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 Skyy54
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 301
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I hate arguing and fighting and violence... so therefore.. everyone keep your hands to yourself...

well.... unless your in bed, then it's ok to touch... feel... kiss.. lick... oops.. got carried away!

NO IT'S NOT OK TO HIT....
 slow_hand_001
Joined: 8/28/2006
Msg: 302
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/9/2006 1:41:17 AM

Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?


yes...as long as she is prepared to get hit back.
 JoeCue
Joined: 8/23/2006
Msg: 303
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/10/2006 10:57:19 AM
No. If it’s not self defence or just joking around, then it is wrong. No ands, ifs or buts about it. It is abuse. It is so sad to see some women, who know that the man they are with will not yell at them or hit them and because the women knows this the women will get in the guys face, yell and yes, even hit the guy. All because the woman knows that he will not stoop to their level.

Some women think that just because they can’t put enough force behind the hit to really cause any physical damage that it is ok. Wrong!! There is always the emotional. To demean an individual’s integrity & self-esteem with a slap in the face and think it is ok? WTF.

Just think of it this way. If a man hits a woman with the same force that a woman would use, I consider it to be wrong & disgusting. So why should it be any different if the women hits the man? It is not any different. I have meet women with this mentality and it’s not pretty. Remember, it’s not just the physical assault, but the emotional one that knocks you out. Sorry, but this hit a nerve with me.
 Seraphim2350
Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 304
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:15:58 AM
It is never ever OK to hit another person. Someone hits you...call the law and press charges...and kick them to the curb...no excuses!

I was with a man who started out being verbally abusive...then he became threatening...he was about to cut me up with a machetti (spelling?) while we were outside...a driver saw what was going on and came blowing his horn into my driveway...and that I believe is what saved me...I put his *ss in jail, and put him completely out of my house and my life forever.

Never put up with abuse of any kind.
 Seraphim2350
Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 305
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:18:30 AM
Mr. Fair Play,

If you are afraid of a woman, then report her to the police and make a complaint. You cannot hit a woman back and get away with it...if the law is called both will be put in jail. Keep that in mind.
 Nukem
Joined: 8/24/2006
Msg: 306
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:23:29 AM
Chris Rock "You Can't hit a woman, that's just wrong......but you can shake the sh** out of her" ...teehee

As for my opinion, hiting someone is wrong weather your a man or woman...just shows how uncultured you are and stupid. IMO
 iein
Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 307
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:24:18 AM
I dont think it is right for anyone to hit anyone!

But if you ask a cop in my town (STANSBURRY) he says " Your a big guy, you can defend your self " !! These are his words to me as my ex did that to me! I asked him if the "JUDGE" would believe that it is OK to defend your self also? I believe its the lowest possible thing to do to another person!

Want to hit something, hit your car, hit your walls, but NEVER HIT A WOMAN it hurts way to deep.

My mother always said; " it takes a bigger man to walk away " thanks mom .....lol
 SimbadSailor
Joined: 11/8/2005
Msg: 308
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:49:53 AM

" Your a big guy, you can defend your self " !!


