real wealth or fame either).

The whole concept of anyone wanting a cougar is oxymoronic in the extreme.
 BobbieSocks

Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 9/15/2009 5:08:34 PM
I never said it was all, or anything about the genitals.

I just seem to think that Im bored with older guys usually. I dont mean kids. Someone that is 5 or so years younger than me. I dont think there is anything wrong with that.
 DruidXpuppyboy

Joined: 10/26/2007
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Posted: 9/22/2009 1:00:58 PM
I honestly prefer older woman drastically, I just seem to connect with them more. if you're open to a relationship for a younger man you're already won my respect. Who cares if people think you're my mother, you're not.
 Moun10dew

Joined: 4/14/2009
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Posted: 9/22/2009 1:32:44 PM
Think this is just another one of those "To each their own" type of thing.
 Surf.Sun.Fun

Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 1:41:42 PM
The OP is on drugs.

Anytime you make an all-inclusive statement, you are wrong.
 kkateraven

Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 333
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Posted: 10/2/2009 3:02:46 PM
LMAO. Hell, I'm a couple months into 40 & have had younger guys quote the size of their anatomy in 10 different languages to me, as if the informtion will force me to break down their door & make made hot monkey sex with them. Whatever in the world gave these young hunks the idea that I would be interested in doing that, is beyond me. Perhaps the words "long term" and "no casual dating" had something to it? Dunno.
The cougar label is new for me. I must have a warped sense of what youth is because I seriously thought I was too young for the term. Boy, see what happens when 40 creeps up on ya? LOL
If anything, its a good laugh and a compliment of sorts. And good to know that if I do become interested in a romp, I will certainly have options. LOL
 InNCsearching

Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 5:09:59 PM
sorry you got it backwards. men want older women for...just sex. men want younger women to marry and have more children with and great sex. two different things. for a young guy to sleep with an older woman it's just another notch like...cool look what i got a new toy and a new experience. an old guy with a young girl is like cool...look what i got and i'm keeping her. two different things.
 planher1

Joined: 9/30/2009
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Posted: 10/3/2009 2:17:29 PM
Not all younger men want a Cougar just for sex (great sex BTW) not just sex as you refer to in your post! Just cause a woman is younger doesn't mean the sex is better...let's just get that straight. I get approached constantly from men of all ages but it seems to be more the early 30's guys that are really into the older woman. Especially if they are divorced with kids....cause the older woman has been there done and now it's just all about having fun together. With a younger woman most want marriage, kids and the white picket fence. The Cougar really wants a companion to have fun with..... should it lead to something then great. I dated someone 8 years younger for 3 years and I didn't want to marry him so I ended it so he could move on with his life. We are not desperate women we are just women who have a zest for life. Don't get it twisted! lol
 isabella76

Joined: 9/15/2009
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Posted: 10/3/2009 9:08:18 PM
Am I old enough to be a cougar yet? A couple years ago my room mate's little brother started hitting on me. He was 18, I was 30. It never really went anywhere because she would have killed me, but it made me feel really good to think that some cute young boy, who could have his pick of any 18 year old girl he wanted, was interested in me. Big ego boost. Wouldn't mind finding another "puppy" as my friends and I refer to younger men. You know, cute, enthusastic, bouncy, maybe a little slobbery. LOL That puppyish energy is kind of attractive. Just keep a rolled up new paper handy and swat them on the nose when they misbehave! They learn quickly and are eager to please...
 Fleur_de_Lis

Joined: 3/7/2008
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Posted: 10/3/2009 10:00:19 PM
He's a lucky guy, Isabella ~ you're beautiful, you look like Dana Delaney


 youcantimagine

Joined: 9/15/2009
Msg: 338
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Posted: 10/3/2009 10:12:43 PM

Am I old enough to be a cougar yet? A couple years ago my room mate's little brother started hitting on me. He was 18, I was 30. It never really went anywhere because she would have killed me, but it made me feel really good to think that some cute young boy, who could have his pick of any 18 year old girl he wanted, was interested in me. Big ego boost. Wouldn't mind finding another "puppy" as my friends and I refer to younger men. You know, cute, enthusastic, bouncy, maybe a little slobbery. LOL That puppyish energy is kind of attractive. Just keep a rolled up new paper handy and swat them on the nose when they misbehave! They learn quickly and are eager to please...

Wow... be still my churning stomach. Reading that comment is the closest I've ever come online to physically becoming literally sick and puking because of being just that revolted by someone's words. Talk about a glimpse into the soul... geezus.

Specifically on topic - No, not everyone wants a cougar, or ever did want one.
 Fleur_de_Lis

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Posted: 10/3/2009 10:19:13 PM
Now, now, that wasn't nice ~ you shouldn't be unkind to Isabella, she's going to cry herself to sleep tonight

 broncsbuff

Joined: 4/18/2008
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Posted: 10/4/2009 12:02:25 AM

That puppyish energy is kind of attractive. Just keep a rolled up new paper handy and swat them on the nose when they misbehave! They learn quickly and are eager to please...


I can just imagine if a 35 year old man would say this about a 18 year old girl if it would be laughed off like it is here....
 RobertKoi

Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 10/4/2009 4:59:44 AM
This discussion is totally pointless. If someone wants to sleep with kids and finds pleasure in that, fine. The majority still prefer a partner near their own age - as do I.
 Moun10dew

Joined: 4/14/2009
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Posted: 10/4/2009 7:32:44 AM

This discussion is totally pointless. If someone wants to sleep with kids and finds pleasure in that, fine. The majority still prefer a partner near their own age - as do I.


Agrees....as long as they are younger than me.
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