| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/2/2007 3:52:31 PM | Why would a man want to date a pregnant woman with a child that wasnt his ?
There is no biolgical interest and there is all the hassle and expense of looking after a child.
I wouldnt touch you with a barge pole. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/2/2007 4:48:27 PM | I would imagine that most men are afraid of "cleaning up someone else's mess"
What I mean is, most men are not of the mindset to deal with a child while dating, especially because since they are going to be a part of your life, they will have to help you raise the child.
I for one, have no objection to dating a pregnant woman. I have no problem dating a woman with kids. I don't think your past should hold you back.
You have to take the good with the bad, if you care about someone, its about sharing your life with them, not just going to the movies all the time. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/2/2007 4:55:17 PM | | Are you serious? It is because she is pregnant with another man's baby. If she is pregnant with another mans baby, and dating she is either a whore, or a moron. This is the second post today that has made me shake my head. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:45:01 PM | you don't have to be a whore or a moron for life circumstances to change.
The world around us is ever changing, people we think we know can change just as rapidly as the weather.
If you think human beings are of static mind conscience and morals, then you are as lost as the penny nestled deep within the cushions of your couch. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/2/2007 10:30:02 PM | | personally I wouldn't date a pregnant woman unless it was my baby she was carrying thats my thoughts agree or disagree o well. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/2/2007 10:46:27 PM |
In North America, If a male dates a pregnant women, after 6 months, The Male becomes a caregiver ,and can be sued for child support.
Do a Google search on the subject...You would be surprised.
wow
*goes from 'walking away' to 'running' *
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/3/2007 3:29:23 AM |
why dont men date pregnant women?
Because pregnant women are usually not in full control of their emotions and are frequently known to be crazy. Men who do date pregnant women are suspect and laughed at by other men. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/3/2007 10:21:36 AM | I'm not a guy, but if I was, there's no WAY I'd play baste the baby with someone else's kid in there.
I'm just sayin. You know sex eventually comes into the picture. No guy I know is gonna go for that.
I'm just sayin....
Fry | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/3/2007 10:33:44 AM | IMHO.. Its scary! I wouldnt even know how to come on to a woman in that condition.. When I see a woman thats pregnant the last thing on my mind is if she is cute, I wonder why she hell she isnt relaxing at home and having her family help with the out and about stuff.
When I picture a pregnant woman all I can think of is **Make sure she doesnt trip!**
I would be speechless if a very pregnant came up and hit on me... and if it was in a bar I'd have to slap her :P | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/3/2007 11:29:05 AM | I had a good friend who had broken up with her man and was pregnant and started dating another guy, started dating him late in her pregnancy as a matter of fact. All I could think of "what is so wrong with this guy?". And I was right, he turned out to be a loser.
I can't think of too many self-respecting guys who want the very visible evidence that they are following in another man's "footsteps" right there with them while having sex. It is one thing to have a baby asleep in the other room, quite another to have it in between you and the woman. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/4/2007 9:29:31 PM | First, we are talking about dating. Dating is different that relationship. The problem is that most people today don't know the difference.
It's funny how everyone assumes sex will always enter the picture in a relationship. It is entirely possible that the pregnant woman in question could meet a guy that isn't in to sex before marriage. Granted, in today's society that is nearly unheard of.
And just what is so wrong about two single people dating (regardless of pregnancy)? perhaps a chance encounter bring two people together and they find that they are soul mates. I know I paint a romantic picture but I know full well that the odds of the relationship going to hell is very high. My point is simply that anything can happen. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/4/2007 10:55:25 PM | Sounds like the first TRAP failed to catch a fish.
So now what? either she hopes to get back with the daddy--most likely.
Or else is looking for a new fish to catch. Only now the bait has a warning flag flying the sign, "FIRST TRAP FAILED" "POOR ME--HELP ME--I'LL TAKE ANYONE" | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/4/2007 10:58:38 PM | I would never date a pregnant women for a few reasons.
1. I don't want to get into the mess of mom-dad-new boyfriend
2. I want a relationship with 1 person, not 2 (kid). And yes, having a relationship with someone with a kid is having a relationship with both of them because they are part of each
others life.