If you are not allowed to hit back, how are you supposed to defend yourself?
 Mr_Lee
Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 309
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:18:36 PM
I dont think anything ever 'Warrants' a man hitting a women. Men hitting women, women hitting men, no no.
 Oshawa/Lenn
Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 310
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/10/2006 5:50:58 PM
Not sure where your getting your facts from .A women who is voilent don't get off quite that easy . When my ex refused to attend therapy , I had her taken out in handcuffs .Not sure how she made out on it , i've barely seen her since except in court , but you need a pretty good excuse.
 tiredofheadgames
Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 311
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 9:04:31 AM
To all you that think a woman cannot hit a man hard enough to drop him....do you live under a rock?
A 5 year old girl can easily drop a full grown man.
Its all about knowing where and how to strike.
We had a kidnapper/ molester in our town years ago, that preyed on young girls, so i taught my then 6 year old niece how to protect herself.
I would have liked to see you tough guys take her on even at just 6 after she learned how to defend herself.
People that are dumb enough to think they can fight and punch for the face or stomach or whatever as most idiots do that i have seen fight.
You are so clueless....if someone wants to fight you bad enough to throw the first punch, let them do so, and then its self defence after they take a swing.
Then just drop the piece of shit.
Aim for the throat, groin, temple, or ram your thumb or a finger into their eye, etc.
You need very little force to drop a supposedly tough guy....once the sack of shit is on the ground if you think there is even a slight chance he may get up, just stomp on his throat or a good hard kick to the nuts.
I guarantee you he is not getting back up to fight more.
Its truely laughable how lame people are when it comes to self defence.....ladies and guys , take a self defence course....you will no longer walk around in fear hoping you get home okay every night.
Most towns offer them.
If you really get serious about it, join a martial arts school.
And never leave yourself open to vulnerable spots if you do have to fight.
The average thug is too stupid to nknow this, and i bet they leave their throat area wide open.
So just drop them....I do not care how feable you may think you are, just land a punch or forearm to the throat....they will stop punching you then.
 bobby7
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 312
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/22/2006 1:07:24 PM
Ok, Now that you told me how to kick the shit out of anyone..Back to the question..

Is it ok for a woman to hit a man, Oh Mighty One?
 METALLlC BLUE
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 313
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/22/2006 1:45:47 PM
Man hitting woman: Unacceptable
Woman hitting man: Unacceptable
Transgender hitting.... oh you get the point.
 ManeRider
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 314
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Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 9/22/2006 2:54:53 PM
Whilst, I am not condoning men hitting women, unless the circumstances warrant this, what do people think about the idea that despite this new age of 'equality' between the sexes, that women can still hit / slap men and get away with it, with many people finding it funny that the man has been hit.


Many men are abused, and have their lives at risk due to domestic abuse, and whilst a man hitting a woman would create outrage, a ruined reputation and a possible jail sentance, inc. sodomy, a woman that beats her husband could just claim, neglect, PMS, being in therapy or a wealth of other cheap excuses removing all responsibility from herself.


An excellent topic Vandelai

The oppression of the modern day man

It's a disgusting look at our new world order. Yes, when TV producers condone this in public arenas, the idea will quickly transfer to our reality. When producers portray weak male rolemodels, so society grows weak male rolemodels. Actually, it's much deeper than just TV world, it's systemic from the feminist's regime and the machine of the divorce/domestic violence sub-culture over the past 50 years. New laws have thusfar crowned females the sacred ones. Nowadays, yelling at your spouse will you get you a simple assault charge.

A cop (resigned) I once spoke to related to me, after arresting a woman who had visibly beaten her husband badly, that the case was dismissed by a biased Judge who claimed he didn't feel a woman could/would be such a perpetrator. In Ga, the law still hasn't even been applied (but will in 01/2007) that requires Courts to consider a womans income before applying child support guidlines. A woman can simply report her husband as being violent, without showing cause of any kind, and a TPO will be delivered to him, requiring he vacate the premises immediately, upon fear of incarceration, and ordered not to come near said residence. His rights to his children are likewise severed until further order the Courts. And these Family Courts can have exhaustingly long Court calendars. (i.e; time is most definately not on the accused side)

The bottom line is this: when women wanted more rights, they took to the courthouse steps, joined hands in groups, and made themselves a viable voters block, thereby arguing their legislative changes. One law after another, year after year, for 4+ decades now, the social/gender pecking order has changed. (I'm not, in any way, subscribing to the entire ideology)

This being said, though, womens equality has morphed into more than just a power struggle, it's become disgustingly overreached. The pendulum has swung far too far in one direction. Yes, what you stated in your opinion post is accurate. When will it change? When men band together in large "enough" numbers (Million Man March, NCFC,ACFC - National/& American Coalition of Fathers and Children) and stand united, only then equality will find it's balance. Currently, NOW and NWO have huge federal funds to work with, while mens organizations enjoy no such federal help. (See above referrenced voters block) They can afford to fight against those men who have voiced a desire to not be oppressed.

