| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/5/2006 11:32:53 PM | I am going to go against the grain and say sure it is.
I dated a crazy chick who in a drunken rage started hitting me while I was driving. I slammed on the brakes reached over her small flailing form and opened her door. I then took my size twelve foot, put it on her hip, braced my back against my door and shoved her stupid violent ass onto the road where for all I know she still is. You thought she would have learned because sometime before that she opened my backdoor and grabbed a 50 pound metal wieght and tried to throw it from the back seat through my front windshield. She failed it cracked my dash but she didn't get a chance to see her handiwork as I grabbed her by the hair of her head and yanked her out of my car and through her to the ground.
I never hit her. I never attacked her or her property unprovoked. She was a violent drunk and I tried to help her. But I never once decided I would not hit her if she ever hit me.
I would like to add that I have seen and heard women on these forums and elsewhere in life talk about how they COULD beat a man's ass. Not gonna happen EVER ladies so please stop saying this sort of thing.
Seriously unless you are on steroids or outwiegh a man by at least a hundred pounds you have no chance and seem foolish saying that you can. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/5/2006 11:45:14 PM | sorry place.. some women are tougher than men when their life or well being are at risk.
my x tried to hit me and my mom didnt raise no fool. as soon as he tried it he got hit square enough to sing soprano for a year. he learnt real fast not to try to hit me.
we may not have the strength to beat a guy down..but alot of hurt knowledge goes alonggggg way to get him down fast and yourself safe.
i will never ever agree to a man hitting a woman in 99% of the cases. but even i will agree there is that 1 chance she deserves it back if she starts it and it way out of bounds to a male.
if a woman gets like the one u described..well then sorry i agree she should of got a smack..not a punch back. if she wants to get vicious to the point of using anything that could be a weapon..then i agree a male has the right to protect himself back within jusified reason. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/5/2006 11:59:07 PM | Okay that is terrific you kicked a guy in the balls.
Let me make this clear. If a MAN is ready to throw down and you are not trained in kung fu kicking him in the balls is pretty hard to do. And if you do decide to fight a man to prove that girl power can conquer this final frontier and to prove that penis envy is not a myth then you better be trained in kung fu because anyone who has ever been in a fight will tell you kicking someone is very hard to do. It is the slowest form of attack compared to a jab or punch. Most fights wind up on the ground no matter what and women please understand this
women on average are not strong enough TO KICK A MAN'S ASS. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 12:59:11 AM | mm ok where did i once ever say i kicked him??? i said he sang soprano for a yr...quick to judge how i hit did you.
you are talking silliness now over kung fu etc etc....we are talking over a hit in different forms..not trained skills...
but i not getting into a mental midget disagreement with you over this.
i was the first to say.....women cant beat males in a true physical battle..as they are normally the weaker physical sex....sheesh
back to the topic at hand...as i stated..there is no reasonable excuse/reason in 99% of situations for a male to hit a female.
but i also am against any physical attacks on any person totaly..unless its self protection in 99% of cases. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 1:09:34 AM | no its not okay ,unless she was being threatened
no violence should be excepted,,,unless in a life or death situation
if you want to hit something get a punching bag ,,men and women  | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 1:30:56 AM | I was only making a point of how hard it is to kick a guy in the balls. I assumed you kicked him b/c if you got close enough to punch or grab them he COULD have knocked you out.
I think you are too sassy for a mental midget like me however. Not to mention too old and too fat. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:15:34 AM | This is only my morbid sense of logic coming to the fore again but,
A battling couple, hitting one another in front of their kids are still less likely to lose the custody of their kids than
-- a horny couple groping, or even bonking in front of the kids. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:19:27 AM | Seriously unless you are on steroids or outwiegh a man by at least a hundred pounds you have no chance and seem foolish saying that you can.
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This tickles my sense of the ridiculous Placename
Because I actually do know a couple of girls like that. Seriously bigg mommas and their husbands are rakes who just have a thing for big girls.
The laugh is that everybody assumes that because these girls CAN whip their husband that they are doing so regularly. Never occurs to anyone that they love em to much to hit them. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:23:21 AM | If a man is a gentleMAN then by his actions , he would not give a lady any reason to hit him
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Karma
You make the unfortunate mistake of assuming that the only person who has any real influence in a ladys life is her husband.
No mum, no girlfriends, no nothing else.
In fact husbands influence is usually from number five to number ten in the average wife's life.
Crazy women don't need a reason. They just hit. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:29:12 AM | A question for everyone. Paticularly Placename who left the lady on the roadside.
If s/he ever hits you is the relationship over????
