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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 11:47:24 AM | well my pic would it be considered to be distasteful? i've actually been thinking of taking it down for this reason have gotten a couple of bad emails. and people seem to be getting the wrong idea? i didn't think it was too bad but i dunno any opinions? | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 2:58:00 PM | Why should i cover up? I just took one of my pictures off because of the narrow minded comments on her. Can't believe that because i have a shot up where there might be breasts in it i get labelled as "easy" or "up for it!" That couldn't be further from the truth! In fact i've had 1 serious relationship in my life. Never had a one night stand or a fling either! I put that picture up, SIMPLY because i thought it was a nice picture! I have breasts (so does every woman) and the truth is i don't really notice them half as much as i now realise other people do.... so the suggestion i'm doing it for attention is obsurd! If i wanted attention THAT badly i'd take the lot off! I'm not gonna walk around with a polo neck and a cardi on so the fact is i have cleavage and it shows no matter what i wear! I am comfortable with my body, plus i'm only 5 foot so i'd look swamped if i covered every bit up....what am i meant to show? After 2 kids my t*ts are the only good bits left!  | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 3:24:27 PM | Why should i cover up? I just took one of my pictures off because of the narrow minded comments on her. Can't believe that because i have a shot up where there might be breasts in it i get labelled as "easy" or "up for it!" That couldn't be further from the truth! In fact i've had 1 serious relationship in my life. Never had a one night stand or a fling either! I put that picture up, SIMPLY because i thought it was a nice picture! I have breasts (so does every woman) and the truth is i don't really notice them half as much as i now realise other people do.... so the suggestion i'm doing it for attention is obsurd! If i wanted attention THAT badly i'd take the lot off! I'm not gonna walk around with a polo neck and a cardi on so the fact is i have cleavage and it shows no matter what i wear! I am comfortable with my body, plus i'm only 5 foot so i'd look swamped if i covered every bit up....what am i meant to show? After 2 kids my t*ts are the only good bits left!
Nobody said you had to run around town in a polo neck and a cardigan, simply post tasteful photos of yourself on here so men understand there's more to you than just a body. There are many beautiful women who are also intelligent, but when you dress like a bimbo, people think you're as dumb as one too. And from reading what you wrote, you don't seem like a bimbo at all. I've been blessed by GOD to finally meet the woman of my dreams and please feel free to look at her profile, not one scantilly clad photo on it. That was one of the big reasons I was attracted to her not to neglect mentioning how kind, caring, funny, and intelligent she is. Her profile name is sweetpea143 . I've also have become friends with a very beautiful and intelligent woman from Scotland, profile name SCINTILLATION . As you'll see, she dresses very classy, nothing hanging out and is gorgeous. And I've known this young lady about a month now and she's every bit as classy as she looks. I'd suggest showing pictures like my girlfriend and SCINTILLATION do if you want to attract DECENT MEN. Unfortunately, we allow the neanderthals to live and walk among us ladies, the rest of us do apologize for them. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 4:15:15 PM | | I think some of those posting here are judging others by their own standards. To me breasts are beautiful (whatever shape and size!), natural, a sign of femininity and virtility. Breasts are for feeding children, they are not for sexual gratification. I wouldn't have a boob job because i like myself the way i am, and those people who don't, well i don't think a boob job is gonna change that! But by the same token, to say women who have boob jobs are looking for attention or are easy....well that is ridiculous! Are men really so self obsessed that they think everything women do is for the sole purpose of attracting them!!! I mean common, let's face it, it's not that hard and i don't think women have to go to those drastic measures to attract a mans attention! My breasts are natural and i'm not ashamed of them....It is not my breasts that are the problem, it is our society! | |
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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 4:18:48 PM | | I agree with Ruby. If women who wear low cut tops are complaining about men looking at their breasts, then they should cover up properly. I once met a well endowed lady who was wearing a very revealing low cut top. She scolded me for looking at her boobs. In my best Southern drawl, Rhett Butler imitation I said, "Lady....if you're gonna open the barn doors,I'm gonna look at the cows." 'Nuff said. | |
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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 4:23:31 PM | | .... Because by nature women are exhibitionists. They want men to stare. Oh they will say no and actually have you believing it , but the fact is millions of dollars are made in the fashion industry, annually, from low cut blouses, short skimpy skirts and bikinis leaving nothing to the imagination. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/20/2007 8:33:14 PM |
- Women have breasts. Get over it.
