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Any other situation, HELL NO!!! Violence begets violence... What kind of a role model are you trying to be? Arguments bring the issues to the forefront, deal with them, make up and move on. If violence starts to arise, then time-out, remove yourself from the situation until things cool down... Then deal with the issues in a positive manner, accept your mistakes, learn the lesson and don't bring it up once it's dealt with, leave it in the past.
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 2/10/2008 5:08:49 PM |
However, a woman usually doesn't have the same physical strength as a man. If I hit a guy, it's not going to do as much damage as if he hit me!!
Violence is a bad thing because it can easily get out of hand but I must admit, even though wrong, I've had to smack a few guys to give them a reality check.
I don't work out as much as some people who are really into lifting weights--- so my hits aren't going to do as much damage as other men. Does that mean I'm allowed to go about thumping people?
Nuts to that. As I said before: if a woman hits me, there isn't anything else to say. She's proven that she doesn't know how to communicate with me, and cannot handle and adult relationship with me. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 2/10/2008 5:27:02 PM | It's never ok. No "reason" is large enough.
To my shame, I hit my ex when I found out about the affair. No, it wasn't exactly like that... it was 24 hrs later, after having discussed working things out only to hear "I just couldn't tell her it was over, I need some more time to end it properly"
.... SNAP! I lost it. I slapped his face *hard*
I beat myself up for that for quite a while. It was a "good" thing only in that it convinced me if things were so far gone that I would actually sink to physical violence, it was time to really take a hard look at who I was and what I was doing. BTW - poetic justice of a sort that My ex latched onto my violence as a way to reduce the crime of having an affair in his mind. *oh well*
Crazy times. I forgave myself for being temporarily insane. BUT I judge it as wrong, and one of the real low points in my life. Started meditating... meditation is a wonderful thing... highly recommend it for everyone. Improves sex too *grin* | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 2/25/2008 3:45:15 PM |
It's never ok. No "reason" is large enough.
To my shame, I hit my ex when I found out about the affair. No, it wasn't exactly like that... it was 24 hrs later, after having discussed working things out only to hear "I just couldn't tell her it was over, I need some more time to end it properly"
.... SNAP! I lost it. I slapped his face *hard*
Under the circumstances, I don't see that as an action to be shameful of. We all do things and learn from them, and this seems like one of those times when you managed to do what others many times don't - you realized something about yourself, and corrected it.
I don't condone violence in any way, but this type of deep emotional reaction over a serious breech of trust (in the heat of the moment) is in my opinion a very human one.
As I mentioned before, I once was slapped equally hard by a woman who had NO emotional reason to react in that manner - and I slapped her back without thinking, in self-defense.
Am I proud of that ?
No.
But it was an automatic reaction to a completely shocking event, and I learned something about myself from it. My reaction could have been MUCH more severe, without that element of implied self-control that limited it to what it was. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 2/25/2008 6:55:51 PM |
However, a woman usually doesn't have the same physical strength as a man. If I hit a guy, it's not going to do as much damage as if he hit me!!
Women even the odds when they throw objects instead.  | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/26/2008 10:45:22 AM | | I do not think anyone should hit anybody. I do have to say that you should defend yourself, regardless of who is doing the hitting because no one should sit there and take it like a victim. | |
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0773H
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/26/2008 2:40:21 PM | Under any circumstances other than serious self defense nobody has the right to hit or assault anyone else, so says the law and so say I. However following on an earlier comment that it used to be perceived that it is OK for a woman to slap a man but not so visa versa, I have the opinion that still holds quite true where it matters before the law and law enforcement.I tend to believe that despite the supposed equality before the law women can get away with much more violence than men.
Two episodes I know of quite factually.:
1) A large husky woman(imagine a big gestapo woman) 5'-10" is a supervisor at work. A much smaller plump woman 5'-0'' refuses to go with her to her office for verbal work related discipline without a shop steward. The smaller woman was afraid and refused. The larger woman bodily dragged her by the arm and shirt collar into the office, dumped her into a chair and ranted on her. There were wittnesses present and the smaller woman reported this to the police and asked for assault charges. The police refused to even look into the matter and told her to go hire a lawyer if she thought she had a civil case. The smaller woman could not afford any lawyers retainer and appealed to the employer. The employer made light of it as an assault and issued a minor reprimand to the larger woman to keep her hands to herself. The issue was used as a charge of disobedience brought against the smaller woman and incorporated to eventually fire the smaller assaulted woman at the continual behest of the larger woman. (The smaller woman had not worked there long enough to qualify for full Union support). Not serious? Just women? Go figure?
2) I heard this from both parties and accept this account of what happened. A husband and wife have not been getting along as she simply seemed to have fallen out of love with him, ..no cheating, no substance abuse, not ever even any most minor previous physical struggle between them.