Quite frankly I think it is. First time every time. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:37:38 AM | I've always said, I'd never hit a woman... unless she's coming after me with a meat cleaver or other deadly weapon, then all bets are off  (self-defense)
I think the same goes in reverse. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:38:08 AM | NO it isn't ok
If a woman hits a man she should do so with the thought that it will come right back at me and can I handle it?
I have taught my sons ... that you don't hit women ...BUT.... if one hits you... don't stand there and take it, don't clock her back with a full fist but make sure she doesn't get a second one in
That is the law, it is called self defence and since when was self defence only for women??????
I know I will hear crap for posting this but you know what who cares, I have seen women that abuse men and no one is doing that to my sons.... it is like it is a joke or wussy to report it, it is such a double standard
So women before you swing count on it coming back !!! You want to act like a man then take it like a man !!!!!!!!!!!
ya ya ya I know violence is never good BUT neither is being a punching bag | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:49:26 AM | | I don't believe it's okay for people to hit each other, man or woman. And Placename - it's not okay to sling uncalled for insults either. It's called verbal abuse, and can be as devastating as physical abuse. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 7:37:08 AM | | As a survivor of many, and I do mean many "hits", I can say with all honesty that hitting, no matter your gender, is completely unacceptable. I have been stabbed, burned, had my nose, sternum, clavivle all broken, my ears boxed to the point of 30% hearing loss, my hair is starting to grow back in the places it had been yanked out from the roots. Yes, I survived. Also, a good "spank" is ok now and then, do not get me wrong. But, for the most part, I have learned, and lived it, do NOT put your hands on anyone in anger. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 8:28:05 AM | | My ex wife used to get drunk and hit and bite me and also hit the kids too. One day after I was dripping blood all over the floor after her assault on me she went after our daughter. I the hauled her to the floor (martial arts tactic) and put her in a hold so she couldnt move. My daughter then had to go to the neibours to call the police because she ripped out the phone jacks. I never hit her once during our 10 year relationship. And no, I am not scared of women and don't think it's right to be hit. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 10:55:19 AM | | I would have to question placename as to why he'd still be there after she tried to throw a 50-pound weight.. I would have been out of that "relationship" then and there. No 2nd chances in my eyes in that situation. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 11:15:10 AM | | No kidding. I was raised in a slum in Compton, Cali. Very rough. anyway I know a woman personally that can whoop men-not all men but she was tough. What we fail to remember here is that the female gender in almost all species of life on our planet is the more dangerous of the two genders. I.E. spiders, big cats, dogs etc. It is never okay for a woman to hit a man and I've only been a victim of that once. I didnt hit her back but I dumped aquafina all over her and ripped her shirt off. I tell every woman I date to never, NEVER hit me. If she did I would definitely fight her like she was a man. I dont tolerate that at all. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 11:21:40 AM | It's never alright for anyone to hit anyone else.
Violence is just wrong. Especially against someone you supposedly love.
Though, I suppose if you're hitting them, there's definitely no love there. :p
I was in an abusive relationship once.
Both mental and physical.
And I can tell you, that women can be just as cruel and vicious as men.
But no matter the cause, there is never an excuse.
Saying you're drunk, or you've been stressed is BS.
If you hit someone you're with... you're scum.
And no, you don't deserve a second chance. None of that "Oh, I'll never do it again!" garbage... because they will. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 11:36:51 AM | Wait one cotton pickin minute; you mean it's not ok to slap the b*tch around a little if the dinners not on the table when you get home from work? What the h*ll is this world coming to
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Posted: 6/6/2006 12:08:31 PM | It's not OK but it is acceptable sometimes.
If a man cheats on a woman, inappropriately touches, steals from her, hits her child then I think he deserves what he gets.
On the other hand is it ever appropriate for a man to hit a woman? Well if she cheats on him, hits him for no good reason, steals from him, hits his child, I think the same punishment is warranted only with subdued force that woulndn't cause serious damage. (slap in the face perhaps). This post should make me popular with the ladies... | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 6/6/2006 1:13:05 PM | Look I am sorry about this but you all seem to be imagining a 30 stone tent look alike hitting a tiny little wimpy man.
The point I am making is with most women the power what they have is not enough to hurt a man – with the exception of the good old kick in the nether regions, they would have to be at least 100lbs heavier to make an impact—and yes excepting all those of you who do karate etc.,
Ok so now we have to consider the weight to height ratio. If ure a 4ft woman and ure trying to hit a 6 ft man, unless he is laid down u aren’t going to do it.
So where do you draw the line, a simple friendly slap may one day be outlawed so think on before seeing some things in black and white—sometimes there are grey areas.
If my ex girlfriend ever slapped me I would be thinking Christ I must have done something wrong, better go buy some flowers---- THE ****
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