| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 7:20:27 AM |
To say that because the woman is the weaker sex.............. we dont say that. Its simply how God made it. to argue such a point is insane. God made men the stronger sex. believe it or not.
Your an embarrassment to your own gender. You're not a woman. Not every woman has the strength and brain of a little girl. Women are just as strong as men in some cases. For example female pilots in the air force are known to far outshine their male counterparts. Women's hands can take more pressure and are better for some surgeries. Believe it or not there are some strong women out there. And raw strength doesn't matter these days because if you know martial arts and can hit the right pressure points you can take out anybody. Women can take out men and short skinny men can take out bodybuilders. The advantage of raw strength went out thousands of years ago.
The popularity of temporary insanity and the newly dubbed "sudden passion", are the excuses that women, most commonly use to justify their actions and stay out of prison for their rising domestic abuse, which now accounts for 1 out of every 4 incidents, and rising.
Am I right in assuming only a woman could use that excuse in court? | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 7:45:59 AM | BTw if you think women are so weak and so nice you should know women kill their children much more than men kill their children. The majority of child abusers are women not men.
"Unfortunately not. According to the US Department of Justice, 70% of confirmed cases of child abuse and 65% of parental murders of children are committed by mothers."
America's not a good place for men to live in btw. Men are much better off in Northern and Western European countries. Keep cameras around you house to disapprove false allegations. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 7:52:19 AM | well let me see if i can take defense classes and whip ur ass john duke. you seem to need it. and who kills more of who is not the topic. try to stick to topic at hand.
and trying to put down on me is childish and matters none to me how u feel about me. please grow up. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 8:02:29 AM | To post 976, rock hunter , if u need to understand the difference between a "real man" and a "low life coward" jsut ask me and i will send u a list.
No thanks, I prefer to listen to real women, not to overgrown little girls. Anyway, if you wish to exchange lists, I'd give you my list of a real woman so, you know, get some tips.
I have one of the best already and he and I will be married in few weeks.
Does he know that if someday you become "unstable" (wonder why you changed the word), you fully expect he will stay put and take all your abuse without complaining nor defense?
No, I don't want to listen to dumb women. You're an exception.
if i did ever hit him he would never raise a hand to me. he isnt that kind.
So, you would hit him BECAUSE you know he wouldn't answer. Where I come from, to hit somebody only because who you know he won't defend himself has a name: COWARDICE. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 8:04:39 AM | no u jsut wnat to hear women who are dumb enough to tell u its ok to hit her and its ok for her to hit him. thats what u want. but since i dont think its ok for either to hit the other im a little girl. well if thats ur take on things im proud to be a little girl.
Does he know that if someday you become "unstable", you fully expect he will stay put and take all your abuse without complaining nor defense?
I am not unstable and never will be the kind of lady to hit a man. its childish and uncalled for but if i did ever hit him he would never raise a hand to me. he isnt that kind of person. If he was i would not be marrying him. He would hopefully leave instead of taking abuse from me. I wouldnt do that to anyone.
besides common sense alone should tell u that as adults you dont hit the ones u love. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 9:13:52 AM | ^^^Can you please learn how to spell, use complete sentences, stop contradicting yourself and learn how to use the quote feature? Your arguments lose any credibility when we see them as they are: unedited and uncensored.
Like I said I don't hit women. I'm built very well and have a very hard rigid and defined structure. A woman will hurt herself more by punching me if I ensure she hits the right areas. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 9:30:01 AM | | Whether a woman is stronger than a man or not isn't the point. A woman hitting a man is just as wrong as a man hitting a woman. If a woman hits me, I'm probably going to smack her right back or at least grab her and let her know it had better not happen again, just like I would if a guy hit me. I'm not going to sit and take it. If it happens again, I'll smack her back and dump her ass. The one and only time my ex-wife hit me, I grabbed her by the hair and told her if she ever did it again, I WOULD hit her back, and I reminded her that I can hit a lot harder than she could. I won't hit first (unless I'm playing hockey, then everyone is fair game), but I'll hit back and defend myself. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 9:45:20 AM | and I reminded her that I can hit a lot harder than she could........
my point exactly. now do u understand john duke. the statement i have copied above is spoken from a male. my point which u fail to see has been siad out the mouth of a male. so stop arguing with me will ya.
and i have not contradicted myself. how hard is it to understand what i siad. I siad it in plain english. but for ur benefit i will say it again. its wrong for either to hit the other.
by the way john duke it is natural that when someone has nothing else to say about subject they attack the other perosn with rude comments as u did to me. so im gonna forgive u. it jsut means u have no defense for what i siad. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 11:49:31 AM |
and I reminded her that I can hit a lot harder than she could........
Exactly why you shouldn't hit in the first place.
So if a skinny dude went up to a bodybuilder and punched him its ok? I've seen 6'10 buff guys. Should I not expect to be punched back if I punched them? Because naturally they would be stronger than me since my body could never get buff. Should women who fight other women not be expected to be hit back because one is stronger?
