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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/21/2007 8:20:34 AM | stephaniezowie
the reasons why you wanted to "show off" your boobs is your buisness tho i do aggree if POF are going to remove your picture they should apply the same rules to other posters.
i do know why a lot of women post pictures of their boobs and its just to titilate men........remember tho NOT ALL men are obsessed with tits , iam a leg man---even better if legs are seen in hose or stockings.
boob pics just turn me off
leg pics get my attention.
having said that tho i would still rather see a nice clear full height picture of a lady smiling and looking happy .
ladies keep your " boobs in bras" inside your blouses where they belong.
dont flaunt your tits to everyone....we dont all want to see them.
i COULD understand it more if women were to pose topless but the top half of some ones boobs ( above the nipple) is not really very sexy.....is it !!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/21/2007 8:37:19 AM | | Wow......3 yrs later this thread is still going, I'm impressed. Each and everyone of us is a gift created by our parents. Where we differ is how the gift is wrapped. When I look at photo's of women I believe there are just showing me how they are wrapped. Some are beautiful, some are not. What I do, is open up the wrapping to see what is on the inside. That is what really counts, I usually hope it isn't another tie. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/21/2007 9:02:23 AM | I did not know that this thread was still going.....
Most will post pictures showing what they hope are their best assets physically.... ...nothing wrong with that at all, as long as it is done tastefully.
If women have a good figure and a body to die for, then they will share part of it with their pictures. Men do it at well, and if they have great "abs" they seem to show up on a picture......all is advertising, and I do not have a problem with it as long as all of them are not that way, and you have a chance to see the individual in multiple poses showing the total person, and not just one area.
What sends up a red flag for me is having just one picture and it is just a head shot, and nothing more........that can be very misleading unless the individual is so specific with their profile description that it leaves nothing to the imagination comparing it to the one pic.
With all of that said.......just as some will do profile reviews and make suggestions to those that want them, I am more than willing to do the same with pictures and let you know if they are good enough to be on your profile or not......... 
Soooooooo Steph......let it rip.......
Just my opinion......  | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/21/2007 9:36:01 PM | | Unfortunately, sex sells, but intimacy doesn't. It's a shame that we live in a society that rewards people who have nice bodies, but could care less about those who are truely able to "love". I guess the media has to make its money somehow. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 2:47:48 AM | | maybe just maybe the reason that women post pictures of their breasts in their profile is because there are a fair few topless men are on here and they probably get put on a lot of women's favourite's lists....because they are topless and some women consider them 'hunky' ...............therefore some women have decided to do the same to maybe attract a mate also !!! I know that with my latest photo I am now on alot of men's favourite's lists but hey it has put a smile on men's faces as they have told me when they emailed me and I have replied thanking them for their compliments and none have passed rude remarks about the photo. Infact friends that I have on here before I put my photo on and have been chatting to for awhile consider my photo 'tasteful' ..............so come on us women do not comment or run down the topless men on here do we ,besides takes all sorts to make the world it would be very boring if we were all exactly the same ?????????????????????????????? | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 3:19:26 AM | Let's just call a spade a spade here. Boobs are used as an attractant. Like female deer urine. It attracts the opposite sex. Period.
Women please understand that basic fact. I'm not making any judgements here but trying to persuade me that you are being "artful" or "tasteful" is simply goofy. Topless bars make money because:
*NEWSFLASH* EXPOSED BREAST ARE IN THE AREA!
On that note, to all of those who try to float that ridiculous argument that men without shirts is the same thing...ever seen a topless men's club?
They'd go broke in a matter of minutes.
Bottom line: Men like breasts. Women have breast. Women know men like breasts. Women figure "we'll divert their attention later."
Just look at these!
And to all you "Nancy's" that say you're disgusted by the site of a breast, I'll bet a whole month's pay you have a stash of porn that would make Ron Jeremy blush. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 4:02:58 AM |
They are all just sluts and whores. Waste of flesh and time they are.
^^ To give that statement more punch, use "is, govn'a!" instead of "are" at end.
First year of my nursing course: we did an exercise to flush out biases, beliefs, etc. of different types of people with different life experiences. So, we were asked to write down the first thought/belief we had concerning people - some samples were:
-an old man feeding pigeons.
-a woman wearing a tool belt.
-a man or woman yelling loudly at a small child.
-and etc.
One though was "A single teenage mother".
So - at end, all the anonymous responses were read aloud ... for teenage mother the vast majority of phrases given were "slut", "skank", "easy", "loose", "no morals", and so on.
Keep in mind the majority of people in the class were women.
Were a few early-20's single mothers in that class who were damn hurt at those statements.
Now - a woman shows some cleavage in a photo ... we can all read into it as we want.
Personally I think if one photo is posted she's simply showing part of her that interests guys, just as if I posted a shirtless pic - doesn't mean I'm an easy skank, just offering a sample of another part of me that women might desire.
With that said, if a guy/girl is showing multiple pics of their ... "assets" - draw your own conclusions.
If you're the type of person who bathes after a dirty thought, this site may not be for you.
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 4:24:37 AM | AS a woman who is not well endowed I would say to those that insist on using that
as there weapon, they are insecure and needing to use that as a entrance point,
where as the mind is what you are left with in the end so it is sad that is the way
it goes. And I'm sure the well endowed would say oh she is just jealous yes I am but
I still would not be using that as my opening line. cheers girls | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 4:36:07 AM | It is called bait everyone. :) When fishing I always try to use the best bait possible for the fish I'm after. Men are visual creatures and let's face it. Boobies attract.
