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NERO1
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 4/15/2008 8:28:52 AM | | Usually I assume she's with someone, basically, so , even if she were my "type" or whatever and w/in approaching range, I probably wouldn't. Like I said, you automatically tend to just figure she's either married or with someone, so...... | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 4/15/2008 1:02:32 PM | | it would not scare me but at my age I am not interested in raising a mistake or someone else child, my kids are grown, but the gal might find the right guy that doesnt see the kid as a problem, | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/22/2008 1:51:49 PM |
i have been wondering about a mans opinion on dating pregnant women, can any men give an answer to a question i have been asked by alot of women.....
please be honest in your answers as every answer can help women everywhere who are facing this predicament...
thanx...
This really is an easy one and to be honest its a little disturbing that anyone would ask this IMHO. If a woman is pregnant and isnt' married or with the man they are having the kid with then that could be irresponsible behavior. Either having unprotected sex with a guy that is a jerk or really isn't into anything long term, or they just had a trist with someone they likes. Thats not responsible behavior.
They then are having a kid which should be their focus, but its not; their dating life is the focus; very selfish in my mind.
Any man in their right mind would not date a pregnant woman. That person needs to get her life straight and be responsible before they jump in the sack with another guy. Total deal breaker. Good luck. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/22/2008 4:22:39 PM | ee
in brief.
there are 2 types of men. one type instintively feel protective towards pregnant women - any pregnant woman - the other type run and hide from the CSA as soon as they realise what they have done.
Personally, I have always found pregnant women to be so very sexy
why not date one? well I would normally assume that they were already with someone. Given that most pregnancies only last 9 months unless you are an elephant ( I like elephants but not in that way) by the time you ( the man ) has noticed that a pregnant woman is unattached and looking, it's all over anyway.
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/22/2008 4:48:31 PM | | The same reason I would never date a man who had an ex girlfriend/wife who was 8 1/2 months pregnant with his kid. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/22/2008 7:34:21 PM | No offence intended but ---
Are you pregnant with another man's child & are not getting many offers to go out on dates? Is that the reason why you are asking what I consider to be the DUMBEST question currently on the boards.
Why don't men date pregnant women?
Jeeeeez--you got a couple of hours?
(1) Another male ran the bases even before we got to swing the bat!
(2) I refuse to invest my time & energy into helping a female go through her hormonal mood swings due to her pregnacy with another man.
(3) As the child arrives into the picture so possibly will the father. Who needs to deal with that drama?
(4) The Nine month countdown to having a "FULL HOUSE" ~ is not very sexy!
Heck -- I dont even want to continue -- this question is too in your face dumb! | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/23/2008 12:11:37 AM | | i have and would date a pregnant women.... prego chicks turn me on, plus its brings out my nurturing side. honestly i think most guys are just to selfish to take on that much of a challenge its not the ideal situation fo sho but its nothing thats ever been a deciding factor on whether i would start a relationship er not. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/23/2008 6:10:03 AM | No way would I ever date a pregnant woman. If a pregnant woman is out on the prowl looking for men. That in itself kinda explains why she is pregnant and single in the first place. Big, huge, giant, red flag. I don't think I would want to get mixed up with a broad like that.
Heck, even single mommies worry me. Why on earth would I or any other self respecting man want to provide for another mans children? Especially if that other man is a jobless loser. Kinda shows bad judgement on the behalf of the female. Its almost like buying a penny stock. The risk out weighs the gain.
Simple as that. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/23/2008 6:38:25 AM | | Unless the father has died, you're just walking into a complicated situation. Sometimes, during pregnacy, hormones start to change. Then behavior changes. Guys get confused at the best of times and girls that change their mind/mood too often are a lot of effort. And how many guys really are into things that require a lot of effort. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/23/2008 4:32:36 PM | why not just abort the baby and we can start over if the dad died.
why should I have to raise his kid when she could have mine...Mine would look like me and not be a constant reminder that she had someone else's kid. It's probably also be really smart and awesome just like me. Cmon, what's teh big deal, it's not like she doesn't get to have a baby at all - In fact I think she makes out in the end. Much cooler baby and a guy who will want to take care of it..
Or maybe pregnant women shouldn't expect many guys to want to date her. either or.. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 6/23/2008 4:37:28 PM | Wow, I see a lot of dumb questions from clueless women. But this one really takes the cake.
Pregnant women should not drink, smoke or date. Pregnant women need only to be concerned with giving a succesful birth to a healthy baby.
