| | Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?Page 25 of 45 (5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43, 44, 45) | | Yes. If she has reason-s enough then yes. But a man must never ever hit a woman or even defend himself. The end. Don't be spineless creatures guys. | |
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TIBTAB
| | Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 602 | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 12:11:52 PM |
Yes. If she has reason-s enough then yes. But a man must never ever hit a woman or even defend himself. The end. Don't be spineless creatures guys.
Whoa. What if she has a knife?
I've known some tough women. I was raised well-- but even my grandmother would've agreed that you don't stand there and let someone beat the hell out of you. (True story, when my father was 5 a little girl knocked him around pretty good.... didn't fight back at all, 'cause he was raised well too. Went home.... my grandma told him that he could fight back next time.  )
I don't get angry, and I certainly wouldn't be violent out of anger. I would also certainly exit any situation where someone was hitting me. But if there's one thing that I've learned in this life it's that there are always surprises... and sometimes people find themselves backed into a corner. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 2:28:43 PM | Ex #1 tried a few times. First time she didn't realize that there was a door frame behind me and that I could feint her punch that quickly. I still hear the sound of the bones in her hand breaking as she made contact with that door frame. It helps me sleep well at night sometimes. 
As a rule I generally will not strike anyone unless I am threatened. After that.....make peace with whatever god you pray to because your time here is limited. Male or female...once you assume a predatory role you will end up being the prey. Very simple.
And don't you dare touch my children. A random woman ran into my youngest son at Home Depot with a shopping cart and blurted out, "Move it you brat." Knocked him down and ran over his leg with the buggy. Bad idea. The paramedics had to explain to her what had caused her to be in the ambulance. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 4:40:55 PM |
The paramedics had to explain to her what had caused her to be in the ambulance. Rather disturbing.
I think if a man hits a woman she has the right to wait for him to go to sleep ... then El Kabong him with the cast iron skillet! | |
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Posted: 3/28/2008 5:30:09 PM | That's right, be a man and take her punches which escalate into kicks which escalate into scissors which escalate into baseball bats... take it like a man!!! Most men will never call the cops, and some women can get ugly violent. If men call the cops for protection, usually they'll scorn the guy; and laugh. Many laws now (a high profile case in recent weeks here in Ontario) guarentee an automatic arrest for men with absolutely no investigation... Hurray for women's rights gone wild!! | |
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kensar
| | Joined: 7/22/2004
Msg: 608 | |
| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/28/2008 5:36:16 PM | | Its never ok for a woman to hit a man she says she is in love with. That will be when the circumstances warrant get hitting back. She has no business stepping in a man's shoes or she has to take what goes with it. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/29/2008 2:11:32 PM | And don't you dare touch my children. A random woman ran into my youngest son at Home Depot with a shopping cart and blurted out, "Move it you brat." Knocked him down and ran over his leg with the buggy. Bad idea. The paramedics had to explain to her what had caused her to be in the ambulance.
I saw a woman once slap and kick a kid at a supermarket close to where I live. The kid's mother beat the living snot out of her and the father gave her a few for good measure. The funniest thing is that she looked to me for help and I laughed. You hit someone's kids and all bets are off. | |
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RogMcK
| | Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 610 | |
| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 3/29/2008 2:37:45 PM | Best to let the wife do the punching and kicking. That is usually ignored by the authorities. Different story for men, though. It might lead to a session of playing hard to get with 'Mad Dog' in your cell late at night.
I would never stay with a woman who hit me. It will most likely escalate, and I won't let anyone abuse me - physically or emotionally. I would end the relationship if it continued after a serious warning. I haven't been in a real fight (broke up a couple) since high school, but I'm a big guy and don't want to lose control. That is a major reason why I don't drink, either. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/1/2008 1:51:51 AM | | Do they follow the same footsteps as their counter parts abused woman. I think we all think of men the more independant, the more protective the balance for self-sufficiency is assumed more masculine and the dominant from even asking a woman to dance to asking her to get married. But if you think about it would they be the first to leave. Wrong ofcourse does it matter , if that particular woman doesnt think it does it doesnt. VISA VERSA | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/1/2008 1:56:48 AM | | ^ Not that simple...if I'm reading your message correctly. Abusive partners exert control over their significant others by creating a cycle of dependency. Oftentimes, it begins with psychological and verbal abuse, followed by isolating an individual from his/her friends and family. When someone thinks that another person is their world and that they'd never be able to find someone else, it's amazing what they would tolerate. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/1/2008 9:11:55 PM | I absolutely love it if a woman takes a swing at me - that makes what happens next very, very simple. This has happened to me once while I've been dating and it was nice and clean - "Hey, I'm not ready to be with anyone" was very clearly communicated.
