| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/27/2007 7:15:53 PM | | well if you do...you will end up breaking up with your girlfriend..sounds like you are more then a little in love with her and want to take things onto a higher level..I believe if you go through with the threesome you will end up very resentful and jealous and you will also resent your best friend..if your girlfriend loves you she will understand your feelings...at 5 months you should still be very excited about each other | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/27/2007 7:27:46 PM | | are you ****ing stupid. Thats a shure fire way shatter intamcy .If you love her at all or have any dignaty, you will only have sex w/each other | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/27/2007 7:29:04 PM | i would dump my gf for even thinking about it.
are you mad, some things are sacred and my gf is.
aaaaaaagggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh
i cant believe you need to ask this,
i wonder why your mate and his ex(the one you banged with him) are no more.
i cant believe im even replying to this, this must be a wind up. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/27/2007 9:14:08 PM | | NO, NO, NO, NO. Obviously if you're jealous then you won't be comfortable with it. Jealously isn't just a selfish act it's always a sign that you need to discuss things with your girlfriend. What happens if you 'think' you're ok with it, it happens and then you realize that you can't forget it happened? Is it worth ruining your relationship over? | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/7/2007 5:43:31 PM | Tell Mike he has to bring someone else along so it can be a foursome - then nobody gets left out and no one's feelings are hurt. 
You and Mike can experiment, your girlfriend can experiment with Mike's "girl", hell why not try everything you've ever wondered about just because you can. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/7/2007 5:53:42 PM | Don't do it. It may seem like fun when you guys are all hot and bothered, but when the jealously kicks in (and it will) then what? By the way, your jealosy is not irrational. It's natural.
It seems you care for her very much...so why is it that she wants to explore having sex with others...and how on Earth could you be okay with that? I don't think most guys would be up for/down with that. | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 259 | |
| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/7/2007 6:08:38 PM | Your opening post says it all.
Mike having nobody at the moment started making passes at my gf The fact that he did this in front of you BEFORE getting your consent would concern me.
The playing stopped short of sex due to my rising jealousy You must know then that the jealously WILL come back if they were allowed to go through with it.
i would like to get rid of this irrational jealously How on earth is this "irrational jealousy"?
I think i would end up resenting her and ultimately dumping her.
Should i go for it? What does this tell you your answer should be? Coupled with the fact that you really love her... | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/7/2007 7:03:19 PM | Let's see your friend got drunk and started making passes at your gf. What kind of friend is that?
So, your gf wants to f*ck your friend? Hmmm. Not only that, but she went for it right in front of you. Sounds like a slut to me. You already know this would bother you and you wouldn't be able to handle it. Tell her if she does it, she's done.
Besides, if your girl asks for group sex, it just shows you ain't giving enough....no offense.
You don't know that. | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 261 | |
| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/7/2007 7:29:32 PM | ^^^That was something I didn't pick up on...it was bad enough that your friend was hitting on your girlfriend right in front of you, but the fact that she was reciprocating was awful, too.
I know that couples can pull this off...they can have sexual relationships with others and still have a relationship that seems to work, but your original post has a few references to jealousy and I don't honestly think your relationship will make it through this. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 12:52:40 AM | This thread really leaves me wondering how bad society has gotten lately.
Lets just all **** our friends, neighbors, goats, dogs, cats, post boxes....It's just sex right? | |
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zanie
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Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 263 | |
| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 1:53:26 AM | | No! Just because you needed to ask. It's not for you. "Let" her? Now, there is another can of worms ... and you are not for her. You did ask, man! | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 4:20:37 AM | | I can't figure out why it was ok for you to do Mike's girlfriend, but you don't want to return the favor and let him do yours. It's "just sex," right? | |
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Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 265 | |
| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 4:32:42 AM | PLEASE tell me (you) are all on birth control / using condoms etc...!? Can you imagine the bloodwork needed for DNA for this outfit to determine the baby's father LOL ...???
Don't bring any children into the sex mess - if you all want to **** each others bf / gf go ahead.  Stupid people shouldn't breed though. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 4:39:58 AM | | HANDSM, you are so right. I am starting to think people should start having to be licensed to breed. There's a saying that goes, "you have to have a license to catch a fish, but they'll let any idiot raise a kid." | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 4:55:01 AM | Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Youv'e got to be kidding........first off it should tell you that your friend and his gf are no longer together........secondly you only are with this girl you have now for five months......and she asks you to go with someone else..........well......I see it like this........
GO FOR IT..........because turn around is fair play........you'll wind up without the girlfriend and your best friend........