The reason this thread is still going is because of the fasination for womens breasts.
Now some may be in it just for the attention. I really don't care. I love eye candy. After all. I am a man.
Whenever I see a photo of of a women with nice breastessess I think she is saying........
Hello boys. Meet the twins. :)
Woof woof.
I thank you. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 5:09:56 AM | Thanks to all you great men who are taking the time to defend the women.....while there are so many other jealous and insecure women and insecure men attacking..... Sometimes I find we can be our own worst enemies in going for each other of the specie. I find though, that many of the ones attacking dont have even the confidence in themselves to post a pic. I dont know much about the pics the OP is talking about, I have never seen a total breast on this site. I have seen women in bathing suits, low cut top and I say if you got 'em....flaunt em  I am just defending women on principle......unless I am included in the lot but if so....guys and gals.....we cant help it! They are going to make themselves seen no matter what we do so for those who are offended at the sight of boob......pass on quick when you see them girls wanting to poke your eyes out...... | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 5:24:12 AM | That is a good Question. I have no idea, but it does send out the wrong impression I think. Women wonder why guys get it wrong and they ignore them when men make a comment, I agree with a person saying that they should be kept for private e-mails etc, and if the relationship gets deeper, then it is up to her, and him.
I may be wrong, but must women seem to be looking for the perfect man, when they themselves are not perfect. Be happy and enjoy life. I just hope that I do not upset anyone by saying this, but it is how I feel. Thanks | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 8:01:21 AM | Because they can.
Because it's their choice.
Because they want to.
Because this is an adult dating site.
Because if we don't like it, we can simply click on the next profile.
Because as adults, we should be free to express ourselves however we see fit.
Because I don't do it, it doesn't mean that others can't or shouldn't be allowed to:)
Because the world would be such a boring place if we were all the same?
Love and peace 
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 10:17:51 AM | like i have mentioned before and perhaps what many men have thought....i could understand if the women were posing topless but to see the top half of some womans boobs is personally not attractive and i really cant see what all the fuss is.
seeing as everyone on here should be 18 or over (adults) and also a woman topless is no big deal these days ( tho i could never see why a woman topless was ever such a shock anyway) and also that because we live in a PC world it is really only fair that women SHOULD be allowed to post "topless" pictures of them selves.
seeing as to some men a woman topless is such a thrill !!!!! and a turn on and to some women who love the attention they get from guys ogling their tits--then posing topless would really be to an advantage to these women who would in actual fact recieve much much more attention....just what they want........so everyone wins.
perhaps these women who enjoy flaunting the top half of their boobs to attract men ( and some women !!!) should contact POF officials and say " hey c`mon you guys, let us women pose topless too, in this PC world its not fair letting guys have all the fun".
c`mon ladies its up to you..........get yer juggs out for the lads ( and girls) !!!!!! | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 10:34:41 AM | | #1--because some think thats all they have to offer---duh! I wonder about why the men show off pics of cars, bikes, whatever is the toy of the day---do THEY not have anything to say...? yes I know this will catch flack, but its the truth--If boobs are the thing that you want to show/see--maybe there should be a separate heading for that---oh, there is already.... | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 12:08:51 PM | @message 748 and above.
I beg to differ. Half of the gift is in the wrapping. (so to speak) I don't think it is only me who appreciates the wrapping. What do you appreciate more? A gift unwrapped or wrapped? Which is more exciting? Unwrapping the gift of course.
There was a time (not that long ago) Where I too was a little bitter. :) BUT.................
Let's put things in perspective here shall we.
WOMEN LOVE ATTENTION. There is nothing wrong with that either. I do agree that some may approach snagging a mate the wrong way. Offering a sexual inuendo will only get that result. In many cases. I am sure the ladies are fully aware of what they are offering/showing. I for one am not complaining. Who am I to judge? Unless asked to be a judge of course. :)
I mentioned gift wrapping above.
A low cut top. Stockinged legs. Tight fitting clothing etc.. High heels even. Roowwwwwwwwrrrrrrrrrr. :) Can be quite erotic. I love eye candy. Who doesn't???
If the individual can pull it off. All the power to them. If it is just for the attention of numerous men or women for that matter. SO WHAT.
Relax already. It's all good.
Don't sweat the petty things. Pet the sweaty things.
I need serious help.
I thank you? | |
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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 12:25:06 PM | It is unfortunate but a fact of live, Men look at breast, knowly or unknowingly. Women look at male gonads area or inbetween the male legs, we are all like dogs, when dogs sees each other, the they smell each other behind, male or female. It is instinctive, we all just have to control ourselves and peak what ever we look at, not glue our faces around the aforementioned area. We all flaunt what we got. Dr. at the from of names, Esq. at the back, MBA, BA, PhD, do we complain, may be not. If your morals tell you not to look then look away or look at the eyes not down further. just my take
Nothing is wrong with dispalying what you got without going over board or letting it all hang out. show a little and cover those puppies up. Men no wrong packing imprint of your johnson is not a turn on. Hell, may be to some | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 11/22/2007 12:32:57 PM | this whole amateur phsycology bit about self-worth is a waste of time, sex sells. plain and simple. if they honestly feel their bodies are their best assets, does that make them any more or less than the people who are trying to impress you with a picture of their car? some people like to look, some people like to be looked at. others don't want to be part of either side of that equation.
why they do or do not is pretty much irrelevant, it is their choice and their business. who cares? it's all good!
we are who we are... as old soul mentioned, it'd be boring if we were all the same.
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