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 garnet73

Joined: 1/2/2008
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 1/30/2008 5:24:57 PM
I think the movie was Body of Evidence Madonna rampaging all over poor Willem DeFoe... I seem to recall that she raked him with her claws until he looked kinda pink, then grabbed one of those big-ass block candles that had been burning for a while, and just splashed the works of it across his chest. Ouch. I remember watching Streets of Fire when I was little, and I only really remember one line from the movie, and he said it: "Finally... someone who plays as rough as me."

All things considered, I think I'd prefer melted chocolate. Same sting, more fun cleaning (lapping) up.
 Next Time Round

Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 52
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 1/30/2008 5:34:09 PM
Never done it...never occurred to me to do it. Spilled quite a bit of candle wax on my hands when moving holders about in an outdoor candle garden I had and such. But my hands can take a lot. Not sure how I'd feel about this one. Blindfolds are definitely out if someone wants to put one on me. Not a f^cking prayer. On them...if that's what they wanted I've done it.
 Mozard

Joined: 7/31/2007
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:31:50 PM
The wax is good but start out dropping it from 3 feet or so it cools alot befor it hits .. drop it closer until you reach a "safe or tolerable" level. When done properly it has the same effect as a good spanking or pinch.
 SlumberParty

Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 54
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:36:15 PM
Oh, It is HOT! (no pun intended!) But that is like a thing you do once or twice with a person because then it gets boring.
 chriseh9

Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 55
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 2/3/2008 9:58:32 PM
haah, its probably about the extent of how kinky I have gotten

candle wax, biting, getting restrained, public sex is pretty much the extent of how kinky I get!

I wouldnt mind being told what to do one day!
 chriseh9

Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 56
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 2/3/2008 9:59:13 PM
on the topic of candle wax.. it doesnt hurt gets a little warm on the nipples but thats about it
 Doouglass

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 57
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 2/3/2008 11:13:09 PM
Yeah, I was over at a dates house and I had to blow out the candles. She was pretty hammered so I helped blow out the candles. I couldn't blow out the biggy on one of her shelfs so I grabbed it to lower it, spilling hot wax all over my hand, pants and her living room rug. Ooops. It burned like a son-of-a-**** and I can imagine how painful it would have been if it had landed on a more tender spot like my stomach or back.

I think you need to use the right kind of wax heated to the correct temperature. After a pedicure I like to get a paraffin wax wrap because of it's hydrating properties and the fact that it won't rip any hair off when removed.
 sugar*spice

Joined: 1/24/2008
Msg: 58
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:41:56 AM
i cant imagine trying it without researching it first....seems like a dangerous matter....specialty candles are deff. the way to go,good to know.
 amycarr

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 3/3/2008 2:41:18 AM
GO TO THE SEX SHOPS THEY HAVE GREAT STUFF THERE!they have a candle wax thats great and they will probaly have some tips for you. it would suck to give some one a crazy burn
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 3/3/2008 4:49:18 AM
I have to agree with shieldvulf on this one...great advice.
To add to it, you don't want to go for a hairy spot without something covering it first (plastic wrap from the kitchen is great because it still lets you feel the sensation, but doesn't let the wax get at the hair). Part of the pleasure can be a sensual shave first though Also, for ease of clean up and a little more foreplay, rub the area down with baby oil first. It will get the blood flowing, and make it less likely that the wax will stick to any stray hairs.
Enjoy! LOVE wax play...
 LassKisser

Joined: 12/31/2007
Msg: 61
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 3/3/2008 5:54:55 AM
One liked to do that to me. It was murder getting it out of my chest hair though. And yes, some candles burn much hotter than others and can really burn your skin.
 N*Love

Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 62
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 3/3/2008 6:11:48 AM
I have done it to me... lower back going upwards.. and around my navel heading up...
It was painfull but also pleasurable ... I did enjoy it... Although the passion was built up...

As for him... he threw me off saying: "son of a B****!!!"...