Wake up and think.....................maybe its a new millenium......but im sorry the sharing crap is just that CRAP..........and whoever is doing it........is lieing to themselves, by nature humans are jealous.........THINK ABOUT IT.
and we'll see what you have to say in six months from now. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 5:39:29 AM | What is your definition of a girlfriend? Nowadays it is someone who lets you play with her genitals for free and will go see a movie with you. Obviously, you don't love her, if you did you would have felt your heart being torn out of you while they were kissing and you would have slugged your male friend when he was kissing your female friend. Since you referred to the act as "banging" it doesn't seem like this should be a big deal to you. If your male friend is hard up just give him your Mom. That way you can watch and not get jealous. Besides, he did you a favor with his ex-girlfriend now you owe him (and whether you approve or know it they will hook up behind your back if they didn't do so already). Your female friend is already into the swinger lifestyle and so are you from 'banging' his ex. If you are a very good friend allow your 'friends' to do whatever they want. In this crumbling form of society, that's what friends are for, right? Stop being so emotional, it's just like a book you read that you enjoy and you are just passing on that used book to a couple of friends (you really think she'll want to stop just with your one male friend?) You let him read Chapter One, you gotta let him read the whole book now since you gave it to him. Don't be an Indian giver.
And if you're a really smart guy, maybe you can turn this into a lucrative business opportunity and advertise your 'girl friend's whoring on a website. Be an entrepreneur and make some money out of the deal. Think of all the cool stuff you can buy with the proceeds. Tell your buddy to tell all his friends about her, too. $$$$$$$$.
And that small voice in your head that was upset and told them to stop? Ignore that voice, it was just the last whimperings of your conscience and morals. Don't worry, I think you killed it. Carry on. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 5:59:58 AM | | My personal opinion... to each his own. I think what people do in the privacy of their own home is their own business, not the business of others. I realize this could be an issue for a great debate, but when it is all said and done, what goes on in ones sex life is truly no one elses business(as long as their no illegal things going on). The issue here is tho, you feel you are going to resent her and ultimately dump her. With that being said, I think you have your answer. NO ONE needs to do or agree to do (or watch) anything they will be umcomfortable with.. so given what you are saying about how you think you will feel, I would have to give you the advice of NOT doing this. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 6:18:11 AM | Well OP it seems to me you ansewered your own question in your first post....
You care about her too much to let her do it, so don't. If you care about her that way and feel those jealous feelings could be possible you love her and if you want to still be with her it would be a bad idea to let this happen. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 6:22:26 AM | This thread reminded me of a gal I dated many years ago. Shortly after splitting up we bumped into each other. She started to tell me how her new boyfriend treated her like a queen.
"On the second date he took me to an exclusive club. It cost $$$. He shows me that he really loves me", she boasted.
"Really", I questioned. "I never heard of that club. What is it like?"
"It's a swinger's club," she gloated.
I almost choked. "On the second date he took you to a swinger's club and you think that means he loves you," I stammered. "He was trying to trade you for something better!"
Anyway, thanks for the great memories, Ottpilgrim. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?jealously
Posted: 8/8/2007 6:39:42 AM | "jealously= relationship killer! Dump jealously and your free. There is nothing wroung
with your gf banging your friend. Just like there would be nothing wroung with the three of you living together in a poly type relationship.
I'm poly and lived with two women for over twenty years and if different kinds of cancer hadn't taken them I'd still be with them. But because of jealously I've never saw a true
lasting m/f/m poly relationship last. Just like the ape man is programed to love love more than one female at the same time. But also like the ape he is not programed to share his
females with another male. Females love each other different than men do. They love
crying together over a sad movie, and doing girl things together. Where on the other hand
as a male ages he could care less if there's another man or not. He thinks his home and women are his domain alone. Where as if females didn't have it beat into her head from birth to be jealous instead of the way she is born. Sharing her home and man with another woman would be no problem.
One other thing here. Just because a woman has sex for sex with another man don't make her a slut! And it don't mean sge don't love the one she lays down with at night.   | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 8:04:27 AM | | well seems to me that if this girl is attracted to him there gonna be with it other at some point wheather you like it or not.my advice to you is move on and find different kinda friends and a different g/f you obviously out grew this kinda life style and are looking for a one on one kinda relationship.trust is hard to find these days and obviously you wont be able to trust this woman alone with this man.basically cause her and your friends find nothing wrong with this life style.and for them its fine.but like i said i think you are past it been there done that kinda thing.to me it kinda seems empty though.I want to be able to leave my girl alone with any man with out second guessing her.I dont think you found the right woman yet good luck in your search bro you should keep looking | |
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