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 Author Thread: Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
 jhathon

Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 676
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/16/2008 6:49:52 AM
I think it is a dangerous double standard. Everyone presumably knows when it's 'all in fun, playful, etc.' However, I feel for guys who can be assaulted, and then if they try to defend themselves, get away, etc. they are often not beleived. It must be scary for the guys.
 queenofdanile78

Joined: 3/20/2008
Msg: 677
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Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:05:40 AM
Okay can't believe we as adults are talking about whether it's okay to hit, and when I say hit I don't mean playfully smack or whatever. For those people who work around or have kids, what do we say to those children. "It's never okay to hit", so now talking to an adult "It's never okay to physically hurt someone!" Whether that person is a man or woman, no one has a right to abuse another person. If you can't keep your anger in check, and you lash out at someone. YOU are the one that needs help to keep your anger in control. Understand I'm not saying that you personally have done this, it's a general you. As adults this behavior is unacceptable.
 countrytat

Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 678
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Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:09:22 AM
Stupid Question...is it ok to steal?....... I would never hit a guy ...in a mean way unless he hit me first...im not into abusive relationships on either side...... and if he did hit me he would be hoping i didnt have my .45 on me :).......

Abusive men and women are ASS HOLES!
 1missblueeyes

Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 679
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:15:16 AM
It is not acceptable for anyone to strike anyone else. If someone does choose to hit another person, that person deserves to be held accountable for their negative actions and prosecuted to the full extent of the law.
 Mirage111

Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 680
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Posted: 4/16/2008 8:20:50 AM
Hitting out of anger and violence is wrong. It shows a lack of control in both sexes.
Most men physically are stronger then women hence, they should not go there. Women you know this so you should not go there.

All in all keep your hands to yourself if you are angry. Never lose your cool, it shows the other has gotten the better of you.
 sherrylin

Joined: 3/31/2008
Msg: 681
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Posted: 4/16/2008 11:48:57 AM
NO !!!! No human being should ever hit another human and not expect to be hit back, its called self defense!!!
 Kingdongilingus

Joined: 5/28/2007
Msg: 682
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/16/2008 2:07:04 PM
Sure, it is fine for her to hit me and act like a man, that way, I can repay in kind.

I don't touch women in that way, if one is actually that stupid to try it with me, well now, a fast Donkey Punch and that game is over.

You see, the reason women DO hit men is because they find so many wimp-ass men.
Personal Responsibility, you do the deed, you get repaid in kind.

Trust me, won't take but once, they will soon decide it is not "economical" to smack me anymore.
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 683
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Posted: 4/16/2008 2:08:55 PM
This is a no brainer; is it ok to commit assault on someone? No. It doesn't matter what the sex.
 loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 684
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Posted: 4/16/2008 2:16:39 PM
you bet....if he hits her first . hit him with everything she has, baseball bat, skillet..whatever.

My late husband never hit not even once although there were brat attacks that warranted it. I told him when we first married that if he ever hit me, he better never ever go to sleep again because he wouldn't live to see the morning

 slider 10

Joined: 2/18/2008
Msg: 685
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 4/17/2008 7:32:54 AM
whichever way you look at it, theres no excuse for any kind of domestic violence, irrespective of gender
 GenieNitro

Joined: 8/14/2006
Msg: 686
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Posted: 4/17/2008 5:32:53 PM
No, unwanted violence against the person is never ok!

SC
 Levi501s

Joined: 6/26/2007
Msg: 687
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Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 5/6/2008 7:20:55 PM
Looks like todays episode of "Jerry Springer" has been cancelled.

Wow! They deleted a WHOLE thread!
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
Msg: 688
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Posted: 5/6/2008 7:46:45 PM
khrockproduce, you are a disgrace to society. Men don't ever deserve to be slapped ever even is a woman won't cause damage. It shws the level of respect in a relationship. Women are not children and shouldn't be expected to be treated as such.
 kittenshere41

Joined: 4/16/2008
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Posted: 5/6/2008 7:57:17 PM
skjoldhus message 263 on page 11. Your a true man. I wish all men had the insight u have. I have never hit a man nor will I ever, but your post is the most intelligent post I have read on this whole discussion. Thumbs up to you handsome. A true man indeed.
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
Msg: 690
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Posted: 5/6/2008 8:03:21 PM
Oh god not again kitten. Once again condoning men should NEVER hit women but even if she hit him. But never the other way arund. Society is filled with so many misnadrists and feminized wimps.
 kittenshere41

Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 691
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Posted: 5/6/2008 8:07:35 PM
oh God yes, its me again Did ya miss me John? A man that hits a woman is not a man but an ***hole. you really could learn alot from skjoldhus. he is right ...you are wrong. just when I was beginning to think there were no real men in pof ...skjoldhus appears. A man any woman would be proud to have.
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
Msg: 692
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Posted: 5/6/2008 8:36:34 PM
What about a woman that hits a man? SHe is not a woman. She is acting like a man and why should she be treated as otherwise? The bible says do unto others as you would expect they should do unto you. Read this : enwikipedia.org/wiki/Ethic_of_reciprocity. D you think both the law and the bible only apply to men?

By the way its ON pof not in pof.

Kitten do you have any sons?
 WeAre1

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 693
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Posted: 5/6/2008 9:25:40 PM
so what happened?? it was here and now it's gone and been replaced with this thread from before and with many more pages. (jd- hmmm, guess you didn't do a search before you started the cloned thread, huh).....
and why was the cloned one deleted so far after the fact? perhaps it took them that long to find it and see all the swear words that had crept into it.
by the way, i would highly recommend the two posters above me keep a low profile here or else this one might go too! (giggle)
i do wish to say the other thread did lead to some reflections and if it wasn't for you two hammering your points home, i might not have gotten to see just how we push and push until the anger grows....sort of like how violence happens often.
and, for the record - no, it's not ok at all for anyone to hit another, whether man or woman, animal, child, elderly, and especially not the people you claim to love!
 AngelnGa

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 694
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Posted: 5/6/2008 10:02:08 PM
No it is not ok for a woman to hit a man. Violence rarily solves anything. If you cannot reason with someone walk away.
 tick tock

Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 695
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Posted: 5/7/2008 2:10:56 AM
^ Please explain that to your president.
 kittenshere41

Joined: 4/16/2008
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Posted: 5/7/2008 3:40:50 AM
yes john, I have a son and he is being raised to belive exactly like skjoldhus. If a woman hits him, he is to let the law take care of her.....not beat her. look at what all happened to my brother john, his so called woman ran his car into a tree over and over so it wouldnt run anymore...the only car he had, hit him repeateadly..damn near on daily basis, poisioned him, and many other things, I never once told him to hit her. I told him to prosecute her and leave her. There is a right way and a wrong way to handle things John. hitting the female is not the answer. however it will give you more trouble than u wanted.....jail time. just when you think you're mad enough cuase some little woman hit ya... well just wait and see how mad you get when ur on your way to jail all because you chose to handle situation the wrong way. now i did not come here to fight with you John, nor am I going to. I am trying to make a point to you and other men like you who would hit a female. save yourself the grief of jailtime and do things the right way. I am not mad at you John, and the other thread well I ended things on it as well. I only answered here because I was impressed with skjoldhus's post.
The answer to your question why should she not be treated like a man if she is gonna act like one..........because she aint one and it will cause you jail time. thats why. acting like and being one are too different things. I fully understand how mad it would make the man but u got to handle it the right way. you have a wonderful day john and be safe. :)
 Cumbria1

Joined: 10/16/2006
Msg: 697
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 5/7/2008 3:52:46 AM
It is never ok for a man to hit a woman or woman to hit a man..ever.
 tick tock

Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 5/7/2008 3:53:28 AM
look at what all happened to my brother john, his so called woman ran his car into a tree over and over so it wouldnt run anymore...the only car he had, hit him repeateadly..damn near on daily basis, poisioned him, and many other things, I never once told him to hit her. I told him to prosecute her and leave her.


Now that's just crazy talk. It's one thing if a woman slaps you or punches you, you shouldn't hit back...let the law deal with that slut. However, if a woman did that crap to me she would be taking a dirtnap after a long and painful beating. lol
 stevelfun

Joined: 10/23/2005
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Posted: 5/7/2008 4:27:45 AM
I don't think that it happens nearly enough. I think a few more men deserve to get 'hit'.

If it happened a bit more often - maybe there would be much less of the players, game playing and the like.

Ladies, put on those brass knuckles and haul off on a jerk or two.

 nice_catch77

Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 5/7/2008 7:15:21 AM
violence is not the answer. Unless someone is threatening my and/or my families life. No one man and/or woman has the right to hit anyone. If it is life or death situation then use what ever means necessary.
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