- Just because a woman has breasts, it doesn't mean she wants to drop her pants for any guy that asks.
- A full body picture is very appropriate on a dating site.
- Cleavage shots simply state that a woman has cleavage.
- Nice cleavage adds to the whole package, and show that a woman is comfortable with her body.
- Doesn't every man on this site want a woman who is sexual?
- Enlightened men realize that a woman's sexuality is only a portion of her multi-dimensionality.
Finally... someone who gets it. Thanks Lion!
If we don't show a little skin, we're prudes. If we do, we're easy. There is no winning. Guys say that confidence is very attractive, yet those are the same guys when we display (a little) of it, say that we have "self-esteem" issues.
Silly boys.  | |
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| Why ask why?
Posted: 9/20/2007 11:38:14 PM | Why do they????
HMMM... well, I would simply say...
Because they can...
Hooray for boobies!!!!
Why is this even a debatable question???? | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/21/2007 12:36:43 PM | Personally, I don’t post “boobies” or other body parts because, it’s reeks of distaste. Although I get asked (often) to send picks (especially body or nude shots) I figure if that’s all they’re interested in, they’re probably not interested in “looking under the hood” and I for one am not into superficialities. Only those who meet me in person will know otherwise. I for one don’t want any man ogling my body, unless it’s private and consensual. Just “putting it out there” for all to see, is rude. Who says everyone wants to see all that?
My personal opinion is, those who do so, are seeking attention. However the type of attention they recieve may not be what they truly desire. Yet and still, they are willing to compromise both themselves, and their worth for what? I see no value in it.
There is something to be said of classless or clueless women; however I’ll leave that post up to the fellas! | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/21/2007 1:21:31 PM | "I think some of those posting here are judging others by their own standards. To me breasts are beautiful (whatever shape and size!), natural, a sign of femininity and virtility. Breasts are for feeding children, they are not for sexual gratification. I wouldn't have a boob job because i like myself the way i am, and those people who don't, well i don't think a boob job is gonna change that! But by the same token, to say women who have boob jobs are looking for attention or are easy....well that is ridiculous! Are men really so self obsessed that they think everything women do is for the sole purpose of attracting them!!! I mean common, let's face it, it's not that hard and i don't think women have to go to those drastic measures to attract a mans attention! My breasts are natural and i'm not ashamed of them....It is not my breasts that are the problem, it is our society!"
Women don't get breast inplants to attract men??? Are you kidding me??? Please tell me for what other reason women get breast inplants if not for attention, especially by men?????
Breast inplants, especially if taken to ridiculous proportions hurt your back, can become cancerous and are otherwise very dangerous to have. There's nothing good about having breast inplants other than attracting attention. I could maybe understand a woman who's chest is non-existent getting a little something to hold, but the ones that crack me up are the ones who already got a little something to hold and go out and buy basketballs. And you honestly thing these women don't have issues??? Now, Claire did say one thing that's correct: Our society is the reason women do these things. But, at the same time, be a strong enough woman to tell society to go take a flying leap and you're gonna do what you want as a beautiful intelligent woman for your own reasons. But, to do that, comes with consequences. Fortunately, there are a few of us left with old school morals. Something that is fleeting daily in this society. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/21/2007 6:32:30 PM | ^^^To Message 670.
Women get impants for all kinds of resons, i believe that the main reason why the do so is to bolster their OWN self esteem and ego, NOT to attract men! You tell me, why do women need to do that to attract men? Like i said, attracting men is easy. And normal sized breasts do not cause backache......freakish, watermelon sized breasts hurt yeah, and as far as i can see there IS only one reason for wanting abrormaly large breasts....and THAT is to get attention! | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/21/2007 8:43:49 PM | You tell me, why do women need to do that to attract men?
Claire, to answer your question dear, they don't NEED to do it, they CHOOSE to do it. (For whatever reasons they lie and tell themselves) It’s a lack of self acceptance and a mindset, really. There are women out there who will do anything for attention, or to attract a man, or to alter what is natural. They have a somewhat distorted self image, such that they feel they require morphing or enhancements because in their natural state they deem themselves unattractive or not "up to par".