Men are stronger than women. Some women are stronger than some men. Some men are stronger than other men. Some women are stronger than other women. If you hit anybody who is stronger than you doesn't mean you're exempt from circumstances. That's called being a coward. Stop playing the victim card. Men want a woman (as in a grown up). That's the opposite of what you are. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/27/2008 11:51:47 AM | I also said that I'll hit a woman back.
If you're going to quote me, don't take a part of it and make it sound like I agree with you, Kitten. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 2:39:45 PM | whether u wanted to agree or not u did agree. i quoted you exactly as u said it. yes u also said you hit a woman back which is why i called u a male intead of man. did you not notice. u also said:
I WOULD hit her back, and I reminded her that I can hit a lot harder than she could.
thats what i been saying all along..a man hits harder than a woman. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 2:49:26 PM | ^^^^ And a male bodybuilder will hit harder than I will ever be able to. So can i punch them and expect to not be hit? Obviously not.
(And some men hit harder than some women)
Oh you called him a male instead of a man? How sad. Men can tell when shaming language is being used.
As one use put it on another thread
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A "real man" is nothing more than a made up concept by women with an inferiority complex. In order for them to get you to do what they want you to do, they use reverse psychology by trying to suggest you're not a real man if you don't do (or can't handle) x, y, and z. This is usually an attempt to get the man to be a "real man" and accept some double standard, which is only to her benefit and satisfies her insecurities.
That is the smartest guy ever.
If you know someone can hit harder than you, why would you start a physical confrontation with them?
That's a greater incentive to not hit in the first place. | |
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Posted: 7/28/2008 2:53:17 PM | If you know someone can hit harder than you, why would you start a physical confrontation with them? I don't think that ANYONE should hit a person.... but if you feel that you HAVE to fight someone... don't pick on people that can hurt you.
I, for example, would not punch Mr. T in the face because I like having the ability to pee of my own volition.
I don't understand the, "Men can hit harder than women so women can hit men without consequences" line of thinking. Physical abuse is physical abuse, regardless of who is doing the punching. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 4:20:46 PM | Well .. let me think about that one.
I can't ever imagine being in this type of a situation with anyone, but .. what if? ... I am protective over people who are close to me, and I am protective over myself in terms of safety. If it came to my physical safety being threatened initially and he had the balls to physically assault me first, I would ensure that a good hard kick wouldn't even leave him with the balls to even attempt it again. I could hit hard, but a kick from me would be nasty. Violence is never, ever, the answer but there is no way that as a female I would become one of the shrinking violets over any man, stranger or not, who threatened my physical safety. I am one of those people who are almost fearless in a reactive sort of a way as I am highly driven by fear .. the fight or flight response would get me ... and I would make sure it was debilitating in order to protect myself.
The answer is ... yes, only in terms of my safety. I'm not one of those ladies who would ever become a victim of violence .. wow, that is actually very funny just to imagine it could happen; not likely. It would only happen once ... and that is really pushing it as an extreme far fetched thought that is very difficult to even comprehend.
It is so much more fun in life to be all about luvvvvvvvv.  | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 4:42:30 PM | I abhor violence in any form, emotional, physical or verbal, even textual. There is simply no reason or excuse to use any violence unless a life is threatened and there is absolutely no way to save that life. I can smell violence a mile away and I tend to stay away from people who have violent tendencies. Thus I have not been attracted to any one who loses his cool at the drop of a hat. In all my life, I have not been involved with any one with very short temper. Any sign and it is a red flag I automatically pay heed.
So in answer to your question, it is NEVER ok for a woman to hit a man or vice versa. That is one of the purposes of going to school. To resolve differences/issues or misunderstandings in a civilized manner.
That is why I practise WenDo. It's aim is not to kill but to have the chance to get away. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 5:25:55 PM | | ^^^ WenDo still remains an act of self defence in a physical manner in order to get away when the old proverbial 'F*** off ' communication efforts don't work; sorry (and I use that two word term very loosely but in order to make the point) ... call it self defence, call it kicking a guy square in the knackers, or putting your finger in his eyesocket after you can't talk yourself out of a situation ... ... it is still the act of having to resort to maiming the attacker if that is the last chance you have at remaining safe and your 'F*** off' doesn't cut it. | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 5:36:28 PM |
I am protective over people who are close to me
I just can't see a woman playing the role of the protector. So if you ever marry or live with your boyfriend would you go WITH him to check on the noise downstairs? | |
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Posted: 7/28/2008 5:46:53 PM | ^^^ Why wouldn't I play the role of the protector with family who I love and friends who I am close to? You didn't ask. If my sister was in danger of being hurt, would I assist? Naturally. I know that I may be more capable of protecting her than she would be capable of on her own. Let's be realistic.
I am not in any way attracted to men who need protecting .. sorry .. I fully expect them to protect me because I am drawn to strong males who are naturally the protector in my relationship. I rely on strong males ... period. I would be the last girl to check on ANY noise in my home if I was with my partner who I fully rely on to keep me safe. I'd be shaking like a leaf. Wow, that is a pretty sissy question at your end. I happen to be the one who likes being protected in my personal relationship with a man and no, I would not be going downstairs to see what any noise was because the man I choose to be with doesn't require that from anyone nor would it ever enter one's mind. Does that answer your inquiry? | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 6:01:32 PM | I never said they need protecting. Even if they didn't would you give it? You'd give it your sister but not your man?
