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Posted: 5/10/2008 8:08:02 AM | As today's state of affairs, a man calling the police because a woman hit him or just trying to restrain her from attacking him is a risk for him to end up in jail.
It's like the homeowner who shot a burglar in a home invasion, being sued by the burglar... and the insurance company settles with the burglar... because "use of excessive force" from the homeowner who was just protecting his family  | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 11:41:02 AM | i make it clear from the get-go that if you hit me, i will be hitting you back the same way with equal force.
i dont buy into that bullshit double standard. big girls dont hit people.
but if youre froggy enough to hit, then youre froggy enough to get hit back. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 1:05:41 PM | No, I do not believe it is ok for women to hit men.. nor men to hit women.. I think that shows a total lack of respect. and it is wrong.
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Posted: 5/10/2008 1:13:10 PM | I often wondered why the majority tolerates it. Growing up in an era where American women routinely slapped a mans face for various causes e.g. disrespect, control issues, or even inappropriate touching, etc... has only strengthened my opinion that this is usually a counter-productive measure.
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As far as the equality issue... lets be real shall we? Womens bone and/or muscle is not as dense as a mans (typically) so, she (typical females)shouldnt make the mistake of thinking that shes capable of going toe-to-toe with Bruno and fair as well as he would when the dust settles. His bulk is a huge consideration. (No pun intended)
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However, if a woman is in a do-or-die situation; she should intiate an all out effort to survive at any price! 
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That being said, I dont believe its ever acceptable to hit your mate, regardless of gender. If hostilities have reached that point... (or, even desiring to harm another) its time for a change. I would recommend therapy, sedatives and/or divorce.
Having a successful relationship with loved-ones requires us to extend a steady supply of love. Contrary to some... I dont subscribe to (nor understand) the -pain is pleasure- preference. I can work on engines or run acres of livestock fencing and receive cuts and bruising all day long. But, later after a shower... and Im in a mood for love -I prefer a mix of tenderness and nurturing to help me heal from all my aches and pains. Hence, Ive never felt the urge to pay a doctor to tell him that, it hurts when I do that... Only to have him tell me to, stop doing that! Id be spending my money foolishly. I couldve paid for an extended stay at a respite facility with that money instead.
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Posted: 5/10/2008 2:03:47 PM | Just a quick address to the extended topic of men hitting women back after an assault...
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Ive raised my sons not to lower their standards and hit women even to retalliate, unless its required to remove weapons etc. I explained that the typical gal can usually only leave redness and slight bruising. This is something a man rarely is capable of when hes striking a woman. Most men unintentionaly inflict fractures or death... so, why risk that? Ive instucted them to just restrain a woman (by twisting her hands) to sit her down aggressively. In this manner she will recognize that youre assuming a dominate posture and youll be able to walk away safely.
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My rationale for such tolerance is: A typical male spends his entire youth training in extreme sports and/or football and they have a herd of walking-refridgerators pounce on them (just for fun) on regularly scheduled intervals.... Its not to much to expect a man to overlook/ withstand the feable assault of a typical 150+/- lb unstable woman once! IMHO
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It truly does take a bigger man to just walk away!
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As E.Honda would say... Thats SUMO baby!
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Posted: 5/10/2008 2:33:04 PM |
My rationale for such tolerance is: A typical male spends his entire youth training in extreme sports and/or football and they have a herd of walking-refridgerators pounce on them (just for fun) on regularly scheduled intervals.... Its not to much to expect a man to overlook/ withstand the feable assault of a typical 150+/- lb unstable woman once! IMHO
yes it is too much to ask a man to put up with being assaulted.
this whole "men are inherently stronger" thing is something a woman should consider before she starts hitting and slapping people and not serve as some kind of rationale for a man to put up with someone assaulting them.
now im not condoning beating the crap out of your other, but i am condoning an eye for an eye.
being born with a penis doesnt make stuff hurt any less and doesnt dull the feeling of being disrespected. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 3:23:34 PM | "... i am condoning an for an eye."
Violance generate more violance in a vicious circle.
Your opinion about response being hit -about the 11% of all males- is roughly the same of women's opinion instead of leaving their abuser.
Of course, to criticize is always easier than to offer solutions... so I have an idea: in case of doubts (he says, she says) to arrest EQUALLY anyone involved in a fight. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 3:25:54 PM | iamnotsinfuld says, ...being born with a penis doesnt make stuff hurt any less...
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No? Funny that you should say that. Because, being born with a penis typically insures that youll also be born with gonads and its the gonads, as I understand it that produces the majority of testosterone. Its the testosterone that acts as a natural pain inhibitor.
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As for disrepect... I am of the understanding that, honor is a gift that a man gives himself and nobody can take away.
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Posted: 5/10/2008 3:29:18 PM | ^^^^ I believe he was speaking about the emotional pain, the humilliation that "doesn't dull the feeling of being disrespected".
Once again, domestic violance is people's problem, not a gender specific issue. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 5:35:29 PM |
No? Funny that you should say that. Because, being born with a penis typically insures that youll also be born with gonads and its the gonads, as I understand it that produces the majority of testosterone. Its the testosterone that acts as a natural pain inhibitor.
