| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/7/2005 9:08:01 AM | I may be nothing but a softy, Was in an abusive relationship. She hit I hugged her more. Beating them with kindness will always prevail.;) | |
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| BS Posted: 5/7/2005 9:10:53 AM | If you need to hit someone then I thing you need to look at yourself and ask yourself a question. Do you feel good about yourself, are you prod that you can hit and hurt people, does that turn you on to see people hurt. If you need to hit then I can only say you need seriously help no matter whose doing the hitting.
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| BS Posted: 5/7/2005 9:30:48 AM | The housewife answered a knock on the door and found a total stranger standing on the doorstep. 'Excuse me for disturbing you, ma'am,' he said politely, ' but I pass your house every morning on my way to work, and I've noticed that every day you appear to be hitting your son on the head with a loaf of bread!' 'That's right.' 'Every day you wallop him on the head with a loaf of bread, and yet this morning you were hitting him with a chocolate cake....?' 'Well, today is his birthday!'
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| BS Posted: 5/7/2005 9:31:22 AM | | NO | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/7/2005 12:45:13 PM | Hitting = inability to maintain maturity when control is not yours.
Hitting is a child's way of pouting because things aren't going as planned/desired.
Might as well leave, it will only get worse. These type people rarely change their habbits unless some sort of binding intervention takes place. Even then it's not a guarantee. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/7/2005 9:35:21 PM | | Since this is an adult forum, there may be adult topics. Vandelai brought up a valid point. Now adays women are doing a lot more violence. As seen with women drowning their kids, hitting spouses ect. Of course guys have more of a record with domestic violence on average. People shoud be aware of things like this, then just sweeping it under the rug and petending it does not happen. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/7/2005 10:27:13 PM | | if a woman hits me, and it's a serious smack, i'd treat her like any guy who hit me. i'd restrain her, pin her, and make sure sure she wasn't getting back up until she calmed down. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/8/2005 12:01:27 AM | It is NEVER ok for either sex to hit one another.
The violence has to stop somewhere, or it becomes a vicious cycle. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/8/2005 3:04:00 AM | I know im young only 18....but i got to say if a woman snaps one day cuz of the abuse from her spouse then she (if she can) should knock the sh*t out of him....or ask me too cuz i would be more then happy too hehe.....ummm just dont jump me for saying that ok lol!!!! Thanx Ashley  | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/8/2005 3:14:48 AM | | If you get hit just once, that's it! Relationship over. If not, that just tells the abuser that it's ok to do it again. I've never hit a woman in my life, but I've been punched while I was sitting and feeding a baby for God's sake. Punched me and then quickly ran out the door. What A freakin' psycho that b**** was. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/8/2005 7:10:12 AM |
vandelal, must you? (start these outrageous threads)
You hold him, sal, and I'll hit him until he promises to stop starting threads!
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/8/2005 7:21:32 AM | depends
the last thing i need is a girl beatin me up
wheras indoors(i.e in the bedroom) i dont mind some beating and vis versa
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/8/2005 8:33:17 AM | Self defense and ONLY TRUE self defense......a woman who is 5'7 250 hitting a man 5'7 150 she COULD hurt him......self defense.If a situation that requires even the thought of self defense occures between a couple its time to desolve the union. If on the street type situation....again;self defense.I don't beleive there should be much of a double standard but honestly, a 5'3 130lbs woman wouldn't pose enough threat to a 6'3 205lbs man to the point to which he could not restrain her,unless he was ill or handicap.Restrain her then FIGURATIVELY,kick her butt to the curb.  | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/8/2005 8:38:24 AM | Beating them with kindness will always prevail.;)"
I agree and disagree.......after all you are not together currently right? Hug them then (figuratively) KICK HER BUTT to the curb.Wisdom is a great protector of kindness. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 5/8/2005 8:45:28 AM | "statistically speaking more urbanguys and gals are involved in domestic abuse..."
most probably due to the fact that there are more of them and a more sensitive police force.Per capita however,there is little difference. | |
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