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| | Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?Page 14 of 45 (5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43, 44, 45) | For you Cheryle  
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 10:56:32 AM | It is never ok to physically abuse or psychologicaly abuse another. Violence of any kind can be defigned as any action the is violating of another's personal boundaries without concent. So even a playfull slap on the butt can be considered abuse unless there is consent given to the slaper to do so. We are all responsible for our behaviours. Men and women alike. There is no excuse for acting violent toward another. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/5/2006 2:22:07 PM | tiredofheadgames:
It was out of fear, If your partner came at you when drunk out of there mind just because there beloved football team had lost and you where 5mths pregnant ( impossible for you i know) then you would of protected yourself too, or rather protected your unborn child. I am not a violent person and should of left the 1st time he raised his hand at me, yes twice i got the courage to stand up for myself. The other time was when i was pulled out of my bed by my hair whilst i was sleeping just because id rolled onto his side. I lived with a monster but came out safe and well and with an angel. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/7/2006 6:57:17 PM | | no it is not ok for a woman to hit a man and also a man should not hit a woman it dose take a bigger man or woman to walk away then fight. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/7/2006 7:31:37 PM | | Hitting someone else in anger is never okay. Someone who truly loves you will never hurt you - not willingly and especially not physically. Whether it's a man hitting a woman or a woman hitting a man - it's just plain wrong. Before things get to that point, you walk away. It's quite simple. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/8/2006 2:42:31 AM | It is wrong, plain and simple. Btw, there is nothing wrong with blocking their punches in ways that are painful to them. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 10/8/2006 2:57:00 AM | | It's only ok if she doesn't mind wearing the latest fall edition of a custom designed Louis Vitton prison smock.......... | |
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Mr_Lee
| | Joined: 6/27/2006
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 11/1/2006 7:41:13 AM | NO....it is not okay for a woman to hit a man.
Where I live it is only constituted as self defense if the "attacker" hit MORE then once. If YOU are hit once and automatically hit right back....it is considered a fight........BUT if YOU are hit several times and even tried to get away and they followed you and kept "hitting"...then you have the right to defend yourself, block the hits, yadda, yadda.
The laws are starting to finally change. Women are now going to jail just as fast as the men for domestic violence. NO excuses as PMS because there are meds. that can regulate a women’s "chemical" imbalance during that time, and because of this, many judges are NOT accepting that as a defense any more from women.
I am a woman and I would NEVER hit a man, woman or child. It is just wrong. I, like many others have posted..........would do my utmost to walk away from the situation.
Just my thoughts.
POFers........I'll take a hug any day....lol  | |
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JMars
| | Joined: 10/14/2006
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:11:11 PM | Hell no, its not okay. I was taught at a very early age to never let anyone hit me and get away with it, otherwise they'd get into the habit and do it all the time. Word to live by.
I do however think that it is easier for a man to defend himself against a woman, and you don't need to stand there and trade blows... for however long that would last. It's easy enough to take'em down and restrain them, if necessary, or better yet, to just walk away, if possible.
Of course, not that I'm anywhere approaching the biggest guy in the world, but I can't say I've ever had much of a problem with women trying to hit me. Well, none outside of the fifth grader that beat me up back when I was in second grade. ;)
My friend and I actually had words the other week when he thoughtlessly stated -- more repeating something he had been told rather than stating a heartfelt personal belief -- that it was in a man's nature to hit a woman. It's not of course. It is in the nature of men to uphold and protect and nurture their in-group, and particularly the physically weaker... be they women, children, elderly, or even other men.
His fiance is also military, does box-fit, runs marathons, so I told him that if he ever raised his hand to her he wouldn't have to worry about me. She'd probably kick his a*** herself. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2006 3:00:51 PM | white tigeress as long as us humans walk the earth there will always be a woman to give a man the helping smack in hte face he needs. for ex, a year ago I was working at a company inwhich i had an Italian coworker she took great pleasure in smacking up her 20 something year old sons when they got out of line. So, how do we explain that
^^ she's italian? They talk with their hands (jk !.. gotta love howie mandel ) | |
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Posted: 11/1/2006 3:10:24 PM | Go for it. Feel free to take a swing just like another guy would. But I'm going to hit back, and I'm probably going to try to seriously hurt you. If its a slap, I'll backhand you to the floor. If its a punch, I'm not stopping until you're incapacitated. If you don't can't handle the prospect of being pounded bloody in return, its a good idea to re-think hitting someone in the first place.
The only time I would think retaliation from the man would not be called for is if the woman used it as a means of deterring social physical agression. (groping, feeling, etc.) Obviously if its self defense he's already attacking more than social, so its gonna be an all out brawl. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 11/1/2006 3:21:06 PM | Go for it. Feel free to take a swing just like another guy would. But I'm going to hit back, and I'm probably going to try to seriously hurt you. If its a slap, I'll backhand you to the floor. If its a punch, I'm not stopping until you're incapacitated. If you don't can't handle the prospect of being pounded bloody in return, its a good idea to re-think hitting someone in the first place
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My ex AND his father both had this attitude and they are both verbally/mentally abusive men. With my departure, they are finally seeing the light to how gravely wrong is their view!!!