The only sissy here are all the women with their doouble standards and think they can hit men because they are weaker. you're the sissy. I'd be shaking like a leaf. Wow how nice. How about getting a weapon and calling 911 just in case?
I asked because I knew that was a lie. You protect the ones you love unless they're male then you don't care if anything happens to them.
And weapons equalize anything no matter how stong any man is.
Only women are sissies because the most sissy man will be still be braver than the bravest women.
There's nothing sissy about men wanting to be protected. If you know the slightest thing about psychology is that every person and every animal has that needs. Men, women ,children, dogs, cats etc
One woman even told me if a woman expects the man to go check on the noise themselves they might as well just shoot him to save time and suspense.
Like I said you don't have children. Many women who do compensate lack of strength with viciuosness. You don't know that feeling. Having children especially sons changes many women.
There was a 6'6" guy who looked big and said its wrong for one person to go. Now this guy looks like a wrestler imo but even he saw the selfishness in that. And with the use of guns a man's strength just makes him a bigger target.
Anyways doesn't matter because no one should go down. You should grab a bat and call the police. Of course that's not macho although smart for most women. So they risk his life?
Anyways doesn't matter for me. I've always lived in a cozy apartment. We'd both go check on the noise. Because if I go down she'sonly 15ft away.
You don't have children so you can't understand what it feels like to protect. | |
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Posted: 7/28/2008 6:11:58 PM | ^^^ Oh, my.
First of all ... don't be too assumptive with who I have, work with or don't have in my life in terms of children. Because you assume that all knowing attitude, I will allow you the oportunity to continue to put your foot in your mouth.
I don't even know how to respond to the rest because you sound like a nagging woman now who is bringing all these things into a post that are way out there and simply are naggggging!!
I know why I feel sorry for some men now. This must be what it feels like to be nagged and hammered .. blah blah blah. Even I can't do that.
The only I have to say is ... I NEVER want to be with a man who can't protect me ... and the majority of women will be in total agreement. If you want to be a sissy, look for a woman who can throw you over her shoulder and ... all the power to you! Or is that all the power to 'her'?? (Were you the guy I made reference to in the 'men who refer to themselves as naughty' post? You might want to take a look ... ) lol
Thanks for the laugh; I really do mean that .. it's been a serious day at the office.  | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 6:21:27 PM | The majority of women are sissies. Most couldn't defend themseleves or their kids. Women act tough, they're just 5 year olds on the inside.
It has nothing to do with being a sissy. What if he was disabled? Would you send your husband in a wheelchair to fight the burglar? Yes I know women who have done it. Tell me which gender is filled with sissies.
As one woman said on another forum: My boyfriend would be willing to go but i'd beat him to it, my first instinct would be to protect my family and so i'd definitely put myself in the firing line.
That's a good and loving woman. You are not one. Sorry.
And I can see shaming language when I see it. How obvious.
Like that guy said the terms real men and sissies were madeto shame men into taking double standards fromselfish and insecure women. | |
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Posted: 7/28/2008 6:25:24 PM | ^^^ ***The majority of women are sissies. Most couldn't defend themseleves or their kids. Women act tough, they're just 5 year olds on the inside.***
Wow, aren't you the most intelligent man EVER!
Open the floodgates ..... . I'm running away before I get knocked over.
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Posted: 7/28/2008 7:42:06 PM | john, the majority of women are not sissies and would fight like hell for the man they love if their safety was at risk. I do not act tough on the outside (I am a big pu$$y cat) and may not be able to punch somebody's lights out, but I sure as hell would do whatever it took protect my child or my man. In one case tho, when I was home alone recently, I had a home invasion and chased the lunatic woman out of the house...nobody was injured, thankfully. (My daughter, being a trained boxer for the past six or seven years would have leathered the woman to the wall if she had been home!)
As for mothers not being able to defend their children..again you are wrong. When those nearest and dearest to any of us is put in danger, our protective forces will kick in...sometimes, there is something that the woman may not even have ever exposed to others in the past because they have never had to!
Nobody knows, unless they are well-trained in self-defense, how they will act and react in a situation like that, I guess.
I have never laid a hand on another person, except for a few spankings to my daughter when she was young..but i do recall some girls from the neighborhood coming in to take a couple of cigarettes. My daughter was about six years old at the time. These girls were about 13 or 14 and i had one pinned to the wall and the other i had her arm twisted..then I screamed until my neighbor friend came running in.
sometimes, a person will not know how much strength they have inside of them until they have to use it!! | |
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| Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 7/28/2008 7:58:01 PM | Hitting is never the solution in any relationship. Even the greatest Karate expert will tell you "Takes more a man to walk away than one to stay and fight...." When it gets to that point of violence then help is diffently in order. 1st call the police. The kids (if any) will be put in a better place. They dont need that. 2nd, get counciling. Medical help is available. Possibly that person hitting is Bi-Polar and doesnt even realize it.
Also finding the creator would be a great help. Jesus brings peace, joy, love, and compassion. Man cant do that on his own, for he/she is never satisfied.
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