| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/2/2009 6:46:55 PM | | cinder728, I also have been hit on by younger guys. One actually asked me if I could be his Mrs. Robinson. They are just playing out fantasies young men have. I dont usually reply to them unless that have been respectful. If I reply, I usually say something like " An older woman can receive no greater compliment than the admiration of a younger man. " Then I offer them best wishes for their young lifes. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/2/2009 11:09:51 PM | <---------------leopardess
Current definition as given from a friend of mine,lol.....
NOT an "urban cougar", but still a single or divorced woman 35 to 55, intelligent, successful, educated, secure in herself, her looks and her life. She enjoys the company of men on her terms. She does not seek younger men, older men or even men her own age. They seek HER.
These women are far, far classier than the trashy "cougar". They do not frequent bars for pick ups, hook ups or anything other than a drink and some company with their girl friends. They do not hide their ages or their attitudes and are impatient with obvious come ons. Mostly solitary, they are very, very difficult to hunt, hence "leopardess". Katherine Hepburn would have been the Ultimate Urban Leopard(ess).
You might call them a MILF if you want to get slapped.
Also called a leopardess or quite simply, a grown woman. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/3/2009 12:07:45 AM |
I will hit on a cougar at a bar for the free drinks. There is no way in hell I am going to have sex with her, though.
Dude, you are forty. Those aren't cougars that are hitting on you...lol....maybe they are silver foxes.
You have one of the most negative profiles I have ever seen. Even you seem to realize this in some way, and attempt to justify it by saying it is all true. Your headline is "Come and Get Me", and then you make comments asking why a woman would say things like "Catch me if you can?" Really, Hot Guy? Really? Is that your lame idea of a joke? It isn't very funny.
Your opening paragraph is about how women think their shit don't stink, and how they need to get over themselves? How effective has that approach been for you? It sounds kind of bitter, as if you have been rejected a lot. Soooo.....five paragraphs about all the things women do to piss you off, and then one little line at the end that you want to meet a nice, normal woman? Good luck with all that, "HOT GUY"....lol. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/3/2009 12:31:25 AM | | From what I see here on POF of women between 45 and 60 there are quite a surprising percentage that lean toward younger men. Some few look only for men5-20 years younger than themself but many more will, for example, want men ranging only 2-6 years older but 5-15 years younger. Maybe among older women they are worried about an older guy dying sooner and being left on their own or else they don't want a guy more likely to need little blue pills. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/3/2009 10:30:09 AM | | Been a sort of social misfit all my life. I really don't think it has anything to do with age. When I smiled at the ladies who were my age when I was in my 20s, got no response whatsoever...or they were intensely possessive, which scared ME off. There's never been a middle ground. Now, in my 40s, I'm not such a skinny geek, just a bigger geek...filled out a lot, become more hunky and muscular, but still the same sweet, sensitive person I always was, and, guess what, the younger ladies seem to like me, when I least expect it...perhaps they caught me in a moment of vulnerability, can tell that I'm lonely and need someone. The ladies my age or thereabouts seem to be giving me the cold shoulder, and, so far, I'm not really into women older than me. Guess I'm using the sweetness angle at this point, and being open to all ages. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/4/2009 3:19:24 AM | I like mature men and I always have.
Younger guys scare me.....................honestly  | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar - Everyone deserves one too.
Posted: 5/4/2009 9:27:15 AM | | Shore I know how you feel being a cougar myself I have found that guys my age don't want anything to do with me they all want younger women and it was the younger guys who kept asking me out. I have found that I also am a bit unconventional and like things that my age group doesn't seem to be into much so I can just relate better to someone who is younger then me and have no problem with that. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/4/2009 3:46:13 PM | | I don't want to date someone under 30 I still get a lot of offers from mid 20's guys even though I have specified this in my profile, I am in my late 30's and truely more than a 5 year difference either way is enough for me. Itd not a maturity thing always, often it is just that in your mid 20's you are at a very different place in your life than you are at when you reach your mid 30's | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/4/2009 9:44:24 PM | i understand the debate here about cougars and all, but let me get this straight....