I definitely am NOT an expert when it comes to breast augmentation. I for one am pleased with the package that God chose for me. Personally, I wish ALL people felt this way. I mean think about it!!! If our creator picked our particular set of qualities, (looks, personality, and other intricacies) with Him being the ALL wise and ALL knowing being, shouldn’t we appreciate our genetic make-up too?
Accepting ones self and finding someone else who appreciates you for who you are is the REAL objective.
By the way, you and your children’s pictures are adorable! I mean that it the most motherly, plutonic way!
I hope this answers your question, or helps in some way! | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/22/2007 8:10:47 AM | ^^^ Yeah, i see what your saying but i have to agree to disagree. I mean it's so much easier, cheaper and less painful to wear loads of make up and provocative clothes! I only say that because i have 3 sisters who have all had breast augamentations for one reason or another (read back to my previous posts) and i know 100% definitively that for them it is not about attention....nobody even knows they've had a boob job because they don't expose them, they're natural (yes i have seen and felt them and can't see the differnce between them and natural ones) and they don't talk about it....not even to family....they've had it done for them and they've done it and as far as they're concerned that's it, they don't need to talk about it all the time, it's just 1 part of their person, it's not everything, they don't want the focus to be on their boobs, THEY know they are there and that's what makes them happy!.... and if their partners appreciate them then that is a bonus!
And all you men who say you hate fake ones, i assure you if you saw a pair that were naturally done, i.e under the muscle and in proportion, you WOULDN'T be able to tell the difference....i guarantee you. I am a woman and if i didn't know better I wouldn't even be able to tell the difference!!!
I think the people who are making these comments have had no experience of people who have had breast implants other than on t.v and in magazines where the stories you hear about are always the bad ones. If someone has a positive story they don't usually tend to talk about it in magazines! | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/22/2007 9:53:26 AM | Women have breasts. Get over it.
- Just because a woman has breasts, it doesn't mean she wants to drop her pants for any guy that asks.
i agree
what i do not agree with is a women who has a shot with cleavage and states in her profile do not e-mail for one night stand -- not looking for sex ect... -- then do not "advertize" that -- that may be what you want are attracting to your profile by that kind of pic ( and by cleavage one that shows looking straight down from the head ) a little cleavage is great and leads to the imagination -- but for the ones who have a BIG shot of it on the pic and say dont e-mail for one niter ect to me is sending 2 different messages -- and for them i pass on by -- i am sexual -- but i also have respect for you and i am on POF to hopefully maybe meet someone ( of my dreams ) for a LTR -- if i was looking for just sex or a 1 night stand i would go to someplace like horny4u.com ( you get the idea ) -- dont use sex as a weapon and then get PO'd because you get e-mails basically asking for the thing you stated in your profile you are not looking for -- dont let your pic say one thing -- your profile another  | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/22/2007 1:11:06 PM | Women get impants for all kinds of resons, i believe that the main reason why the do so is to bolster their OWN self esteem and ego, NOT to attract men! You tell me, why do women need to do that to attract men? Like i said, attracting men is easy. And normal sized breasts do not cause backache......freakish, watermelon sized breasts hurt yeah, and as far as i can see there IS only one reason for wanting abrormaly large breasts....and THAT is to get attention!
Well Claire, all I can say is I hope you find a man to treat you the way I treat my sweetheart. I'm so lucky to have her and I hope each and everyone in this world can someday experience what I have with mine. There's nothing better in this world that I've ever known than my girlfriend's love. I only chimed in on this subject for the sake of conversation and providing a viewpoint. I'm so thankful none of the things that are normally talked about in these forums are no longer applicable to me. God Bless and Good Luck | |
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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/22/2007 6:37:52 PM | | I post pictures of myself in all locations from at home to going out attire. I worked in clubs for a long time and I would wear low cut shirts an abundance of the time. Shirts that go up too high on women with large breasts and a smaller frame can make you look a lot heavier (I've learned this from various different fashion shows and what not). I feel comfortable and they don't look bad so I don't see why it isn't okay. I didn't put pictures up just because of my cleavage but to show a full body shot and pictures of me out and about. I think the girls that put pictures of just their breasts up are starving for attention and usually get the unwanted type. | |
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