She is really ragging on him telling him to get out of his own house he paid for. He sat and listened saying little but finally lost it. He pushed her out a very nearby door and told her to get out. He never hit her by her own admission. She ran to a neighbour called the police saying she had been assaulted. 5 police cars soon arrived the man was taken into custody in handcuffs, spent over 24 hours in jail, and was issued a restraining order to never re-enter his home to retrieve any belongings unless she allowed it and was not there, while he would have to be accompanied by a sherrif and he was not able to even have access to his kids unless they requested to see him and she allowed it. She filed for divorce. Over a year later he was allowed to retrieve what few of his belongings were left in a damp box in the basement. The remainder of what had been rifled through and thrown away. Go figure again?
He was devastated and last I saw of him he was very alone. None of it seemed to bother her a bit about what she heaped on him as she hardly missed a stride and very soon took up with another man.
Now I don't say any of this typifies the general behavior of men or women but it certainly says something to me about how police and the legal system still view it differently depending on who is doing the hitting or even just pushing/pulling. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/26/2008 4:42:42 PM | | Not so.men always get away with their meaness starting crap,then blame her and cause her grief.now I know there are cases of true women beaters. I have seen the times where men get their butts beat down not just beat up and in those cases it is still Domestic Violence and he needs to get out of the relationship.very few cases happen that way and most are cases where the women finally gets the guts to stand up to the jerk and snapped and then taking his to the shed,whoops I meant through it the hard way.Forgot his name thought it was Earl ya know.Thinkin about startin that fruit stand any time.I would say good time guys to leave town if you made her that mad.Shoulda remembered oh baby honey and please along with all your lying and cheatin and phony gifts cause you broke her rose colored glasses and she is on to you. You should of hit her all that time. You taught her how to kick your hello!What ever you did not do fix it fast.And appologise even faster cause sooner or later the honey moon will be over and you gonna get just what you did to her back.Just the way Domestic Violence works it knows no particular sex.The dominate wins and it just might be that 4ft 11 in twig of a barbie doll you lusted over or that big momma.She hits men you stronger in most cases suck it up and run if you must or get all sweet depending on why you got it to start with.You may have deserved it.Get too bossy or silly and start bullying or teasing you bound to get in trouble sometimes.You knew you were gonna insult her. And by the way stop fliting with the woman she aint or staring. Put those eyes on her!Before you can't see straight enough to find the door.Just a few minor suggestions why .take it how you like see my humor but I 've been abused i understand both views all too well.And I do know once it starts only thing to do is get out .It is a pattern.I like the peace all too well and rest assured if I see abuser possibility I just found a new exit.Ill never stick around and go through that again. | |
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Niklas
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custis
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/26/2008 7:51:56 PM | Hell no.
If my woman ever hit me in anger that would be the end of everything right now. The last she would see of me would be the door closing as I left. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/26/2008 8:30:17 PM | | Violence never solves anything. It is best to walk away and cool it. No one man/woman should strike another person anytime, angry or not. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/26/2008 8:38:32 PM | | Violence either way round is never ok. I go with your playful stuff but not with your comment on 'if circmstances warrant this'. I have been in an abusive relationship and have slapped an ex and tried to provoke and he did the same and I agree with these posts, it isnt love, your unhappy and arguin and fightin becomes a way of life. Me Id walk away now before 'feeling' provoked (not saying I was I mean the way I felt at the time) and icertainly wouldnt put up with being knocked about by anyone! | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/26/2008 10:05:01 PM | | I dispise violence. I never hit my exhusband, nothing phisical to defend my own self. I never even phisically tryied to defend myself. It's not that I couldn't have. It's that I knew that violence against my own man, that God wouldn't approve. Phisical harm is not retractable. You hurt somone and that's it, You've hurt somone. Once you've done it you can't take it back. The best thing to do is just walk away. Do your best not to be fickle. If you don't get along with somone just stay away and don't go back. Especially if they've hurt you phisically. -A word from experiance. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/27/2008 1:58:22 PM | | I also hate violence and believe no one should hit their mate....male or female. I will never hit a woman, but if she hits me, then I can't say how I'll react. To me, as soon as a woman hits a man, she just became a man. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 7:30:22 AM | | Where in the world do these threads come from?...Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?...Cmon...Playfully no problem...What kind of retard would ask such a stupid question?..The answer is "No way".. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 8:05:16 AM | NO!
Especially when man is driving CAR!
She had mental health issues, socked me in the temple as
we sat at a traffic signal.[several teens walked in front of us]
I came close to losing the brake, she came close to running
over several innocent teens, who she felt drew my attention
away. [ironic..I was focused upward, on the light to change]
Later, it proved out she was very free with her hands, always
claiming her 5,000 paramours always hit her.
I've never even hinted at violence towards women, so it was a shock
to find her propensity for violence. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 8:44:29 AM | Seeing as men and women are supposed to be equal, I don't think it's ok in any case unless it's a life or death situation and I'm protecting myself or a loved one, then I'll haul off on anyone.
And I know some women who can hit just as hard as men, so I wouldn't sell them short either. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 8:52:00 AM | I prefer they don't hit me at all obviously but,if they do..they usually end up hurting themselves ..This is not the case with all women though..some gals have a very thorough
understanding of how to throw an effective punch lol | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 10:53:15 AM | | No! It is absolutely never okay for a woman to hit a man. For one thing, it's mean. And secondly, men are bigger than us and if they get mad and want to hit back, we're in big trouble!! | |
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