| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?jealously
Posted: 8/8/2007 8:17:46 AM |
Just like there would be nothing wroung with the three of you living together in a poly type relationship. Incorrect; 99% of the people in Western civilization do NOT live a polyamorous lifestyle; you are recommending a fringe activity upon the majority of us as normal behavior when clearly it is not. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 12:08:59 PM | | Sure share her if you like used up material.. Sorry b ut jealousy is a natural thing in nature and companionship. She wants to experiment. Ask her how she would feel if you banged other women with her watching, Bet she wouldn't be all for it. | |
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AlexSB
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 1:06:37 PM | OP: If you are questioning it they way you are, and are as insecure about the situation as you have already stated; then why risk getting hurt? If she needs more than what you can give her at times; tell her to get toys! | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 2:04:54 PM | The fact that your jealous means you're not into it..
i have been in swinging relationships... and its the fastest way to ruin a relationship.. especially where you are.
First of all .. FRIENDS SHOULD ALWAYS BE OFF LIMITS. Post a couple profile somewhere and find other couples.. or people just for that purpose... unfortunately.. now that your GF and friend have had a little fun.. its going to turn into trouble.
And dont buy into if it was another girl thing. Someone else is someone else.. male or female. If you aren't into the lifestyle.. I highly recommend you DO NOT enter it. it WILL destroy your relationship. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 2:19:44 PM | As someone who toiled in the fields of decadence and debauchery once upon a time in my life, I can suggest this. While sexual experimentation is fun and exciting, it does not come naturally to the human condition. I have never known of a couple who sexually experimented, that did not suffer some type of hurt in their relationship, as a result. I think the chief hurt comes to men, for this reason. Women are better built for this type of activity. Not that woman are eager to engage in this type of sexual activity. A woman does not have to worry about an erection. As long as a woman has the desire she can go time after time. A man is lucky to be able to achieve more than 2 erections in a single session. So place your self in a scenario, where you and your "friend" are going at it with your "GF". You have what was called in the middle ages, "The Kings First Right". You are spent! Your "friend" and your "girlfriend" go at it. But, it turns out that your friend has better stamina and better recuperative powers than you will ever hope to. After they are at it for the second time, and your "twigs and berries" are still knapping, how are you going to feel?
I have heard of men who cajoled their woman to get involved in this type of activity. What I just described often happens. The man sits there and feels like a fool and feels like he has created a "Frankenstein". The woman realizes that this is a great deal for her, and she is running with her new found sexual freedom.
Eventually, both realize that this type of experimentation is one that blows up in their faces. Plus it is the type of activity that breeds contempt and bad feelings on both sides.
Now throw in the feelings of love, and what we humans have grown to expect from mutually given and received love; exclusivity! I will not try to describe this any further because anyone with intelligence can imagine the destructive powers of this type of decision. It is like the atomic bomb, one the genie was let out of the bottle, it can not be forced back in.
Beside if you both truly love each other, how much better do you think it gets? | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/9/2007 6:42:27 PM | | Been there done that, you and Mike are still friends and will be after this banging, let him go for it. I see no problem, you have what it takes to take your relationships to the next level. Nevermind the rest of the freaks that cant get past home plate. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/9/2007 7:13:02 PM | Personaly.....
Me thinks these two are going to get it on anyway !
You gave her the thumbs up to flirt, then got all jealous , shes now got the burning desire for him (the chemistry) and thats probably going to explode.
You have made your own bed and are going to have to lye in it ... sorry m8 .
And also, i think you are ganna end up losing a m8 with this ! you was quick to sleep with his gf but when it comes to yours, you shut up like a clam ....Double standards ?
I wouldn't be falling in love with some one who wants to be like quality street (likes to share) if i was you .
