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 Author Thread: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
 dae

Joined: 6/2/2004
Msg: 76
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/6/2004 5:36:35 PM
I think that they are proud of how they look, but it doesn't show respect for themselves, show off your good figure, but do it tastefully.
 Mr_Simple

Joined: 8/16/2004
Msg: 77
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/7/2004 1:53:00 AM

Welcome to the forum Dae! I see this is your first post! :)
 Modern-Day Romeo

Joined: 9/1/2004
Msg: 78
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/7/2004 5:55:57 AM
holly, never really thought about that from the older woman's point of view (kinda hard when your a young guy) but, I suppose you may be right. I just like a little mystery ya know.

BTW ticket, to put stuff in italics just put everything you want to make italicized in tags like this . It should should look something like this (just remove the = sign. I had to use them so you'd actually see the code)

<=i>this would be in italics<=/i>


 yna6

Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 79
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/7/2004 8:29:13 AM
I get hacked to death for wanting to look at boobs? Sheesh.....thankfully my years of maturity and wisdom have put me beyond the petty jealousies of a partner "looking"....unlike some who remain single......hehehe
Some like mystery, some like bare facts, everyones tastes are different. Doesn't mean they are perverted....some places all the women on here are harlots and sl*ts...they show their faces! All a matter of culture, upbringing, and personal choice and opinion.
As one guy put it..."I may not agree with what you say...but will defend to the death your right to say it!"...too bad that doesn't apply in most of Western society now....
 DayDreaming

Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 80
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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/7/2004 10:23:07 AM
i'm sorry if i offend u with my posts Yna6. I like to hear what people have to say on subjects no matter what it may be just don't be suprise if people don't like it and u do put put a good arguement just not my thing is all. I didn't attack u in anyway just the point of veiw. I hope u keep posting. but the single remark was a cheap shot. We're on a singles dating site. Fish in a barrel, no need to go fishing with dynamite.
 Headdy

Joined: 7/15/2004
Msg: 81
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/7/2004 4:30:42 PM
Like a few of the guys here (correct me if I'm wrong), I tend to avoid making contact with girls who have breast pictures on profile, especially ones with nothing but breast pictures; history's shown they're just there for attention and/or utterly selfish conceited people, and won't bother responding anyway.
But in good old Headdy spirit, everybody deserves at least one chance. Even if it's to prove they're just there for attention and are selfish conceited people! TBH I can't remember the last person I spoke to who had a breast picture on profile.

* thinks hard...
 yna6

Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 82
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/7/2004 11:25:53 PM
sry...didn't mean to PO anyone....and I am not offended when someone attacks the idea...part of debate and well within good taste! Keep posting folks...and don't forget to post a boob shot!
 ben76

Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 83
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 1:27:11 PM
While I don't seek out pics of breats in peoples profile, I do sometimes find myself contacting people who do have breast pics if I'm interested in the WORDS in their profile. I don't care to have a gf that flaunts herself to everyone, I've always felt that dressing in a way to show off or attract people to your body really gets nothing but trouble. Sooner or later it will catch up with them. Theres no question in my mind that showing off your body can lead to rape and sometimes even death. The fact that our bodies by law or otherwise have been covered up over the years has lead to mass perversion and the wanting to see whats underneth ones clothes. If it was the common thing for everyone to walk around without clothes I feel there would be less problems when it comes to sexual crimes and assults.

It seems that only the things we've been taught that 'has to be covered up' is what one consideres indecent. The idea of 'your nipples expose your breasts' unfortunatly has lead to prying eyes who for the most part are on an never ending search for the ultimate or yet another interesting nipple by the sounds of it. Though eyes keep searching for more nipples, people seem to forget the fact that they have probably already seen all shapes and sizes of breasts on all different combinations of bodies, so why bother? Is it the fact that there are 6+ billion people on earth and we've yet to see all the combinations of bits and pieces, on that same breath, would we even remember the body if we seen it again? Often times just changing clothes or hairstyles can confuse the person into thinking its a totally different person, will people ever get enough eyefulls from the bodies they look at?

Personally I don't have a problem with looking others or others looking at me. As I don't flaunt myself as a male, I doubt I would as a female. I think those who do have to be prepared for the consequences even if the actions towards the flaunter are unjust, they have to accept some responsibility as they have in someway incouraged such actions.

Also, the never ending search for the nipple, has made me wonder, what if females simply did not have nipples? If a breast was just a nippleless bump, would people be so attracted and addicted to breasts? Also, would it even be an issue to go topless then? We see all sorts of people with skimpy bikinis, most seem to think its ok 'as long as the nipple is covered'... Guys go topless all the time, regardless of the shape of their boobs, isn't it funny that we don't consider a topless flabby man with what looks like female breasts to be indecent? I've also seen this in younger kids as well, you go to the park and there is boys and girls playing at a water park, sometimes around 8-10yrs old approx, both girls and boys get chubby and sometimes end up with what both seem like budding breasts. Some mothers choose to cover up their girls, some don't. Some boys run around with tee-shirts on in embarasment because they are chubby and have what looks like budding breasts...

If anyone knows anything about a child in utero, before our body puts in the male or female gender, we are either considered to be sexless, or more towards the side of being of the female sex. So as full grown adults now, what does that make us? sure we now how male or female parts on us, but don't we all come from the same place in the end?


