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 kthyg

Joined: 11/24/2006
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Posted: 5/24/2008 11:49:49 AM
I've never worried about it but last night I burned myself and feel like I look like I'm diseased so maybe I won't have sex tonight.
 ezramc

Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 252
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Posted: 5/26/2008 11:45:49 AM
im a little fat i dont care im just well takin care of...hey i just wanted to say i drunk off ur profile i really liked but i guess im not close enough to email ya...maybe if i walked to ur town i would shed a few pounds
 catman40

Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 253
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Posted: 5/26/2008 3:02:37 PM
listen up ladies . we could care less (well me ) what you look like nude . IF , YOU feel good . it should not matter WHAT any man thinks . ever watched the movie where this guy sees this woman who is fat and HE sees her as a knock out babe . everyone else sees her as a hidest fat woman . well , some of you ladies who ARE not FAT . YOU JUST HAVE THE WEIGHT IN THE RIGHT PLACES . So you have some baby fat on your butt . you don't . OH you mean those skinny " model " type .
 Kazot

Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 254
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Posted: 5/26/2008 3:37:36 PM
Humans are visual creatures, men even more so.

A good looking female will draw my eyes like a magnet but then so will a good looking car or bike.

Most of us could use a bit more body maintenace, I know I sure could. Worrying or complaining about it wont help. I love good food and good beer between that and flying a desk these days means I would need a lot of gym time to stay in decent shape.

Sooo get your self in better shape or accept that you just not going to look as good as you could and live with it.
 midnight_crossing

Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 255
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Posted: 5/26/2008 7:54:33 PM
Before my daughter... I thought I looked damn hot naked... now that my little one is 3 1/2 I have yet to put on a bikini. I guess it didn't really help to gain 70+ pounds then lose it and the skin all just hangs there... ok, its not really THAT bad, but its not pretty. And then... on top of that they did an emergency C-section... so now just above my panty line, there's a big "SMILE" scar. Yep, it would be a bit worrisome to get naked... but then if I'm with the right person, I'm sure he'll make me feel beautiful despite the flaws. Just don't put me and my twin on the beach together at the same time. LOL. Just kidding. I think I could still hold my own in a nice 1-piece.
 Officer_Fluffy

Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 256
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Posted: 5/26/2008 8:57:32 PM
yep...too terrified to have sex with anyone until i trust them....im sure they owuld be just thrilled to see all the fat and stretch marks and scars...mmm im a sexy 20 year old...ugh
 Fallenangeseyes

Joined: 11/28/2007
Msg: 257
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Posted: 5/28/2008 9:23:39 PM
That is about charming.. Beauty is a light switch away.. Thank got for them when us women get caught up with a ugly sweaty grunter..lol
 Kazot

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 5/28/2008 9:27:41 PM

Thank got for them when us women get caught up with a ugly sweaty grunter..

HEY! I only sweat because of the heat of the passion.

And the grunting is usualy far over shadowed by the growling, yelling and bellowing. Or that of a firm hand smacking an a$$.
 Masked_Hero

Joined: 12/14/2003
Msg: 259
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Posted: 5/28/2008 10:53:12 PM
I feel very comfortable naked.. Shyt I'll go outside and check my mail box naked in the middle of the day I think its a HUGE turn off if a woman is too self concious not to get naked because she thinks she's fat , or has stretch marks. Or when they turn off the lights and its pitch black like I'm have'n sex in the Batcave... I guess thats another reason I go for fit women. Nothing better then a woman who's not afraid to show her body ..
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
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Posted: 5/29/2008 2:15:01 PM
I am a larger woman and I have no problem showing my body---I know many fit women who are self-conscious.
 kthyg

Joined: 11/24/2006
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Posted: 5/29/2008 2:22:50 PM
^^^^^ Exactly. Of course, I freely admit to being an exhibitionist as well so I enjoy showing my body.
 Fleur_de_Lis

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 262
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Posted: 5/29/2008 2:46:50 PM
Until a couple of years ago the most I weighed was 110 - now I'm a little chubby and I like having the extra weight (and the J Lo booty) although losing 5 lbs would be ok :)

 xxfoxyredxx

Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 263
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Posted: 5/29/2008 5:14:53 PM
Yes definetely! This i the main reason I dont sleep about lol

