| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/17/2007 5:37:54 AM | 31 year old women are great !
just need to keep a close watch on that cellulite and moustache and you should be fine .
men love a milf! | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/17/2007 7:32:19 AM | | In my country many men are gun shy, meaning they are not really looking for marriage but instead want a woman to move in with them and act like their wife without the document. Some woman prefer this...I am one...but a lot of my friends are in their 30's and 40's and find men are just too jaded by previous relationships to want a woman who is also jaded. On the other hand, being a woman in my 30's, i have found that younger men are more interested in the older ones. Trust me...see how confusing it is in the states!!! Different countries, same world! Good luck! | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/18/2007 1:40:04 PM | I like women at any age. Age is all in the mind. I know a lot of women that are older than that and are
very HOT late in their 40's and 50's. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/19/2007 3:54:42 AM | Interesting article written by a younger woman who of course has an entitlement syndrome ( ie - calling her self a princess)
Personally I think most female journalists are just arseholes incapable of seeing anything outside their own selfish existence and incapable of looking at any situation as a whole, she would much rather point the finger and focus on it's own self-deserved slice..
One would imagine that this surly attitude, this blaming and shaming of males may seem to some intelligent people to be not overly bright, even a turnoff. We know that a female with this level of self-righteousness and over inflated ego is a definite red light to any male..
One would also imagine that continually blaming males for not coming up with the goods is a silly and stupid thing to write about. But alas, ****iness and blaming everyone else for your own decisions is now the standard diatribe from today's female...
My response ? MGTOW...
There seems to be no age limit to the angst and hand wringing level. It continues to grow while women refuse to accept that they are no longer marriage material.
They refuse to comprehend the fact that no-one really wants em !
Men have been liberated to, liberated from being a serf to these privileged princesses. Exempted from a life of slavery...
ARTICLE
When Peter Pan becomes a nightmare
Sunday Herald Sun
August 19, 2007 12:00am
THERE is a new breed of man on the dating scene. Have you met a Peter Pan yet?
They are the lost boys who refuse to grow up.
You will find them bopping away at the bar on a Saturday night well into their 40s, still wearing Converse and jeans to work and driving around in their mid-life-crisis convertibles.
A penchant for the Playstation and a habit of using the word dude in every sentence is not the problem with these juvenile delinquents.
It's much worse: the eligible 30 to 40- year-old bachelors in this town date the 20-something handbags.
A close friend of mine is a 30-something gal on the hunt for a man.
As you all know, at her age the competition is rife and her eggs are soon to be on ice.
She is a cougar battling the kittens in a real-life Mark Philippoussis' Age of Love.
For her, no longer does the role of attractive arm candy cut it.
By 30 you have got to have substance to combat the crow's feet and personality to offset the sagging of your once-pert breasts.
Even then you will struggle.
The blokes don't want the liability of an ageing womb.
Unfair, but true.
Furiously my friend has asked me time and again -- why would men bother with young girls who couldn't possibly match them on an emotional level?
Sure their butts are higher, their skin smoother -- but that isn't enough to satisfy, is it?
Do they need an ego boost or is it childhood-lost complex?
What my friends don't want to admit is that the 20-year-olds offer something a 30-year-old can't.
Aside from perky assets, they have time on their side.
Every man knows that if he meets a 35-year-old stunner, she has a few good years before she is going to want to have children.
And if there is one thing we have learnt about this kidult generation of men, it's that there is no room for two babies in the relationship.
There are 60-year-olds still scampering about in short pants in this town who think they can pull girls my age.
It's this arrogance that annoys me the most.
One such bachelor said dating 20-somethings was easier.
They laugh at lame jokes, they are happy to go to Maccas drive-through for dinner and they think downing shots is totally awesome.
They are complication free.
This guy is 38 and single.
But he is not panicked. Not desperate just yet.
He knows he has at least 10 years to take a wife and in the meantime he is going to party as if it's 1999.
Us women are just expected to wait on the shelf and hope we don't spoil before we are chosen.
If the tables were turned and it was the men who bore children, things would be very different.
COMMENT -- so what was her friend doing in her 20's -- living it up as a independant woman partying with the bad boys , ignoring the good decent men etc etc having a career - most likely, and now that there is a very loud tick tock being heard from her body and those men she ignored in her 20's well karma is a bitch huh | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/3/2007 4:49:48 AM | Huh , I have never felt old , but be darned if i haven't found that a lot of men 35 and older think a woman is too old when she hits 35 . I am beginning to think we must have expiration dates somewhere  I've been looking for around 3 and a half years now for someone near my age and have found that most of them in my area want a 20 something , with long legs , big boobs and an IQ of 10  | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/3/2007 8:18:55 AM | well it sound like there all want there heads testing cuz i think
that women over 30 no what there wont and enjoy more of life
but if every body was like me the world would be a bore and if
all men went looking there would all see the sameover 30
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/4/2007 8:02:48 AM | oh thankyou God I was born in America..why is it so many countries that are so much older than us, are so far behind us in so many ways?..I don't get it...and who is the mighty "they" that gets to make these rules anyhow?...
your post makes me feel guilty for all the guys I turn down....I'm in my late 30's & get hit on all the time by guys as young as 18....(not that I'd actually go out with them)..over here you see women in their 40's & 50's getting out of marriages they are unhappy with & starting over....we are able to marry for Love...not because it's what society says we must do....