So if it bothers you to see "Reba" hit her "co-star", Or you're dismayed by such weak male characterizations on everything from sitcoms to commercials, have a talk with your fellow men. Join a mens organization and voice your opinions. We have to change the laws in the same fashion that women did in the 60s and 70s. Get involved and do something. Don't just watch from the sidelines.

"Find out what the people will submit to and you have found out the exact amount of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them; and these will continue until they are resisted with either words or blows, or with both. The limits of tyrants are prescribed by the endurance of those whom they oppress." (Sir Frederick Douglass)






Edit: find Glenn Sacks column on the web. He's highly effective, and carries the most comprehensive opportunites for change. Also, see Steven Baskerville, Department head/Sociology , Howard University and acting President of NCFC.
 pink tigger
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 315
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 5:17:40 AM
I cant believe some of the things ive read on this thread, Its as some of you are proud of being violent and i am just saying 'some'!! I have been in a violent relationship; yes a couple of times i hit him out of fear, it wasnt right to do so, it never is. The only thing to do when sombody hits you is what others have said and that is walk, screw listening too ' I LOVE YOU, IM SORRY' bollicks they wouldnt try to control you. ( which they eventually will) just walk and dont look back! I learnt the hardway and have emotional scars to proove it.

But how some of you men on here can boast about hitting them back?? You just turn around and walk. That will slap her in the face far more than a real physical one!!!
 lookin4apal
Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 316
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 5:40:01 AM
if we are mature s we should know that is wrong no matter the of a person
 WhosFishinWho?
Joined: 9/26/2006
Msg: 317
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 6:12:01 AM
It is never ok to hit anyone, man, women, child, pet. There is always another way, talk, or go somewhere and cool off. Have some control. How can inflicting physical pain on another human ever be ok?
 Thunderhawk
Joined: 4/16/2006
Msg: 318
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 6:16:24 AM
Let em whip me and beat me, but please do not mistreat me..
 tiredofheadgames
Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 319
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:00:40 AM
pink tigger.

How can you say you hit him out of fear ???

if i hit someone, heck anyone for that matter, its not because i was scared of them.
Mad yes!
But not scared...if you had been scared you would have left, or cried, or hid or whatever.
But since you hit him that was anger, not fear.

If i walked up to you and punched you, do you think i did it out of fear?

No.....see my point....so lets stop the BS right there.
 METALLlC BLUE
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 320
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:10:55 AM
Depends on the context.
 BLONDEFAIRY1975
Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 321
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:13:06 AM
if you are willing to hit somebody be prepared to be hit back. It pisses me off that women will hit a man and then expect them to just take it. don't start shit you can't finish. it's wrong period to abuse one another.
 Thunderhawk
Joined: 4/16/2006
Msg: 322
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:25:39 AM
If a woman ever hits me - I WILL take it. I have a 5th dan black belt in black dragon kung fu and I hit very, very hard. I see no point in hitting a woman. Besides I can take a good punch.
 uncleskipper
Joined: 6/28/2006
Msg: 323
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:36:15 AM
Self defence notwithstanding (everyone has the right to defend themselves), I'm surprised this question even has to be asked......and answered, and answered again, and again....
 Ugly Dog Owner
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 324
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:44:51 AM
Women tend to use verbal and emotional violence against men. Is it OK? They do it all the time and get away with it.
 xxMistyxx
Joined: 6/23/2006
Msg: 325
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:56:57 AM
Violence towards another person should not be tolerated,not under any circumstances!The emotional and physical damage done by another,has the same detrimental effect which ever gender inflicts it.

Domestic violence does not just happen to hetrosexual couples it is rife in every kind of relationship and it should not be accepted or condoned.

If a man commits this type of crime and then faces prison for it ,then so should a woman!

Every human being has the right to live without,being in fear from another!



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