We both ended up laughing... lol
 Heathenistic

Joined: 1/9/2008
Msg: 63
Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 3/3/2008 6:58:11 AM
Wax can be very sensual and erotic. You have to use caution, though - safe, sane, and consensual. You can't just go dumping away thinking you're good to go. Stay away from Paraffin - the sh|t simply burns too hot. Darker candles burn hotter than lighter colored ones, as well. Before pouring it on your partner, take a moment to trickle some on your inner forearm. If it's too hot, increase the distance and try again. This will give you a good estimate of how high you should pour from in order to get the effect you desire without actually burning or causing your partner any harm. Stay away from hairy areas, or take the time to shave your partner prior to the waxing - it's a **** to get out of hair. Follow up with an ice cube immediately after trailing the wax - the diversity of stimulus on both ends of the spectrum usually heightens and enhances the desired effect. Slowly peel the wax off the skin, trailing slow, hot, wet kisses along the area - which is now more sensitive... lightly tracing the outline of the redness with your fingertips/nails or tip of your tongue is always fun, too... be slow, take your time, heighten the anticipation and build the hunger and desire along the way. Yummy!

It can be very sensual and stimulating if care is taken. Just have a wonderful time with your partner! Play safe! ;)
 cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 3/4/2008 8:04:43 PM
I don't know what kind of wax you people are using but I tipped a candle all over the back of my hand by accident and I got burned pretty bad so I'm thinking that I wouldn't find it very sensual. It was like a bad steam burn and if you've had one of those you know how bad it feels.
 JustMeAlso

Joined: 5/12/2007
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Posted: 3/4/2008 8:57:05 PM
Interesting reading and tips on this web page

http://www.kufs.org/waxplayinfo.htm
 anaisangel

Joined: 2/10/2008
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 3/4/2008 9:07:24 PM
i concur with Heathenistic ... the darker the candle the hotter the wax and definitely stay away from paraffin. If you can't go out and get the sex shop stuff and want to give it a try ... try white safety candles ... you can find them almost anywhere and they have a nice little heat without a burn.

~angel
 cneal

Joined: 4/21/2008
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Posted: 5/28/2008 6:09:28 PM
Hot wax is awsome and if you think thats a blast they make low level electrical and electro shock devices that will BLOW yer FRICKin mind stimulates all the right nerves and just WOW. No better way to say it just enough pain a hole lotta WOW.
 Ms.Extreme

Joined: 7/11/2007
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Posted: 5/28/2008 6:31:42 PM
Hot Candle Wax is very erotic...... for those who said it was too *HOT* when you tried it why not try this next time::

Get a cheap spray bottle, fill it up with water, place it in the fridge for a couple of hours so that it is icy cold and then mist your partner (use the soft mist spray not the hard and far kind lol) and then slowly allow the wax to drip on top of the cold mist..................

That'll help alot of the *hotness* factor.

Good luck! :D
 sheilarodri

Joined: 10/7/2007
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 5/28/2008 7:16:40 PM
They are soy candles and they heat to about 2 degrees above body temp. They can be found in the sex shops or online . They are really awesome. The oil is great for massage and very erotic.
 Gypsygirl29

Joined: 5/17/2006
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:02:09 PM
It's called wax play, it's used in kink/bdsm. Done it several times, but not a big fan of it. Depends on what type of wax you use, if you use cheap wax, can burn skin very badly. Cleaning up can be messy.
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 5/28/2008 9:19:13 PM
No I have have never done it but I would love to try it!
 blackrosentiger

Joined: 4/24/2006
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Posted: 6/26/2008 1:14:52 PM
Its not the type of wax, anything will work. Hold it a little further away, the closer you hold the caldle to his/her body the more it will be hot, and it wont burn your partner and you both might get what your wanting. panting and a little moaning to go with well I have to leave the rest to your own imagination.
 aspiring_angel

Joined: 1/25/2006
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Posted: 6/26/2008 1:18:52 PM
Definately be sure to practice the proper height to drip the wax from. Even low temp melting candles can burn the heck out of sensative areas.

Yes, I've tried them and had the misfortune of finding out just how hot 'japanese wax candles' can be.
 everlast_toronto

Joined: 5/28/2008
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Posted: 6/26/2008 1:48:54 PM
never tried it, and I absolutely can't see the point of it.

millions of other things I'd rather do (have done) that wont us
 chickinpicker

Joined: 3/22/2008
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Pouring of the candle wax, has anyone done it?
Posted: 6/26/2008 5:19:14 PM
I have done it to myself. Burned for a second but I liked it. A little pain is good for you. Did it to a woman, she screamed but that might have been because the rope I had her tied up with was too tight.....Scott
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