3. I don't want kids until after I finish school.
I think those are absolutely reasonable reasons for a single guy going through college to have a career one day, to not want to date a pregnant women/women with child. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/9/2007 12:17:59 PM | I think your all ass holes.. I dated while I was pregnant.. I love how you all look at girls like me and many many others like outcastes.. Its rude.. Did your mothers not raise you right.. Like if your mother was single and you knew all she wanted was a man in her life.. Would you not want that.. And what about the person you are bashing.. Its rude.. And not all women are bit*hes.. While I was pregnant I never had the mood swings or any of it... I was the same person before I got pregnant... And see when I told my daughters dad I was pregnant he told me " If your gonna keep IT, I dont want to be with YOU" then the next day I got a phone call sayin he got a hand job from a 13yr old girl then not even a week later his ex phoned and said right after i told him i was pregnant he went over there and the fu*ked in her bathroom.. Everyone deserves someone dont you think.. And I also dont think almost all the men that have said something on here know how hard it is to be in a situation like that.. So to who ever said that I am a whore or a moron.. Please explain this to me.. Cause I am neither.. And I think it is rude for you to be suck a prick telling a large number of women that they are whores or a moron.. This is what i think.... At the age of 18 men should be kept in a man zoo where the women will come there laugh and leave you for the dogs you are.. But dont get me wrong... There are a lot of good guys out there.. You just have to find them.. and men remember this..
why do men always go for the rotten apples? because they are easy to get while the good apples are on the top of the tree and would require some real skill to get them.. so stop settleing there is a lot more out there.. the good guy doesnt have to end last!!! | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/9/2007 1:38:38 PM | Nice mature attitude and response babygurl, Good Lord, someone needs to grow up
I personally don't believe pregnant women should date, I would think the baby welfare is paramount no?
Once a baby is in the picture unless you're with a significant other, you are the primary care giver and certain sacrifices have to be made , I would think partying and dating would be one of them? no. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/9/2007 9:18:28 PM | | Well I'm not sure why you look at pregnant women like they are a disease? They are just like any other woman.. They have feelings.. But I guess your just telling us how immature you are that you cant accept that life isnt fair.. GET OVER IT! And a child is god's gift.. My daughter holds my heart.. And someone said that its like dating two people.. Well if your mature enough you wont mind and will come to realize that a child eats a lot of the pain that life throws at you! But everyone has their own opinions.. And thats all this thread is about.. And it sounds like most of you are the same and cant get past someones life's situation. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/9/2007 9:48:10 PM | WTF babygirl9955, ummm are we having problems with the English language? where did I say that I was looking at a pregnant woman as if she has a disease?
2) there not like any other woman ........... SHE'S PREGNANT
3) I'm immature because I don't want to date a pregnant woman? good Lord kid, either lay off the sauce or stop smoking the herb before you post
I said this in another post most men don't want to date a pregnant woman, its their choice, you cant say someone is immature because they don't want to date a pregnant woman? if you want to talk about mature, most pregnant women wouldn't consider dating, her child(ren) welfare is paramount, dating is the last thing on there mind, including partying blah blah blah
4) why date a guy , bring him into your child's life and if the relationship doesn't work out , how do you think the child(ren) feels? ever considered that?
5) the guys that would date a pregnant woman are usually the types that have fetishes about pregnant women, guys who can get date in the real world and or freaks, and im sure there are a few guys out there that would but they are so far and few between you have a better chance of being the Under boss for one of the New York Families. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/10/2007 11:25:41 AM | Becuase the oven door is closed and we are self absorped with our own imortality. Or because we don't see too great of an immediate return on the investment. Because we want to be able to toss you around and shove you up a wall. Because we were simply indoctrinated to think of it as wrong. Because we are consumed with short term desires.
Of course every woman merits individual consideration, but pregancy is a condition the more randy of us don't have tremendous paitence for. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/10/2007 1:48:56 PM | | I'd say men don't date pregnant women for about the same reason women don't date men who bring their ex-wife along on the date. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/10/2007 2:18:07 PM | Shut up, I mean just shut the fuk up! Not for me, not for the other guys reading your post, not for the women that you claim your asking this total Bullsh*t question for. But for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :modhammer: | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 10/10/2007 3:31:20 PM | Dating a woman that is pregnant would be the last thing on my mind. This just feels wrong in every way.
Shouldn't the woman be worried more about the baby then dating some new guy? Where is the father in all this?
This is just too messed up. | |
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