My ex took a swing at me once as part of her overall "I'm going nuts and not coming back" behavior that got us divorced. I didn't hit her back, but I clearly communicated (highschool wrestler, year of tae kwon do, hapkido, etc) that raising her hand to me was just not a good idea.
If someone is so angry/uncontrolled that they strike out at those around them they have no business at all dating.
On the flip side I will immediately discard any woman who has had more than one abusive relationship. That sort is *always* going to try to recreate that level of chaos and discomfort and there is nothing a woman can offer that makes that penalty worth paying. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/1/2008 9:18:55 PM | Depends on how big she is, as well.
If we're talking about a 5'4 woman hitting a guy 6'5 or taller, then there's really no argument. | |
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Zain.
| | Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 617 | |
| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/1/2008 10:27:58 PM | | out of violence? yeah its wrong to hit anyone out of passion? my last (and sadly only gf) loved to bite and scratch me. That didn't bother me at all. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/1/2008 11:05:20 PM |
On the flip side I will immediately discard any woman who has had more than one abusive relationship. That sort is *always* going to try to recreate that level of chaos and discomfort and there is nothing a woman can offer that makes that penalty worth paying.
Very true. It seems that they feed off of that drama.And if they don't get that type activity from you, they will find it somewhere else.Life is too short to deal with that problem. | |
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TPNW
| | Joined: 3/15/2008
Msg: 619 | |
| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/1/2008 11:25:23 PM | Its never okay to hit anyone. If you hit someone you should give them full authority to them to hit you back. I personally believe that some women should be charged with assualt. For example my cousins ex girlfriend smashed a full closed beer bottle over his head and he got a huge black eye from it. She should have been charged. Most of the time people hit others over name calling which is sign of immaturity.
Its always wrong to hit someone unless you are doing so in defense of yourself or a loved one. There isnt much to debate here. Women have no right to hit anyone regardless of what name they are called or how big of an ***hole hes being.
I recall being hit by one of my exes. I simply picked her up carried her to the door and plopped her outside and closed the door. She sat on the porch crying for quite some time before leaving. She hit me a few times actually all in the same instance. I called her a **** and she started swinging. It was wrong of me to call her a name but at the same time it was even more wrong for her to hit me because of it.
No women should not be allowed to hit people and if they hit anyone. Especially not someone much bigger and stronger than them. Thats just stupidity at its finest. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/2/2008 12:21:29 AM | If someone really took it upon themselves to hit me, they better expect that it will not end well. Who and what they are is not going to stop trained instinctive responses and I assure you that those responses are all bad for whoever is on the other end.
Mind you, I never incite violence and outside of training situations, am never really involved in it. I do not expect that I will face such a situation anytime soon. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/2/2008 12:56:33 AM | the balance for self-sufficiency is assumed more masculine and the dominant
this is from my previous post and I would emphasize assumed- and like to repeat do they suffer the same and go thru the same as the woman counter parts. My answer is why wouldnt they except ! they have less to fall back on from their plight unless there a secret escape for them as well. Especailly if they have children as well and power is shifted against them. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/2/2008 2:32:38 AM | Well, physical violence is absolutely not tolerated in my opinion, unless defending your life and then restraint is at hand or escape, violence only if there is no other way out.
Some of the posts on here have been disturbing to me, if somone hits you this does not give permission for you to hit back, just because, tit for tat. You can restrain the person or leave, remove yourself from the situation immediately, otherwise you are no better than the person who origninally hit you.
Personally, I do not think physical violence is tolerable in any form, sadly people will rant and rave about not being able to hit each other as adults but still think it is okay to hit children (who definitely cannot defend themselves).
My 2 cents | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/2/2008 3:54:59 AM | | Personally I don't think it is acceptable for someone to strike their partner violently, unless it is done in lawful self-defence. Domestic violence in all its forms should be anathema in our society. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/3/2008 1:01:14 AM | No, it's not ok. There's no hitting in a healthy relationship.
Heh, my mother told me she used to worry about me growing up and getting with a guy who hit me, but she said all fear of that disappeared the day I blasted my ex in the face for pushing me.
Note: Bah, I was young and dumb and didn't know well enough to just walk away. I've matured a bit since I was 16-17. A little bit. At least in the relationship area. | |
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