However I remember reading this book a guy wrote and in it he had this line that said about the fact that whilst women are worried about their bodies men are worrying about their own so really no one is particulay enjoying the fist time they sleep with one another, so I say skip the first time sex bit I just havent worked out how to do that yet lol x
 jupiejupe

Joined: 3/11/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 4:54:00 PM
this post reminds me of a cartoon i once saw:

two naked people (male & female) looking at each they have just undressed.
both are over weight and old(er)
female is laughing at the male pointing to his tool
and says "who are you gonna satisfy with that?"
he replies "me of course who else?"
 Mirage111

Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 5:12:42 PM
some men like a woman who is more juicy...its a matter of preference and that should be discussed beforehand.

Self confidence is another issue.
 regnj

Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 266
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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:01:41 AM
the only person to see me naked in the 25years on this earth is the mirror and me
 ~curlygirl~

Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 267
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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:15:36 AM
fortunately for women, many guys have a lingerie fetish...if you're shy, get yourself something pretty. guys are less fortunate, it's boxers or commando, and neither is very concealing. also, use candles...soft candlelight flatters everyone ; )
 not2hopefull

Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 268
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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:16:19 AM
Im a plus size woman and I am definately not afraid to have sex. Of course I am a little self consious when it comes to removing the clothes, however, it is usally the guy that does the removing of the clothes so its obvious he isn't bothered by it, so why should I be? Also, I wouldnt have sex with someone I wasn't comfortable with.
 JerseyGirl2008

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 269
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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:26:53 AM

It's always classy to meet someone for the first time and do them.

Mthomjmark, I get SUCH a kick out of you. I usually always agree with your posts. I laughed out loud when I read this one.
 catman40

Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 270
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Posted: 6/8/2008 1:14:08 PM
officer fluffy IF you were 40 . I would hope to meet up with you . A woman who can hold herself up . it depends what YOUR man thinks not others . One guy may not like fat woman . I do . he might tell me where to go . I follow what a woman tells me .
 nemonucliosis

Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 271
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Posted: 6/8/2008 1:29:02 PM
I feel fine with my body and sometimes I like having one light just enough to see a tiny bit. I think that when I am involved with someone physically, I've reached the point that I have feelings for them, so their bodies really don't matter to me. I'm attracted to them for who they are, and how I feel about them.
 biltrite001

Joined: 10/15/2005
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Posted: 6/8/2008 6:49:51 PM
gimmie the big girl anytime.....wide set vagina mmmmmmm
 midnight_crossing

Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 273
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Posted: 6/8/2008 7:00:32 PM
Even with the stretch marks, loose skin and not so sexy "pudge" around the middle -- I'm still ok with my body when I'm naked. I think with the right lingerie, I can hide most of that stuff... and by then, he'll be so into me that he won't notice the little things that bother me. :) But then again, its been awhile since I've done the deed with someone. And I'm really in no rush. The right man will think I'm damn SEXY even with my "imagined" flaws. LOL.
 HoneyHugs

Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 274
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Posted: 6/8/2008 7:32:48 PM
Excellantly written, and food for thought for future reference when and if the sex issue ever presents itself my way...lol I am not comfy at all with having someone see me nekkid, at least for the first time, then I kind of lose inhibitions. I think we all feel like that inside, some people just hide it better than others.
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 actualized

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 275
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Posted: 6/8/2008 7:50:18 PM
i don't understand the partially covering up a body with lingerie. i don't know why men even like it.

maybe men should order a steak that's partially covered with mashed potatoes so they can drool even more to see just how much steak they'll be eating. strange!

i've been with thin to large, but not XXXXXXL. one of the smallest women i was with had so many stretch marks it was hard to look at, but at least you can still turn her over. the latest heavy gal of more than a year ago was too fat for me to want to view...that's when it's best she keeps all her clothes on and sex goes in only one direction, orally - i tried to help her lose weight but she just so needed to go to restaurants 10 times a week.
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