And honestly, I can't imagine a bigger turn off or any date more embarrassing than a woman impregnated with another man's baby. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:49:35 PM | I really don't see what the big deal is. I dated a woman who was fairly close to her due date. I knew her just as a friend a few months before she got pregnant (she was dating someone at the time), and when she was about 6 months along they had broken up, and a few weeks later we ended up dating. We went out for a while and it was no different than dating a woman who wasn't pregnant, except that she would get a littly moody when the hormones kicked in.
I think some people make too big a deal out of some things. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:24:23 PM | Honestly, as a guy, hitting on a pregnant chick seems like such a disgustingly low thing to do, I can't even bring myself to imagine what sort of **stard would do it.
I mean, for one, there's a pretty good chance she's taken, for two, she's freakin' PREGNANT, and while hanging out isn't out of the question, dating is sort of a job interview for sex, and how many guys think of pregnant girls that way, and for three, who the hell would want to be around a woman while she's all hormonal on pregnancy?! | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:41:57 PM | I don't think the topic is about guys hitting on pregnant women, but with comments like dating being an interview for sex, you must be a real hit with the ladies! 
As far as who would want to be around a woman when she is hormonal (which isn't just during pregnancy), well, I would have to say probably guys that think of women as more than an an interviewee for a roll in the sack and has a little respect for women.
But that's just my opinion. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:50:05 PM | Don't pretend that the goal of dating random strangers isn't, in part, a job interview for a sexual relationship. If people were rational and treated relationships like friendships, then they'd actually look at their friends, and people like their friends, instead of looking at complete strangers and choosing the people they want to fill their lives with based on a couple dozen encounters with a beautiful stranger.
For that reason, I don't date. I hate job interviews. Why would I spend my spare time in them? Works out well for me, because it turns out women don't like job interviews either.
And as for my "hormonal" comment, maybe you and I have different ideas about what makes up a person, but I'd say the emotions they have are pretty damned important. I simply wouldn't want to date someone having massive mood swings, and frankly, I wonder if you're not objectifying women a bit by implying that a woman's emotional state isn't an important thing to take into consideration. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2008 1:23:02 PM | Ok....here's why I wouldn't date a man while I was pregnant:
1. Too fat. There's nothing a person can do about that. But going from 115 pounds to 170 - YIKES - Sorry, but there's some ego sliding going on here.
2. It's hot in the summer when you're pregnant. There is no way you can look attractive, feel good about yourself, the weather, the news, the world, let alone some man!
3. I was thinking more along the lines of setting up the baby's room, diapers, clothes, diaper bags, strollers, bottles, blankets, crib, sheets, toys, etc. Think about dating? Never crossed my mind actually cause I had baby-on-the-brain.
4. I was separated from my husband, not divorced. We planned on getting divorced after the baby was born so he would have insurance when he was born. I am a stickler for NO ADULTERY. So date while I am separated but married while carrying a baby? No thank you!! Think of what kind of impression that would leave on a man. Not a good one - definitely no impression filled with respect. And what guy would want to deal with my ex-husband? We parted amicably and my husband never saw his son, however, while I was pregnant nobody knew what the future would bring. It's like deal with one thing and then another....don't bring in some innocent guy from the outside into potential drama. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2008 2:32:41 PM |
And what guy would want to deal with my ex-husband? We parted amicably and my husband never saw his son, however, while I was pregnant nobody knew what the future would bring. It's like deal with one thing and then another....don't bring in some innocent guy from the outside into potential drama.
Gotta be the #1 reason from a guys perspective - face it, just by the fact she's pregnant, uh, the "father" is either still part of her life in some fashion, or at the least he's been out of her life, uh, only a few months (obviously less than 9)? | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2008 2:56:48 PM | 1. Don't you women see that asking a guy to take care of your child from now until it turns 18 goes way beyond having slept with someone else.
It goes way beyond a night or a decade of infidelity.
It is a MAJOR LONG TERM LEGAL OBLIGATION. Depending on jurisdiction, it starts from 1 year after you move in or the date of marriage (which ever is earlier) and doesn't end until the child turns 18 (23 if the child pursues post secondary education). And pre-nuptial agreements mean nothing to child support, because neither the mother nor the child can give up his rights to child support.
Only the most irresponsible short-sighted poorly educated man would go out of his way to seek such a situation for himself.
2. Taking unfair advantage of some poor pregnant woman's desperate financial and emotional state for my own sexual satisfaction just isn't something I'd do.
Can a woman even be legally considered to have freely consented to sex with a stranger in that state? What is the boundary between taking advantage of a desperate pregnant woman for a sex and being a date rapist? Or is it the same thing. | |
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