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 Alli_oop

Joined: 6/30/2009
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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2009 9:42:41 PM
I forget where it was, or on what rather...tv. but this older lady said to this woman in her mid 30s or so with a low cut shirt that she could tell she's single because if she wasn't she wouldn't be swinging the breasts out.
I dunno, just seems like a self-esteem issue to me, mixed with a bit of desperation.

edit: that was too many "she"s, hope it made sense.
 isnuttinfree

Joined: 7/9/2009
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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2009 10:03:56 PM
I will add to my last comment that I agree both sides more often than not play into the lowest common denominator. Coz girls know it will attract a huge amount of attention. Or hope that it does. The ISDL (insecurity/self-esteem/desperate/luckless) etc issues doesn't just emanate from some girls but likely also the men who respond with great enthusiasm.

But for both sides, usually they're attracting/chasing the wrong kind or don't care coz they're not that serious or they think they have more choice (if a girl) after wading through all their mail or more chance (if a guy), but still, perhaps the girl would be lucky to find even two possibilities (and the low number reduces the odds of compatibility)...and for a guy, well it'd be a damn near miracle she answers him!

AND the prim and proper aren't immune to ISDL, feeling threatened by and sneering at the 'less respectable' cos they're harbouring the very same issues!

Also as shirtless male pics were banned I think the same should apply to females in lingerie. To be perceived as offering themselves up sexually isn't ideal, it goes beyond a viewer's personal distaste as it also undermines the intent of this site. Imo what should be kept within the confines of the boudoir needn't be shared with the world, with the only exception being 'intimate encounters' profiles. The sexual element should be kept in perspective.

Unless PoF choose to take a more heavy-handed approach in deliberately forbidding highly suggestive and obvious pics, certain cleavage shots for example, then it will continue unabated.

Most importantly, I think people should re-focus concern on their own thoughts and actions and less on others'. I tend to think the people who complain the loudest have been rejected by the less modest here.
 SmilingSalmon

Joined: 12/27/2007
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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/8/2009 10:12:02 PM
Did anyone here look at the profiles of a lot of the women complaining about and putting down boob shots??? I did and a large majority of them featured a boob shot, some in every pic!!! LOLOL Some people!
 Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008
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Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/9/2009 12:06:59 AM
Msg1: I have seen women post with decolletage,but I've never seen women here in POF post pictures their bare breast on their profile.

Some women really have a good size knockers, but Mr.Simple, I don't think it is removable, they have to post with their breast on their pictures, and I don't care what other men thinks, what I cared is you are bothered with those decolletage poses, as a woman I apologized for not being flat chested and I apologized too for these women who poses in their profile pics that are not flat chested..
 Ismene2

Joined: 3/28/2009
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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/9/2009 8:22:23 AM

i put breasts photos in my picture profile because I am being real. I will not lie or mislead a guy. I am just being honest. If i meet a guy I don't him to be shocked that I am very busty.
This is one of the funniest things I ever read. Unless you are so big it is grotesque, a man is not going to be shocked, pleased maybe but not shocked. Too, too funny. Who are you tying to kid?
 Alli_oop

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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/9/2009 9:58:41 AM

This is one of the funniest things I ever read. Unless you are so big it is grotesque, a man is not going to be shocked, pleased maybe but not shocked. Too, too funny. Who are you tying to kid?


well if I were a guy and showed up and saw she had a good paid, I'd be shocked ad hurt she never let me know and feel so betrayed I'd have to leave.

hah
 NORTY01

Joined: 10/5/2008
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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/9/2009 10:01:53 PM
There's some anger in this thread, isn't there? I've noticed "breast shots" as I'm visual. Whatever floats yer boat...
 Ismene2

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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/10/2009 8:03:16 AM
^^^Actualy, Nortyo1, a great many of the women who you are assuming are angry or jealous of the women displaying photos of their large breasts are actually women who are just as well endowed. However, they choose not to sell themselves by body parts. The thinking is that we are more than our mammory glands. And my personal philosophy about this, as well as many other things, is that "If you've got it, you don't need to flaunt it."

So, it is a false assumption you are making.
 NORTY01

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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/10/2009 4:05:24 PM

^^^Actualy, Nortyo1, a great many of the women who you are assuming are angry or jealous of the women displaying photos of their large breasts are actually women who are just as well endowed. However, they choose not to sell themselves by body parts. The thinking is that we are more than our mammory glands. And my personal philosophy about this, as well as many other things, is that "If you've got it, you don't need to flaunt it."

So, it is a false assumption you are making

Maybe, maybe not. I just saw a profile where one of her pictures was titled: My Lovely Lady Lumps..."
 Templar_2

Joined: 4/24/2009
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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/10/2009 4:12:37 PM
hmmm, because someone likes to look them, like maybe you OP? I think you should just be polite and say Thank You to the nice lady.
 AncientMuse

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Re: Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile?
Posted: 9/10/2009 10:36:39 PM
Maybe because they're allergic to the kind of men who want something a little more than just a great set of ta-ta's ?...... Just a thought.

Some people are allergic to peanuts, some are allergic to substance of grey matter. I'm personally allergic to men with flat butts and no substance of grey matter. But I check out the grey matter before I check out their derriere.

Hmmm...... or do I check out their butt before I check out their grey matter....... ?

Dang, I'm not sure now. I'll have to take notes next time.
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