| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:16:23 AM | Sure... go for it...........if you want to end up losing your girlfriend.
Very few people can do this and keep their relationships together. Your friend had NO reason to start making passes at your gf JUST because he doesn't have anyone. Ofcourse, jealousy would come out.
You've done it with him and his EX.... but that doesn't mean you'd be comfortable allowing him to have sex with your current girlfriend.....
Maybe look at why it would be ok if it were another girl when you were ok with jumping into their mix... | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:17:31 AM | I must be really old fashioned or just plain messed up in the head but I would never accept another man's passes or even consider having sex with anyone else especially a friend of my b/f.
Dang, I must be getting old... | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:21:43 AM | | I admit sex is a private intimate occasion but there are times that we just have sex and there are times we make love. I don't like to use those words very often because i feel that they are special and convey how deeply your feelings are for the other person. By over using them it cheapens the meaning, and i need a way to tell her how much i care at the right times. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:27:30 AM | If you really care for this girl and think that you two might have a future beyond "going together" then by nooooo means should you let your friend enjoy sex with her while you watch...HELLLLOOOOO | |
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tdh46
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Joined: 1/7/2007
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:33:31 AM | What are friends for Op....I mean really, it aint no fun unless your friend can have some right???
God somedays it really don't pay to chew through the straps and leave the asylum.
What would make anyone with any kind of brains think it might be ok for his friend to be ****ing his girlfriend a girl that he says he has feeling for??????
Look up the term MONOGAMY in the dictionary Op. To me that's what a true relationship should be all about. The fact that you felt the need to ask such a stupid question only shows your mental make-up. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:39:36 AM | I'll be blunt: If you aren't sure and every feeling you have about the consequences is negative, what the hell is motivating you to commit relationship suicide?
When in doubt, stay out. Don't be a dumbass, you'll end up embarrassing yourself. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:39:39 AM |
if you want a slut for a girlfriend go for it!
so if they're both participating in the group sex, his girlfriend is still a slut? pfffft. I don't see how she's a slut if they're both participating, and it's something they're both into. Some couples are into group sex, and theres nothing wrong with it. | |
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a1na2
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Joined: 10/3/2006
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:43:20 AM | OP : What's your hurry ?
You don't seem ready so why not wait til you are ?
BTW, good for you for ignoring the closed minded/judgemental bozos on here !
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:45:31 AM |
BTW, good for you for ignoring the closed minded/judgemental bozos on here !
I'm with you on that one, there are way too many prudes who live in this country, who think just because a couple experiments sexually, and wishes to broaden their sexual horizons into something that could very well be a lot of fun, that that makes them sluts.
Pffft, some people need to open their mind. I'll just say this much
don't knock it till you try it! | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:49:20 AM | you need to STUDY 3 some psychology.
I've never had one : (
But, I know there is a psychology to doing it properly. And people who think they can break the rules get hurt.
one of them is. never, ever, ever, ever, have a 3 some with one of your gf's friends. Ever.
It has to be someone you pick up.
Umm... there's a guy named David Shade ( google him) who's supposedly an expert on this.
I haven't read his stuff, but, I've heard about him via my 20 yr old friends.
Dude....I SO wish I was your age....oh man. I crave being in my 20's.
Anyways, study first, then go about the business of yummy 3 somes. You Lucky pr*ck. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:49:59 AM | A-You don't want another guy/your mate in the threesome but another girl is ok?? Hypocrisy in my honest opinion! Of course because 1-then you can have your fun with your gf and another girl and 2-the chances of your girl getting any straying thoughts due to being with another woman is much less than if she's with another guy. Sorry but it's hypocrisy.
The way to make a situation like this fair however I guess is to have one threesome with yourself, your gf and another girl and one with yourself, your gf and another guy.
B-Great that you're relationship is so open but in my honest opinion only couples who are ultra ultra confident in each other and their trust for each other OR a couple who couldnt really care less if their relationship goes down the drain/ie don't care to take chances with their relationship should go for it. You mate are in the middle. You're already showing signs of jealousy so if you love your gf then don't do it full stop.
This kind of stuff is fantasy...a good relationship with a significant other is reality and something that shouldn't be taken lightly.
And no it's not unreasonable to not want your gf to be with another guy and it's not wrong to feel jealous by it. This is what we call fidelity. But in my opinion it has to go both ways. Ie either fidelity both ways or experimenting both ways... | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:51:41 AM |
open their minds, you mean open their legs. if being a slut was all that hunky dorry you wouldn't be offended by the word.
who said I was offended? I'm just saying how is she a slut? she isn't....it seems to me the author is interested in group sex, but first wants to get rid of the whole jealousy issue. Plus he consented to the activity his girlfriend had with said friend in the first post. It's not like she went behind his back and did it. I see nothing wrong with these two wanting to experiment with group sex.....it's just gonna take some work on the authors part. | |
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a1na2
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Joined: 10/3/2006
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 12:07:32 PM | Meph : High five.... people have various definitions for "slut " and " experimentive" ...
I'm glad I'm not in the prudish , vanilla , limited category that most inhabit !!!
YAAAAAAAAAAAWN
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pbmac3
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Joined: 5/16/2007
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 12:22:16 PM |
My gf has never expressed any interest in any particular friend. She has shown interest in the idea of a MMF threesome. It just so happens that my friend Mike is one of my only friends who is open to such a combination, probably due to his bi-sexual tendancies. So when we were all drinking, the topic was brought up and we started to play around a bit before i got too uncomfortable.
I think the OP is overlooking a possibility here. He mentioned in the opening post that he had been with his buddy and his buddy's gal in the past. We find out later that his buddy has "bi-sexual tendencies"........ could those "tendencies" come to fruition during these encounters? Perhaps that is the lure of the MMF for the OP.
so if they're both participating in the group sex, his girlfriend is still a slut? pfffft. I don't see how she's a slut if they're both participating, and it's something they're both into. Some couples are into group sex, and theres nothing wrong with it.
Actually, I think that would make them both sluts.... Not that there is anything wrong with that! lol | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 12:31:41 PM | If these people are sluts is besides the point.
the issue is about control... he is trying to control this woman and who she will have sex with, or won't have sex with...
its a baby dom and sub situation... doesnt even have anything to do with sex... love or anything like that.
its control, that is the only issue. | |
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| Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 7/23/2007 12:41:15 PM | | Simple question to ask yourself about this. If your initial (gut feeling) is a negative one (i.e. discomfort, fear, etc), then the answer is simply no. | |
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