Lots of trouble coming your way me thinks
Good luck
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/9/2007 7:49:52 PM | just my opinion here but.............
if she is wanting to get involved in group sex then she isn't attracted to u physically but maybe be mentally ......when they want to explore they have lost interest in you and are waiting for a chance to run but wanting your permission............
can u really trust Mike ?
maybe there is something going on now and you have no idea it is.........
i would rethink on classifying him as a friend......friends do not do friends g/f 's...........they wish there friend happiness and let the relationship be and control there horomones and go get there own meat lol.............not there buddy's .....even if she is flirting and looking for it the man has respest and backs off for the sake of his male friend.............
if this girl is happy with you / you are with her .........then why are you sending her off to a friend ? giving the permission if that was me i would be that my man and no i ain't gonna flirt with you Mike
giving her and Mike permission to go ahead and fool around/flirt once you have given that permission it won't end that will be taken all the time and it will come back in your face when you catch them in your bed and the words said will be " u gave us the ok "
if she is enjoying the attention from you and Mike in games and foreplay and sex .....then who else does she have under her wing and you have no idea about
can you trust the girl/Mike when you aren't around ?...........i wouldn't
further more a friend does not due his friends g/f 's
peace good luck | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/10/2007 7:42:00 AM | Pilgrim , I wouldn't, the remark about if it was another girl you wouldn't have a problem give me a break
what is good for the goose is good for the gander and vice a versa.
I have one simple rule I don't share period. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/10/2007 8:01:03 AM | Only one answer to your question MORON
are you really that thick upstairs or were you dropped on your head as a child?
why on God's green earth would you want your girlfriend to bang your friend? | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/10/2007 8:06:14 AM | | Several angles on this one. First of all, do you see this as a long term relationship? Do you see this as the "one"? Do you see marriage and family down the road? If the answer is yes, then I probably would not risk it. Secondly, how secure do you feel about of relationship? Do you feel sufficiently secured that your gf would not run away with mike or other guy, as a result of this? Again, if you do not feel secure, why risk. Third, I sensed that you and mike are rather close friends. How important is your relationship with mike, who appears to expect reciprocity here, given your experience with his gf. You may want to take that into consideration as well. Other than that, it sounds like fun! | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/10/2007 8:13:38 AM | | this is a silly thread ppl are saying dont let her unless you want to have a slut for a girlfriend. In my opinion she is already a slut cuz she got hot and heavy with your friend and wants to be allowed to have sex with him. If she is your girlfriend she shouldnt even be open to that especially with someone who is a freind of yours. I think think you 2 would be better of with a friends with benefits status then bf/gf status. If your not going to be exclusive why pretend to be a couple? Just enjoy it for what it is honestly | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/10/2007 9:05:37 AM | Yes you should..and when he is finished with her let him bang you also
After that go bang your head into a concrete wall and see if any brains fall out | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/10/2007 12:24:16 PM | hello? if u hafta ASK us u KNOW the answer u will allow it as ur morals arent in tact as hers arent as well........for if they were there would be no need for discussion
kathi | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/11/2007 3:21:00 PM | i will apoligise as this is my first post.....but i find the thread very interesting....
My first opinion on the subject is that this post, and the vast majority of the others, should be disregarded as unless someone has actually been in a similer situation...meaning a mmf or ffm 3sum, its hardly likely they/ or i for that matter, can truely give u insight. Never judge a man (or woman ) till u have been in there shoes....
Now with that said ill toss in my 2 cents....
Sexual experimentation is as old as sex itself, and monogamy is not genetically but socially hard wired behavior in humans, so all the people crying that it will automatically destroy your relationship are for the most part basing there thoughts on what they are conditioned 2 believe. it may or may not....and thats up 2 the 2 of you to determine.
I think the key issue here is your own sexual orientation.....assuming both mike and yerself have bi sexual tendencies i would guess there is a good chance that a positive
experience may b enjoyed, as the giving recieving of pleasure may be shared across the 3 parties. If u are not open 2 this then i would assume that while she may well have an amazing time, the simple fact that the experience will b primarily to the benefit of your friend and gf ( both recieving the rush of newness ) may lead u to feel the resentment that you say you may feel.....
sorry about the length, forgive me, again this is my first post | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:56:13 AM | I know a guy who knows a guy that could reapair your damaged FRONTAL LOBE.
Or you can try this,,You have sex with her from behind and your friend behind you
Problem Solved..Now your relationship with both of them has cum full circle
Question is:: when all is said and done who is making the sandwiches | |
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