i can have a 20 yr old with a tight ass and likes to party or......
i can chase after a 35 yr old who is starting to sag and has 2 kids??
i guess i'm in the minority of young men! darn | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/5/2009 1:36:23 PM | | Is this really true? I like younger guys, but I feel like they would think I'm to old for them. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/5/2009 2:51:09 PM | | Really it depends on the person, Boho. There are young men above you in the thread who don't like older women, and vice versa. There is not a consensus view among 20 something males as to what or whom they are attracted to. Don't let that deter you from trying though! | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/5/2009 3:11:12 PM | i agree completely...not interested in a fella under 28 - though there may be a few diamonds in the rough. same goes for the 50 year olds though trying for a younger gal. sometimes that ain't workin either. tryin to maintain their youth but have nothing in common with the 20 or 3o someones. good luck to all! | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar - Everyone deserves one too.
Posted: 5/5/2009 4:05:55 PM | | I like to go younger and my biological clock stopped awhile ago. Thing is, a gal gets into her 50's and there is a pretty good pool of men out there who just can't keep up to me in normal activity. I want someone who can work outside hauling wood all day and then take me to bed and spend hours doing all sorts of interesting things. Not alot of men 50+ can do that. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/5/2009 4:44:04 PM | When I was a young pup, had an older woman "show me the ropes" for several months. She was something like 27-28 or so and I was 17-18 or so. I was really worthless in bed before she came along.
Wish I knew where she was these days as I sure owe her a nice hug and dinner or a drink. What she taught me sure made a few ladies smile, and glad that I met her. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/5/2009 5:12:27 PM | Boys will be boys! I like men also usually over 35. Way more settled and laid back. What makes me crazy is how crude some of these "boys" are. A lady likes to be treated as such even in a casual relationship.  | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/5/2009 5:20:58 PM | I hate that term......what is wrong with being a REAL WOMAN! Not a damn thing.................................screw that mindset!  | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/5/2009 5:25:31 PM | "Boys will be boys!"
Well, stop going out with boys! Course I have to add to this that there are males who are still "boys" at age 60, so better just say go out with someone who is grown up. | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/6/2009 12:13:54 AM | I don't go on the hunt for younger men yet they seem to seek me out. I personally like men my age to five years older. I also enjoy men up to ten years younger. I am extremely active and pursue everything in life so that I suppose makes me attractive to younger men. I am not attracted to men older than me and that has been true for my whole life.
I am open to being with younger men but I am not open to one night stands or friends with benefits and that seems to be a common request. I put NO energy into sex only relationships.
If a younger man was into me and I was into him - it would be on like donkey kong. I dont mind being a Mrs Robinson!  | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/6/2009 3:43:53 AM | Spendyourtimewell;
Perhaps what you're thinking of is more aptly coined a jaguar or puma? (not sure if I have the terminology right - it's all rather distasteful to me). I thought Cougars were women 40 plus, so not really in the child-bearing years, more or less, nor interested in procreating, per se.
But hey, why change your profile - isn't it better to find what you're actually looking for, with no pretense? | |
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| Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/6/2009 7:51:06 AM | "i can have a 20 yr old with a tight ass and likes to party or......
i can chase after a 35 yr old who is starting to sag and has 2 kids??"
Lifeis2good, you have the nerve to say that directly after that lovely mature woman posting before you. Starting to sag? My a$$ is so tight, I could cracka walnut & blow smoke rings. I've seen some of my friends saggin in their 20's, too. Just depends on ur bodytype, what the good Lord gave ya & how u take care of it. Oh, and I've seen young men w/ balls saggin down 2 their knees. Does this somehow discount them from being hot elsewhere? You're lookin 4 physical perfection, are ya? Good luck! And I hope you print out this post & read it 30 years from now Buck-a-roo. Maybe show it to ur future wife & mother of ur children.Nyuck nyuck!
Or are you gonna trade her in every few years like a car? | |
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