Yeahhhhhh that makes sense, it must be why men are the ones that give birth to offspring. Where on earth do you get your "scientific" information? Testosterone does not dull response to pain, it can affect aggression. Perhaps you were thinking of adrenaline and the fight or flight response? Last I checked women too have adrenal glands.
Come back and lets discuss pain after you have taken a hard hit to your exposed gonads.
It is time to stop making excuses for female abusers and/or belittling male recipients. It shows very little thought and even less common sense or compassion. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:19:13 PM | Have you been abused by a woman loonytunz? I'm just curious because you have so little compassion for women being victims of violence.
I know so many men that strongly oppose a violent act being committed towards a woman. The fact that you don't sympathize at all with a female victim worries me.
If I took a guess, I'd say that you don't have a daughter. I have 2 sons and 2 daughters. Even at 8 and 12, the boys think hurting a woman is wrong. The girls think hurting anyone is wrong. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:46:34 PM |
Have you been abused by a woman loonytunz? I'm just curious because you have so little compassion for women being victims of violence.
I know so many men that strongly oppose a violent act being committed towards a woman. The fact that you don't sympathize at all with a female victim worries me.
If I took a guess, I'd say that you don't have a daughter. I have 2 sons and 2 daughters. Even at 8 and 12, the boys think hurting a woman is wrong. The girls think hurting anyone is wrong.
what planet are you from? The thread is "Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?" My answer is clearly "no it is not". This is not a thread asking "is it okay to hit a woman?" I have replied in threads such as that with the same answer that it is unacceptable.
Hey guess what I strongly oppose violence as a solution period. But I'm not going to let anyone start smacking me around man or woman because they feel entitled by some victim-complex either.
Oh and I do have a daughter and a son and they would both get the same punishment for hitting the other with no regard to the sex of the child. Why would I want to teach my daughter that it is okay for her to act like a little barbarian while telling my son it is not okay for him?
I would question why you chose not to teach your own boys that hitting "anyone" is wrong rather than it is just wrong to hit girls though? | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:53:08 PM | Every time a woman tells their son to not hit women even if they are being hit , she is responsible for the men who are being beat and killed by their wives and is contributing to domestic violence.
No? Funny that you should say that. Because, being born with a penis typically insures that youll also be born with gonads and its the gonads, as I understand it that produces the majority of testosterone. Its the testosterone that acts as a natural pain inhibitor.
This is wrong on so many levels. While men may have stronger bones overall ( which is even further skewed by exercising) face structure is generally the same in both genders. A man's cheekbones/jaw are not any stronger than a woman's.
Plus don't even bring up testosterone. Thats a moot point and can be used against you. Since testosterone is related to aggression you can argue it is biologically in a man's nature to hit women but since women don't have it they shouldn't hit. But nobody buys this or your point. Plus having external gonads means further sensitivity means a greater need for men to protect themselves. But this is no justification and neither is yours for hitting.
Its nurture vs nature and nurture should be stronger. I don't care if men have testosterone. They shouldn't hit women. I don't care if men are stronger. They shouldn't be hit by women because of this. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:56:45 PM | | Hi agian john..you and your foolishness. give it a rest. this thread has gone too far. anyway since I may not be here tomorrow, due to a man beating me, lol I would like to say to all the mothers out here...Happy Mothers Day. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 7:09:34 PM | kitten don't be blindly antagonistic.
Its nurture vs nature and nurture should be stronger. I don't care if men have testosterone. They shouldn't hit women. I don't care if men are stronger. They shouldn't be hit by women because of this.
Do share with us (and show everyone why you would make such a lovely date) wht exactly is foolish about this? | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 7:12:53 PM | | well gee read john dukes first sentence in his last post. I think john is losing it. msg 799 by the way, i dont have to show anyone how im a great date. If a man decides to get to know me rather than put down on women the man will find out on his own what a lovely person i truely am. I wont be the one who comes up with the reasons why im a great person.. the man will do that. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 7:16:47 PM | Is it? I must have missed that memo. ;)
I can confidently say, I've never raised that type of ire from any of the women I've been with and I hope never to do so!
hell hath no fury.... | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 7:28:58 PM | In fact I do tell my boys not to hit anyone. Fighting is never the solution. I tell them to walk away from a fight if it can be avoided. But always stick up for yourself. And guess what, they have never hit anyone yet. I was bullied by a boy when i was a kid and don't want the same for my kids.
They just know without me saying anything that hitting a woman is not a manly thing to do. They respect woman and all people. Their teachers always tell me my kids are role models for other kids and they are looked up to. Don't tell me what to teach my children. They've been taught well.
My kids get punished the same way too. Regardless of gender. Either by grounding or taking away privileges. I don't ever spank them. I don't believe in hitting kids.
HI KITTEN!!
Thanks for the happy mother's day wish!!! | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 7:37:58 PM | hiya prairiechick, and your welcome. how was your mothers day. I spent mine in another state with my mom. we went out to eat and then casino and we both won lol for a change. I think they loosened the machines for mothers day. lol otherwise we would have lost like usual.
cubanguy Mothers Day in my state is May 11 and today is May 10. If you forgot your Mom for Mothers Day dont worry you still have tomrorow to get her soemthing. sometimes days fly by so fast things have a way of sneaking up on ya lol. | |
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