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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/18/2007 3:51:36 PM | ("Classy... "Ugly pig"? Very classy")
cyn3100. If you think i'm an "ugly pig" then that is probably your perogative, i can let it pass. I've met plenty of women like you before. C'okay. People who feel good about themself do not criticise others to make themself feel better, so.....!!!  | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/18/2007 3:53:40 PM | | Women say they are looking for a long term relationship, if they are flashing their boobs, how can men take them seriously. Most men would take that as they are looking for an intimate encounter. Plus men like a bit of mystyke in a woman anyway, they dont want to see everything on offer, they would rather fin d that out for themselves later | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/18/2007 3:55:18 PM | Same reason that some men post pictures of themselves half naked and or laying on a bed. If they are after intimate encounter's then fine, that is the advert they are putting out and if thats all they want then be honest about it. As long as both parties are happy with this then no harm is done.
But if they are after a long term relationship then I doubt they get many serious offers. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/18/2007 4:07:13 PM | I have seen a few of those profiles and I usually move right on to the next one. If I were looking for a one nighter, then maybe so but I'm looking for a lot more than that.
It may attract a lot of guys but not me.
Dale
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/18/2007 4:08:54 PM | To see how some have interest in their clevage....... I think that would be a turn off, same goes for the men showing their hunky chestys off!! ( I never came here for sex, but only to get started on a companion, sex is on hold!!!). I would say on both sides big no no...... it may not get them far, but knowing their luck....... there's some out there that would go for such. 
If I were you... I'd avoid them and pass on them find some other fish, wouldn't worry about them. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/18/2007 4:10:13 PM | My guess? The same reason guys show pics of their cars, house, bike....They are fishing and that's the bait they're using.
What surprises me is when they complain that "that's all women/men want". I say why dangle it if that's not what you're pushing....no pun intended.... | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:53:57 PM | Yes I do see women showing alot of skin in their pics but say they are not looking for intimate encounters and that the weirdos should get lost. Kind of hypocritical don't you think?
Yea that reminds me of a girl that I dated in college but in the opposite way.
She dressed conservatively. She was brought up religious and strict trying to convince me and others that she was not easy and not that type of girl. Well I knew what we were doing was not just playing candyland in bed for half a year. She ended up being promiscuous later and in denial about who she was when I confronted her.
So see you never know..... | |
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Posted: 9/19/2007 11:26:46 AM | | Of course you get demonized my friend. If not that, then these women who post these photos are forced to look in the mirror and admit what they really are. I couldn't agree more with your post. Fortunately for me, I've met the love of my life and don't have to worry about this anymore. Good luck finding yours. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/19/2007 11:37:45 AM | well i think if a women puts a pic of her breasts on her profile she probably doesnt have other qualities to show for so she goes for the obvious ones lol.
i mean there is a difference with cleavage pics wich shows the person's head but to just take a pic of theyre breasts i say that shows they are pretty easy and not really looking for something serious.
plus i think thoses womens have self esteem issues.they think the only way they can have someone interested in them is with theyre bodies.thats pretty sad.same goes with all thoses men on here with pics on theyre profiles with them shirtless and showing theyre six pack abs. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2007 12:02:08 PM |
Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Uh, I dunno, lemme think, hmmm, maybe,do ya reckon?...BECAUSE IT WORKS!!???
Because we women think we can get a man's attention by alluding to sex, and foolishly hope that once we have their attention we can shift their focus to dating, companionship, "being there for me".... unfortunately, THAT premise all too often proves to be faulty, and then the women are here b*tching that men are dogs and only want quick sexual gratification with minimal effort. This may sound a little oldfashioned , maybe even puritanical, but I always loved my grandma's(1904-1993)comment "if it ain't for sale don't put it in the shop window".
Now, I couldn't resist the temptation to put just a little hint of "sexiness" by including a photo that shows off MY legs LOL.
I suspect if we women only posted pictures wearing long dresses and sunbonnets, (or birkahs, or completely veiled)we'd get little or no response.