Its one thing to say.. hit me and I'll pound you to the floor to a woman and another to simply say... dont hit me and I wont hit you.
Theres a HUGGGGGGGGGGGGE word to be learned here........... guess what it is?
respect | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 11/2/2006 4:17:47 AM | | Definetly not ok to hit anyone...How many Men can honestly say that they would report an abusive woman for shame and embarrassment. Believe me I have seen it and seen it again. Where is the justice for men?? I have been to the courts on many occassion and see a woman 9 out 10 times walk away laughing and snickering while standing tall and pretty before the courts and how she demeanored the man she manipulated over and over again. It has gone unnotice of men who are abused and the law should wake up and take notice. The same goes for when women leave their husbands or partners and end up with everything and the man have to pay an eternity for the disfunctional failure of their relationship. When does he have the god given right to have a life again. This is why most men leave and don't bother with the relationship at all. He cannot get on with his life so why be demeanored any more... I stand behind men 100% the law looks at these helpless woman who can con their way into a sob story and get away with it....Bull Crap...Investigate and get to the root of the real story, and give men a chance to have a life again. So hitting is a form of violence . What are you teaching your children, that its ok??? WRONG... they will grow to do the same thing as we are leading by example arent we. They are the next generation of violence because of our selfishness. Get it together people its not all about you. Please dont get me wrong i dont condone violence on Women either. I am just simply saying there are two sides to every story and apparently the men's doesn't count because he is the dominate party. | |
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marshw
| | Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 344 | |
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Posted: 11/3/2006 6:00:07 PM | Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
If a man hits a woman he is abusive. If he does nothing he is a wimp.
If a man has an affair he is a dog. If a woman does it, its the mans fault.
Diamonds are a womans best friend. They say dogs are mans best friend.
Who ever said that must not have seen some of the web sites I have seen.
Women rant and rave and about everything. Its just there way to release.
If a man says anything he is mentally abusive.
If a man tell a woman no, she is taught that he is trying to control her ,or to change her.
In my first marriage my wife had nephew. We loved that kid. But I did not want to take him anywhere. The wife asked if we could take the kid to the base ball game. I said NO. I explained to her the kids father is a prick. A real hard ass. If we take the kid to the game his dad is going to want him back home by 11:00. Between the traffic the ride home and having to stop. It would be really late before we got home. I explained to her I would love to but to keep peace, best not to ask. So she asked anyway. We took the kid to the game. He had a blast. Got home at 1:00 in the morn. She took him to his home. So by 1:30 he was at home.
For the next 2 weeks everytime I looked at her she cried. I racked my brain wondering what did I do ? Finally it came out. The kids father raised hell with her. And she was afraid to tell me. But she was kind enough to explained to me it was my fault.
Second marriage , she could not have children so she wanted to get a dog. I did not want a dog in the house. So I told her NO. So she got 4 dogs 3 cats 2 sets of rabbits 4 ferrits and several types of birds in cages. And they ALL stayed in the house. Then she walked out on me for a old boy friend who had money. She explained to me that I told her NO to many times. And he was going spend his money to help her adopt children. Less than 3 months later he kicked her to the curb. But she explained to me that it was my fault because I had spoiled her so bad no one else would want her.
I think I deserve an award for not killing someone or turning gay.
Back to your question
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Both my ex's beat on me. The second wife made me see stars. Most of the time I never knew why. So is it okay for a woman to hit a man ? NO, Oh wait I mean YES its ok. YES YES Its OK.
At times I thought it would make her feel better. I would have gladly taken a beating if it would make her feel better. But it only seemed to make her worse. I did all I could do to make her happy. But it seems some people are happy when they are unhappy.
They say a woman has the right to change her mind. Kind of like the second wife. Once she told me I loved you when I married you. But I don't right now. But I might later on. So in my opion I am to damn stupid to understand women. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 11/3/2006 6:03:29 PM | thats just like asking 'is it ok for a man to hit a woman?'
it is NEVER ok -- unless in self-defence
we dont like the double standards | |
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Posted: 11/3/2006 8:24:31 PM | I can't believe what I am reading.
Of course there are double standards. Men and women aren't he same. Scientists have recently discovered this 
Give me a break if a woman slaps a guy... So what. Get over it.
I learned early on. Don't hit girls. Pick on someone your own size.
Most woman are much smaller than the guys. Guys can be powerful and dangerous.
Ok so if a larger and stronger woman hit a small and weak man with a skillet then what?
That is abuse in my opinion! | |
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