I don't mean to sound like I'm bragging...but you make me grateful to live where I do...& feel sorry for women who have to live in close-minded countries...it makes me want to tell you you have no reason to feel bad about yourself....your people have just been conditioned to think a certain way...you are a beautiful lady & you look much younger than you are...you have a right to be happy & find love..
I don't know what advice to give you...I probably would have already been flogged or something if I lived in some other countries..lol...maybe you should find yourself a man from another country...good luck... | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/4/2007 11:19:17 AM | | No way! First of all, age matters very little when talking about beauty of sexyness(a word?) Can be VERRRRRRY hot and sexy! | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/4/2007 6:13:16 PM | china , hmmmm those old guys are dirty , masturbating on trains and buying used panties out of vending machines.
is it the land of bukkake too , or maybe im thinking japan , all the same .
your in a land where women are born to serve man and he has the final say, if he is 90 and still practising his tai chi he undoubtedly feels he deserves a young woman .
my advice is quit worrying . | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/4/2007 8:04:08 PM | | Wow didnt know anyone in china was allowed to post online with the damn commie government taking the internet away. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/5/2007 2:05:08 PM | Men who need to date younger women are afraid of getting old. they are not being realistic when it comes to an emotional connection.
Then there are men who want to have a trophy wife who are just showing off to their friends.
However you look at it men who won't date in their own age group have a lower self-esteem and you don't want anything to do with them anyway. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/7/2007 8:54:04 PM | No 31 is young and any man 40-50 who wants a wife in her 20's probably is not a good man and not very wise. He just wants a trophy wife and only has sex on hi mind. You are a beautiful woman and I personally would be proud to know you.
Take Care and good luck. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 9/8/2007 11:14:51 AM | Hi there
I agree, you should come to the states, you will find quickly that it sure isn't like that here. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 10/10/2007 9:08:47 PM | In my country, 31 years old is old. because most of the women in my country already get married in a very young age. Let's say 16.
Sometimes age is matter, you dont want to be old when u get marry. But in USA, age is just number  I know im still young, but each year i dont feel that im aging 
But.....talking about FAT? uuhhh..........that's diffrent story. I was fat before then i work out.....i dont wanna be some anorexic girls so i keep some meat to make me look healthy and cutie of course. I remember all those looks when i was fat, right now that looks changed.......but I wish, i meet someone when i was FAT and then I knew, he loves me for whatever I am  ...WishUpOnTheStars | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 10/11/2007 7:19:24 AM | | being brainwashed by this culture, I always thought a woman enters her sexual prime near forty...and from my past experience always thought that was true. Unfortunately being a man in his thirties, it's all down hill from here...sniff sniff sniff | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 10/11/2007 8:29:39 AM | By age 30, 80-85% of women have married. The remaining 15-20% or either so picky as to be not worth the time/trouble, they are now a single mom, they are lesbians or hard-core feminist type marriage haters, or they're just the leftovers that have been passed over so many times it's safe to say no one wanted them. Maybe in a big city like NYC where there are many more women than men there are some exceptions (4 to 3) to these generalities, but in most of the world a woman over 30 is deluded if she thinks things are going to work the same as it did when she was 19 or 23. Guys are not the same at 30 or 35 as they were at 15 either, in the sense of being less motivated to seek out and pursue women, partly because they've become disillusioned by their previous experiences, but in a different way than women are.
So I wouldn't say 31 is really old, but it's half way there. Thirty may be the new 25, but it has only been a couple of generations since a woman was considered a spinster if she wasn't married by 25. Ok, so civilization advances and it's now 32 or 35. Basic biology hasn't changed, and a woman's fertility starts to drop in her upper 20's, and it really plummets after 35; only about 1% of first time birth occur to women over the age of 40. Men tend to get married to have families, so these things do matter. Witness all those who waited too long (upper 30's and beyond) and are now having to spend tens of thousands of dollars at the artificial fertility enhancement clinics in an attempt to have a kid, something which is rather easy at a younger age. No one wants to end up there. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 10/11/2007 8:46:10 AM | | I don't think it is. I'm 31 and I don't myself or men at my age in general to be 'too old'. There are plenty of single 30+ yr old women because of the high divorce rate and people are waiting longer to be married. Sure some 30+ yr old women might have 'baggage', but there are also some that are mature, wise and successful. In terms of physical attraction, 31 definitely isn't too old. I have seen plenty of women in their 40s and early 50s that are still at least somewhat attractive. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 10/13/2007 7:09:12 PM | | I'm 37 and I feel younger and better now than I ever have in my entire life...so I certainly hope it's not too old! | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 10/15/2007 4:02:33 AM | | no - it is not like that in other countries. I recommend you move to the UK where men will beating a path to your door. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 10/15/2007 7:30:46 AM | It depends on how well you age and whether you want marriage/children.
If you don't age well, then it could be a rough ride.
If you don't want marriage or children, it's less of an issue. But, as stated above, it's not the same as being 22 again. If you want marriage and children, the logistics are a problem. Most men don't want to get married and have kids right away, they want some time to date the woman and some time after marriage to enjoy marriage. That would put having children in your late 30s, which carries added risk and potential complications for the mother and child. | |
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