Having said that, I do want to point out to my fellow female PoF members, if you post very sexy/sugggestive pictures, and then expect the guy to be interested only in your personality, intellect, etc, and have NO INTEREST in sex until you and he are all but married, you got another think coming...
Meaning absolutely no disrespect, and with no intent whatsoever to insult mens' intelligence, guys, ya gotta admit you tend to go by the pictures more than you do the words, no? Sometimes I SO envy you that characteristic...
The key, I guess, is try to find a middle ground that uses BOTH your physical AND your nonphysical attributes. But guys just do seem to go by the pictures more than the words...and I mean that just simply as a neutral observation, NOT as any kind of negative or unkind thoughts.
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/19/2007 2:43:19 PM | What an interesting discussion. People seem to have a lot of hangups on this board.
A few comments:
- Women have breasts. Get over it.
- Just because a woman has breasts, it doesn't mean she wants to drop her pants for any guy that asks.
- A full body picture is very appropriate on a dating site.
- Cleavage shots simply state that a woman has cleavage.
- Nice cleavage adds to the whole package, and show that a woman is comfortable with her body.
- Doesn't every man on this site want a woman who is sexual?
- Enlightened men realize that a woman's sexuality is only a portion of her multi-dimensionality. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/19/2007 3:02:43 PM |
Enlightened men realize that a woman's sexuality is only a portion of her multi-dimensionality
In fact that whole post was well said.
The problem is, there is no filter/rule/barrier that keeps UNenlightened men from signing up here, or for online dating sites in general. I know some of the pay sites supposedly screen and confirm that their members are who they say they are and are truly single, as far as I know, there is no archive, public or private, no website or online service that can verify ENLIGHTENMENT. So the controversy continues...
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/19/2007 3:22:19 PM | Wow. You guys will HATE my profile. HAHAHAHHA
I took that pic because (1) I'm damn proud that my mammaries don't touch my knees by age 56 and two kids ....(2) My web cam won't let me stand more than two feet away to take a picture, even with the cordless mouse (3) I don't have anyone I can ask to click the clicker for me while I stand 10 feet away (4) I'm damn proud that my mammaries don't touch my knees by age 56 and two kids....and
Last but not least.....
It SHOWS MY LEVEL OF FAT. Thats 200 pounds!
P.S. Is there some reason why we should not feel comfortable about posting a picture here of something we would wear to a city beach?
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/19/2007 3:39:13 PM |
blueskys777 - then she wants a man with decency and respect?
What an attractive woman. Hopefully somewhere in Missouri there is a man who would greatly appreciate a partner who is in great shape and still sexy.
As for her poses, I am sure that it attracts a lot of attention. That doesn't mean that she is loose, just sexy. Maybe flynlion would be less threatened if she posed in a rocking chair and shawl. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 9:02:11 AM | There's a big difference in men showing their abs, and women showing their breast, since a man can be seen, and be legal ,without a shirt on in public, and display his abs, if he has any,but can a woman display her breasts?? of course, not!! well, not here anyway!! Maybe in the next century!!
I don't mind seeing a woman's profile with a little cleavage, but done tastefully, but I have seen some where the photo was taken looking directly down from the top of her head.... it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what she wants you to look at!! | |
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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 9:09:04 AM | You know I was just talking about this topic with a friend this week. I dont understand what women, or men for that matter are thinking when they post nake nude pictures. As for me personally, I'm as sexual as the next girl, but when seeing a almost nude pic doesnt do anything for me. Sorry, guys....lol..but it just doesnt. Give me something to imagine, or dream about anyday, and you'll have my attention.
Besides....arent there sites on the net that are sexual in nature and welcome nudes as well as those that enjoy viewing them? Just thought POF was a bit different than those.. | |
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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 11:47:24 AM | well my pic would it be considered to be distasteful? i've actually been thinking of taking it down for this reason have gotten a couple of bad emails. and people seem to be getting the wrong idea? i didn't think it was too bad but i dunno any opinions? | |
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