-in humor, diceman once said.....
i love tits, big tits, little tits, tits that skip and hop, a happy tit, a sad tit, a tit used as a mop...
-----

In the end, if seeking a female, she most likely will have breasts, and if you truly love her, you won't think twice about wether or not you like her breasts, you'd accept her for who she is as a person, then maybe if your lucky she will let you see or touch her breasts... Even if I fell in love with a breastless, nippleless woman, I wouldn't have a problem. If someone is seeking a body instead of a mind then there could be a problem there...

I find a lot of women who flaunt their breasts a lot of times simply do not want to wait around to meet a guy by other ways, they're often desperate in some sense, can't stand to be alone, but what they fail to realize is that rushing into things by matching up with someone who wants them for their body is not the way to go. A lot of females regardless of age and body, end up flaunting their stuff to try to speed up the process of finding a mate, I've seen some nice people lower their standards/morals in desperation of wanting to just 'be loved'... problem is, when they actually hookup with someone by doing so, they end up with everything they didn't want. Often times, females cry/complain about it the whole way through acting in these ways...

blah, i think i'll shut up now... I think I've rambled enough...
 dearestprincess

Joined: 7/11/2004
Msg: 84
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 5:36:18 PM
That was a really interesting post Ben. It really made me think of a few things while reading, and I already have a lot of respect for you even though you've only made about six replies so far.
 eXtremeGRL31

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 85
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 5:43:32 PM
They reveal their breast because they want: attention, want a good comment so they can feel better of themself...

and my answer to your question, "What are you trying to say?" I wouldn't know because I respect my body.
 alarmed

Joined: 8/30/2004
Msg: 86
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 10:21:10 PM
I have been pondering this very point since I joined POF. Has anyone checked out the top 500 hundred hottest people? I've seen more T and A in there then I see in my shower every day. Good lord people have you no class? what will you talk about on your first date if all is revealed on the internet for the whole world to see.
 MSTJedi

Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 87
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 10:23:11 PM
Personally, I'd rather date someone who hasn't had their breasts broadcasted all over the internet.
 alarmed

Joined: 8/30/2004
Msg: 88
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 10:29:53 PM
Mine are not on there.
 MSTJedi

Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 89
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 10:31:18 PM
No they're not. And that's the way I like it.
 alarmed

Joined: 8/30/2004
Msg: 90
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 10:44:58 PM
Well thats good cause thats the wat I like it too, only a little more to the right oh yeah baby thats it ;)
 yna6

Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 91
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 11:25:52 PM
Ok....I have been asked to change things a bit so nobody gets lead astray here. I am kidding folks...DO NOT post boob shots or you get deleted...so just send them to whomever.....New catch phrase..."Pull a Janet Jackson!" ok?
no?...hmmm...ah well....
 yna6

Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 92
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 11:28:50 PM
Oh...one other thing...someone pointed out the most popular 500 list as having a lot of t and a ...well yeah! why do you think they have that rating?
Seems odd that people are proud to show things off like kids, cars, homes, have their hair "just so" to "look good"...but get so freaked out by boobs.It's only skin ppl....and we ALL have it....so relax with yourself...your bodies, and let your self image blossom into the beautiful wonderful creatures we all are....
 MSTJedi

Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 93
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2004 11:31:20 PM
If only it were true, alarmed.
 Headdy

Joined: 7/15/2004
Msg: 94
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/9/2004 2:23:11 AM
Ahhh, the "top 500" list... Just as I imagined, a load of people who look the same. I don't find any of them particularly attractive, but then again I do have weird tastes in women!
(Yes I did notice huge levels of T&A also.)
 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 95
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/9/2004 7:32:02 AM
( o ) ( o ) <--here yna6 is that what your looking for........i hope adminstration dos'nt delete me for my boob shot
 yna6

Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 96
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/9/2004 8:00:06 AM
WOO-HOO! Finally! And it's from the guy who said he'd NEVER send me one! Thanks!
lol!
 Ruby_

Joined: 7/10/2004
Msg: 97
Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/9/2004 9:32:53 AM
yna....be careful what you wish for next EH? *LOL*
 Unchainthenight

Joined: 7/6/2003
Msg: 98
Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/27/2004 2:53:11 AM
I do love to see beautiful female features and so I'll never be the one to complain when someone wants to flaunt themselves. I'm much more of an ass man myself though so if you're listening ladies...lol
Sorry Mr. Simple
 yna6

Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 99
Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/27/2004 8:44:26 AM
Dang....saw one shot from a member named "leather"...and the whole profile got burned to the ground! Dang....she should have known better, but hey....I ain't complaining
 ExplorerMedic

Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 100
Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/27/2004 9:14:11 AM
LOL I LOVE TO SEE A NAKED LADY !!! :-)

I have come to the conclusion that the Ladies of Brazil sum it up best. It is a form of hedonism. Some ladies attract would-be mates totally in the nude covered only by sheer or the way they hold their lovely shapely limbs.

I like it. I like modesty too.

It's no different that a young stud attracting women with exotic cars, boats, mansions, or pictures in the cockpit of their jet interceptor, or lounging on a main battle tank canon and smiling...
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