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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/15/2008 12:35:23 AM | | The trashier the photo, the less likely I'd send a message. Something about even pretending I'd want to date a girl that wants to show her goods off to any man tha'd look at it that makes me feel like I'm basically working for something I could have gotten for free. | |
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| Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/15/2008 8:05:38 PM |
If you see nudie profiles, make a report here. - Ticketoride > What about the women who swear, who tell the reader to f---k off at the end of their profiles? Does that count, or does that just add to their glamour and cuteness? > I could give you several who are so foul as to make Satan blush. > Best wishes - Soul Union. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/15/2008 8:19:16 PM | Do we really?? maybe its because they are so large they happen to be there, go look at my photo, There they are .... Is that a fair answer? Its not like I'm trying to shove them in some ones face LOL...Its just the Lord bless me...and I can't throw them over my shoulder yet... aoakley (if you wana get to heaven you got to raise alittle hel*)  | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/16/2008 2:04:36 AM | | I just went and looked at womens profiles showing plenty of breast in there photos and a lot of them have hundreds of people that have added them as favourites so it must do a good job of getting attention. The only question is how much mail would they have to sift through every day on POF? It must be very hard to deduct which people are worth pursuing if you get a lot of mail as you wont have the time but atleast i get to a free look i guess lol | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/16/2008 6:02:43 AM | I have alot to say about this subject... One of the things that bothers me is alot of men get the idea that every woman on this site has these types of pictures packed away and ready to toss around so you can oggle them...well sorry...that is what porn was invented for... I'm not here to be eye candy... (not that I'm the greatest, but certainly not the worst) So, basically what happens is since alot of the woman do these types of pictures some of the men "try" to intimidate the rest of us who try to hang on to some type of social norms into passing them a breast shot, leg shot etc.... I don't pass naughty pics around and have lost interest of men by not having some, but they weren't worth keeping their interest if that is all they want from me... I am a very confident women in the subject of my sex life and my body and don't possess many insecurities about it... I've had many compliments about my body thru the years from men and don't need to pass naughty pics around to get more....
Internet dating is different territory on this subject matter for sure, but I will stop and compare this to social norms before internet dating came along....Guys let's say you had a sexy waiter at a restaurant wait on you and you decide to ask her out...back in the 80's or 90's would you have said "hey, do you mind lifting up your shirt and letting me see your naked breasts before I decide to go out with you"....the answer is NO!!!! you would have known that she probably would have given you a nice slap across the face and dumped your tea or coke on your head....
Seeing a woman's naked breasts is a priviledge earned and not a freebee upfront duh!!!!!
The same example can be applied to many situations like the girl at the office you have a crush on ....let's say you are at the copy machine and get up the nerve to finally ask her out...and say hey...."can you lift up ur shirt and let me take a peek"...it was not considered socially normal then...why has it become so socially acceptable now?
Sincerely jadegreen (trying to figure this EZ generation out) | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/16/2008 11:46:25 AM | ^^^ Well said Personally... while breasts are ok.... I can basically take them or leave them visually (altough they are an erogenous zone for my GF)... I think we are a little bit boob crazy in society....magazines called "jugs" restaurants called "Hooters" ... I'm a butt guy myself.. so rather than a restaurant called "Jack in the box" how about one called "Ass In My Face"
In some societies boobs are not even considered a "sexual" or erotic body part... but most guys and alot of women consider them the holy grail of a woman's body....
Just wait until she is about 75 and they are hanging down into her morning coffee... then tell me how sexy they are
and in generally anyone either male or female who flaunts body parts in a pics seems a bit shallow and would turn me off
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/16/2008 4:42:09 PM | ^^^ There is a big difference between seeing some cleavage in a pic and a woman who is obviously "showcasing them" like they are up for first prize at the state fair..... Particularly the ones where you want to ask them where they bought them
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/16/2008 5:36:45 PM | I'm not gonna read 39 pages to find out if this question has been asked, but, does anyone think it just might have a bit to do with the lack of self confidence a woman might have regarding the rest of her "package"? (And, I'm talking about the part with the brains, sense of humor, interests....
Just my thoughts,
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/16/2008 10:54:05 PM | I personally don't have large breasts (b cup). I've asked men friends if I should consider breast enlargement (just to a "C" cup) and have been told over and over "no". They tell me the initial "boobs" sticking out of a top gets a look but beyond that it doesn't matter. I tried putting these push up things in my bra but end up taking them out because it embarrasses me to have cleavage that I've never had sticking out of my top. I don't see how women can stand having their breasts stared at. I personally like having a man look straight into my eyes.
Though, I do love showing off my legs. I guess it just depends on what you feel is an asset. I wonder if I shaved my head would it show off my brain? I do have one and it is one of my best assets!!! | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/16/2008 10:56:37 PM | Only have shots of the neck up? - Gwendolyn2008
That wouldn't work either, Gwendolyn2008. How many threads have I read about "head shots only" = deceptive &/or BBW?
The OP asked (back in 2004, wtf?!) "Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?"
The answer OP, is simple. Straight men like women. Most women have breasts. Breasts are part of a woman's nautral beauty & her profile is her means of using her natural feminine beauty to attract you, a man.
Very simple. It ain't brain surgery, folks. Just simple logic.
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The trashier the photo, the less likely I'd send a message. Something about even pretending I'd want to date a girl that wants to show her goods off to any man tha'd look at it that makes me feel like I'm basically working for something I could have gotten for free. - ExplosiveSheep
Well personally, I wouldn't want to date man who is so narrow-minded & uptight that he thinks "sexy" = trashy. | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/17/2008 6:42:23 AM | Okay, here's an issue that could be addressed also...why do some showcase themselves when they don't even look all that great? If they don't look that good go back and do some work on them....lol... That is a big pet peeve of mine...there is nothing worse than a man lifting up his shirt in his kitchen showing skin and there is really no tan, no abs, no good shape.....the same can be said for the females flaunting some that are droopy...not firm....no tan.... bad lingerie picked etc.... just in poor taste... Ooooh my butts burning already....  | |
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| Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/17/2008 7:07:37 AM | Jadegreen:
droopy? not firm?
Sweetie, it's o.k. to say THAT when you're only 38......but, us "older" gals have learned that when you're lying down, they're ALL flat!....And, many men have also told me that anything more than a mouthful is wasted anyway....
OMG, did I say THAT?
Sorry, I just couldn't help it...you walked right into it, with your remark....
Fondly, Knittin Kitten
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