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 Gunner57

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 126
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 9/17/2007 10:36:01 PM

She then said what she'd really like to do to me that night was tie me up and blindfold me and rub a cheesegrater on my privates and draw blood.


Oh You can just tell how totally nervous she was about the date? either that She wanted to get rid of You and it worked.

what a cheesy way to get rid of someone.

aug aug arg arg arg (popeye laugh)
 AlexSB

Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 127
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 9/17/2007 10:51:34 PM
Your not alone, I would have left too.
 esad

Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 128
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 9/17/2007 10:58:54 PM
It could be worse. She could have used a garlic press.
 Gee_m

Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 129
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 9/17/2007 11:21:32 PM
why am I reminded of this quote from Rat Race...




Vicki: So, what can I do for you, Harry?
Harold Grisham: Okay... here's what I want. First... we both get naked.
Vicki: So far so good.
Harold Grisham: Except... we're both wearing sailor hats. Then we get into a jacuzzi filled with Pepto-Bismol, I clip your toenails, and you shave my buttocks.
Vicki: What's that?
Harold Grisham: Naked... jacuzzi... Pepto-Bismol... toenails... shave my buttocks.
Vicki: Well, you have quite an imagination, Harry.



My guess is she was trying to see how you would react
 Ecilam

Joined: 10/13/2007
Msg: 130
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/27/2008 1:47:58 AM
roflmao

1. She either wasn't too impressed with you and intended to chase you away.

2. She was into 'fear play' and got off on scaring the B-Geezers out of you.

3. She had no friggin idea of what she was talking about. Dominants don't say
they want to role play dominance. They ARE dominant.

4. She was a nut.

Pick whatever suits your mindset or ego. ;)
 madlyinokc

Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 131
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/27/2008 6:56:36 AM
sounds like she wanted some sauage al la carte
 Nona37

Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 132
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/27/2008 7:05:06 AM
Wow, well at least she was straightforward and honest thank God for you, because I do know of men who have been raped by "freaks", as in, one guy went to a hotel with a woman and of course she got kinky, and ended up handcuffing him stomach down on the bed, he was handcuffed to the "headboard" and this woman ended up going into the bathroom and came out with a HUGE dildo, sorry for the vulgarity, and she raped him anally with it, so men DO need to be careful out there, it's scary and rape can occur with men as well, there are female predators as well as male predators, so be careful guys, don't assume that these things can't happen to a man, and by the way, this man who was raped, was a military man and he was VERY strong, but he couldn't break free from the handcuff's that were attached to the headboard :(

I am glad you ran OP, that was a very wise thing to do in my eyes, be careful out there.
 AncientCelt

Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 133
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/27/2008 9:42:51 AM
All I can say is ouch, but at least she didn't ask you if she could put your balls in a blender ya know.
 BuckROG3RS

Joined: 5/4/2006
Msg: 134
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/27/2008 9:52:27 AM
To the OP.. No that isn't right...
And to be honest, it sounds too ridiculous to be a genuine request.
 cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/27/2008 3:25:40 PM
You should have said you were into it but only if you could do the same to her first. After you were done you could have left her tied up and just walked out the door. Seriously, what kind of demented idiots are out there?
 mrklipsch

Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 136
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/28/2008 2:39:55 AM
this site is soooo funny, my eyes are tearin!! send the idea to RONCO!! call it RONCO PECKER WRECKER in a minute
 crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/28/2008 3:28:59 AM
I wouldn't say I am narrow minded but please tell me this isn't right or am I missing something?
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This is a bit extreme but it's no big deal. And yes! A very few guys do like that sort ofthing happening to them during sex.

The pain score goes something like

1/ Love bites
2/ Spanking
3/ Whipping
4/ Cheese grater.

So you tell me. Where does normal become knky and where does kinky become freaky. It's the same thing. Just different levels of it.

It it's not your scene then it's not but thats you and thats your right to your taste in sex. Your turn offs and turn ons.
 crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/28/2008 3:30:46 AM
She had no friggin idea of what she was talking about. Dominants don't say
they want to role play dominance. They ARE dominant.
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OR ................... she wasnt a natural dominant but wanted to try out a little role play.
Take your pick.
 smd83

Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 139
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/28/2008 7:15:05 AM
"rub a cheesegrater on my privates and draw blood."

^^^^ I'd say this is a bit too much^^^^^

Consider yourself lucky she told you before hand .... you could have been tied up ohhh ohhhh ... screaming for help..b
 dragonshungry

Joined: 1/5/2007
Msg: 140
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 1/29/2008 6:27:48 AM
I have to say the narrowmindedness of some of the posts here on the subject of BDSM.

yes some people are in the scene and other think its a "headcase"... people that think its a headcase or there crazy have no CLUE the depth of BDSM is really about.

if it was me, I would have skipped the cheesegrater....that could be worked in on a later date!
 StLouis2008

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 141
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/15/2008 10:54:46 AM
kinky is good as long as it is your kind of kink
 upforadventure

Joined: 6/27/2007
Msg: 142
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/15/2008 11:08:02 AM
The moment you think you've heard it all, some girl wants to take a cheese-grater to your balls.
 jaguar0163

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 143
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/16/2008 9:35:39 PM
OMG!!! I am sorry but I did have a few laughs at your situation with this woman!!! However I like all kinds of things when it comes to sex, and still learn new things after all this time. But Damn a cheese grater on that region of a male body has got to take the top of all I have heard!!! That chick wasn't kinky she was freaking out there!!! I was tied up by this chick one time after we had played some and I just realized when she tied me up that I wasn't sure what she had in her plans for the events that were about to unfold and got a little queezzy till I figured out it wasn't going to turn into the dicer on me!!! lol
I had to rethink my crazy sex activities after that!!!
 sebberry

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 144
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/17/2008 1:17:46 AM
I'm wondering what she was going to do with the bits she would have grated off...

Not something I'd want served to me sprinkled on a salad.
 star100280

Joined: 1/27/2008
Msg: 145
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/17/2008 1:25:54 AM
its a normal thing trust me as this old guy on this documentary a few years ago had this woman urinate into a cup and she made him drink it then she well started grating the end of his penis but luckily they blurred that out but it does happen
 SlumberParty

Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 146
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/17/2008 7:53:55 AM
I could never imagine letting someone use a kitch utensil on me (here honey, peel me with the potato peeler and draw blood would you?), so what the hell????

Ouch, ouch and more ouch.
 Captain Incognito

Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 147
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/17/2008 8:02:15 AM
I'm on the side of "Wasn't in to you so tried to scare you off". Probably easier, and in a way nicer that saying "Sorry, you're not my type" I wonder what would have happened if you had agreed?
 Paulinmuskoka

Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 148
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/17/2008 9:27:02 AM
DAMN!!!!! I'd be outta there so fast all you'd see is smoke from my sneakers!!!! I'm as adventurous, kinky as the next person....ok.....maybe alot more than the next person.....but geez.....pain and drawing blood is not good fun....in my book.
 laughinglibra

Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 149
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/17/2008 9:40:17 AM
Oh wow..... that is a bit much to handle..... but, to each their own.

Now young man, shall we see if we can find a use for this rolling pin???
 sebberry

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 150
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 2/17/2008 12:59:08 PM
I just hope she has a seperate cheese grater fot the kitchen
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