| Pretty Women
Posted: 7/27/2007 7:26:22 PM | I think any relationship starts out with being friends first and then if it leads into more , that's cool, I believe tinydancer , if you put dating they assume you want sex,
Some of the best relationships I have had are ones we agreed to meet as friends only and they became more... then they lead into sex......My OP | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 7/28/2007 10:37:17 AM | Takes the pressure off. By saying that they want to be friends first, it takes the pressure of going out on a date and finding out that guy doesn't do it quite for her, even though she thinks he may be cool. You see, how do you verbalize that chemistry factor, when in reality is just something that just happens. Actually, what I think guys should do is approach women in the same way, say, hey let's get together but if this doesn't work out, let's just be friends, no big deal. Once the pressure is off, and she doesn't get the vibe that all you want to do is get in her pant, and vice versa, people open up, and find themselves wanting to be more, than just friends. Anyway, my too cents.
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 7/28/2007 11:16:14 AM | | Whats wrong with friends.: | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 7/28/2007 11:32:27 AM | If ya think all the pretty ones are only here for forums ya need to scroll thru a bunch more profiles...there are tons of beautiful women here looking for love & friendship! The ones who are here for forums and chat might not be adverse to being sweep off there feet by the right charming guy either...just my thoughts on it.
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Zeyphr
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 7/29/2007 2:49:38 PM | | I dissagree that it should be friendship first. I know of no women that date one of their male friends. They say that they don't want to ruin the friendship. A few did do it and said that it didn't work out. That is why most seem not to want to date a friend for fear of ruining the friendship. Courtship is an old word but it is viable still, to me. I believe one has to see something they like in a person, go for it and be determined to make it work. It's like you didn't choose your family. And not all are ideal. But the idea is to get over differences if possible and move on as a family. Same thing when one vows to take on a lover. It is family stronger than blood because blood ends but spirit goes on forever. | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:04:13 AM | | Because they have so many men hitting on them that they know 99 percent of them are only out for one thing. It usually works better if you're friends first...I have only recently discovered that. On this site, men tend to just cut to the chase, but, honestly, I'd rather if a man tried to get to know me before my bra size or the fact that I enjoy wearing thongs. Ah, but such is life, and men are visual creatures. | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:56:19 AM | the stupid things of this also means they filter out all the good men who are interested in dating. but since the women stated friend ship only, they missed many opportunities.
How stupid can women be? | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:10:17 AM | | I agree with firmare post 2 on this | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/3/2008 2:06:23 PM | | many pretty women; especially young ones are looking for hot GQ guys. Many posts of very pretty young girls even say,"I want a hot guy; If your not, dont' contact me". Or "i'm sorry if it sounds bad but looks do matter to me.". They want to be friends because they dont want to hurt your feelings. | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/3/2008 3:32:55 PM | They say it, cuz they want friends?
...or it's a reaction to all the guys who say in their profile that they want a Long Term Relationship, then email you with disgusting propositions if you are silly enough to respond to their IM.
...or it's to let you know that if you thought buying dinner was an agreement to have sex with you, it isn't, so you shouldn't post a pity thread about "dinner gold-diggers" using you for free meals, claiming they are looking for a boyfriend, but won't sleep with you
...or, ...they want friends.
Silly women! | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:34:15 PM | I also agree. Friends is where it all begins and anything can develop from there. Too many
guys are players and you need to sort through all that phony baloney come on stuff. Take
your time and be in no rush. I have only been on here a short while and I have figured out
that dating equates to sex after a few dates. I've learned to not take anything too seriously
and have fun in the pof game. There is someone for everyone. Just find what you are
specifically looking and you'll meet friends or that special someone. | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:38:06 PM | | Some 0f us attractive women want relationships. I guess I consider myself attractive and I know what I want out of this site. | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:43:58 PM | because they had all the meaningless sex they've wanted and you weren't there to be a part of it..........  | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/4/2008 5:09:32 PM | | They are using it as a screening method. That way they are less likely to get so many retarded emails, and they can be selective. | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/4/2008 6:25:52 PM | I don't think anything puts off the sex chatterers...
but as others say sometimes a great friendship leads to much more. | |
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Joined: 10/24/2007
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/4/2008 7:11:04 PM | | I was looking for dating when I got on here, but I'm currently involved with someone at this time. I have met friends on here though, and don't see any issue with continuing to keep myself open to more friends (I also have a huge social circle, and am always looking to help out my dj friends and bartender friends by finding more people to come out, drink and have a good time!) | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/4/2008 7:22:43 PM | I totally agree..You have to be friends first...A great starter.. | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/4/2008 7:27:07 PM | | Really, what is wrong with being friends? And if one of these "friends" sweeps me off my feet, I'm all over it. As long as he doesn't have a dustpan behind his back! | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 6/5/2008 12:48:09 PM | | Because they are taken? | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 8/1/2008 12:35:44 PM | i agree with the other poster its a kinda way of maybe stopping lots of guys who want casual etc bothering them , also i previously said friends a few months back and people still messaged me for long term i kno state long term and also say im looking for friends male and fem also some of the best relationships start from friendships or friend ship is an important part of a good relationship | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 8/1/2008 2:59:42 PM |
Well if you see someone you like and she seems interested, it's up to you to over ride the friends bit and convince her that you are worth more.
How's that for for an answer, makes sense to me. Since when has a man that is wild about a woman let a little thing like friends stop him, Yes?
Why would I be wild about any woman who I don't even know yet? | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 8/1/2008 3:24:28 PM |
Please could anyone answer this for me....... how come all the really beautiful and attractive women on this site only want friends, surely this defeats the object of being on a dating site not that I have a problem with this so i would appeciate if you were to keep abusive & Derogatory comments to yourself thanks.
Huhh? I don't know about you tiger but they seem to just want my  if you get what I am saying here!!!! | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 8/1/2008 4:52:12 PM | If it bothers you, click on a next profile and move on.
Or take the risk of getting the girl better as friends and see if it could go further or if you two have nothing in common.
Hot women get hit on for their looks ALL the time. It's frankly boring.
So they post not so great picture and hope someone will get to know them for who they are behind their appearance.
Best of luck! | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 8/2/2008 5:06:44 AM |
Well if you see someone you like and she seems interested, it's up to you to over ride the friends bit and convince her that you are worth more.
How's that for for an answer, makes sense to me. Since when has a man that is wild about a woman let a little thing like friends stop him, Yes?
So women don't really mean what they say, right? When a woman says "friends" she doesn't really mean "friends", she means "friends until you convince me that you're good enough to be my b/f"? So in other words, women lie or are playing games most of the time?
I've always assumed that when people say something, they mean it. If they say something and act otherwise, they are hypocrites and not to be trusted. | |
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| Pretty Women
Posted: 8/2/2008 5:35:25 AM |
It is an easy way for women to say no to the ones they have no interest in.
But surely this is dishonest !
I skip over womens profiles that have "friends/talk/email" so that means these women are not going to get as many messages from men who are serious about dating.
Oh what a tangled web we weave when we practice to decieve ! | |
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