| would you marry for money?
Posted: 4/21/2009 5:36:01 AM | Trace Adkins put it perfectly...
She was pretty
She was smart
she was witty
Yeah she had charm
Cupid shot me
that's what got me down the aisle
But that match made in heaven
Went straight to hell
Split up our possessions
Put the house up for sale
And I learned a lesson I won't be for getting
The next time around
I'm gonna marry for money
I'll be so damn rich it ain't funny
I'm gonna have me a trust fund, yacht club, hot tub piece of the pie
Find me a sweet sugar mama
With a whole lot of zeros and commas
Don't really care if she loves me
She can even be ugly
I'm gonna marry for money
I won't have to love her family
I won't have to like her friends
and if it works out like I planned it,
I won't ever have to work again
Repeat Chorus
Solo
Y'all I'm gonna fly to Hawaii
On a Leer Jet the old lady buys me
I'll call her sweet heart & honey if she's a hundred and twenty
I'm gonna marry for money...
I dont care if she loves me
She can be really ugly
I'm gonna marry for money
Oh, cha-ching mucho deniro | |
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| would you marry for money?
Posted: 4/21/2009 6:02:22 AM | | Doesn't it just thrill your heart to read all of the female's postings that say, "OH I NEVER WOULD", while everyone on the planet knows that THEY ALL WOULD!!!!!!!! | |
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| would you marry for money?
Posted: 4/21/2009 6:19:54 AM | Bitter much? Your post is bitter, your profile is bitter. You should go post in the bitter woman thread, since you seem to know what every female in the world would or wouldn't do.
I've had the opportunity to marry for money. I didn't do it because I wasn't in love with the guy. so pflt to you | |
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Posted: 4/21/2009 6:38:31 AM | While I realize that so-called gold diggers are on both sides of the fence....personally....I wouldnt be with someone for the almighty dollar.....because in the end.....one or the other prob would end up cheating or finding the physical part with another......but stranger things have happened....some like a fairy tale woman or gent on their arm for looks and money! | |
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Posted: 4/21/2009 6:55:38 AM | | not at all, if i like her, it wouldnt matter if she was in debt up to her eyeballs although her having some funds would be nice. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2009 7:26:54 AM | | I read a survey recently where 60% of woman stated a man is more attractive if he has money, with all else equal | |
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Posted: 4/21/2009 8:24:17 AM | | No how can I marry a man I'm not in love with? It's pointless and a waste of time. He'd just move on and try to marry another girl after. Since there is no love there. It would be like having to put on an act everyday. That's just not normal. I'd be miserable. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2009 8:34:28 AM | sestruth, MSG#703
now that's a real scumbag thing to say.
you sound angry/jilted.
your attitude needs a little adjusting since it's not going to get you that far.
if other women in this thread ignore your statement, then they deserve you.
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Posted: 4/21/2009 8:45:12 AM | Anyone who answer's they would not marry for money verses "Love" ? are pure Liars!
There is no one who would forego a better lifestyle for the immediate than staying in a humble ,or very modest exsistance even for a few years.
It matters not if you were born into money, earned it, enherited it, or won it in the lottery? wealth begets wealth! once you have some you want more, there goes the search for the ultimate "Upgrade".
Woman as a general rule will, marry for money because they believe they deserve the very best lifestyle possible. Some will love that person of wealth with all thier being. Some will marry to live the life of wealth and try to have thier cake and eat it too.
Wealthy men know that if they can capture the embrace of any woman because of thier wealth they can cheat and keep on cheating because the mall hopping wife will not want to revert back to her humble beginings. Just fact! and I challenge anyone to debate the facts! | |
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Posted: 4/21/2009 9:19:13 AM | ok dallasfan1960,
i guess your attitude is just what a woman such as myself from "Back Mountain, Pa" can expect from some small time Larksville, Pa guy.
just goes to show you.........you never thought you'd run into someone so close yet so very far away...
you're very small and closed minded. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2009 6:57:56 PM | Marial92 said:
"sestruth, MSG#703
now that's a real scumbag thing to say."
"you sound angry/jilted."
"your attitude needs a little adjusting since it's not going to get you that far."
"if other women in this thread ignore your statement, then they deserve you."
So many females on POF consider the really decent, good, nice males to be garbage and trash, as your post reflects.
Good men do not get bitter or angry by taking a prescription drug!
Women who love only MONEY and themselves are the "pill" that is the result of your stated "qualities" of men.
My attitude is fantastic in that it has been groomed by the deceit of females so that this male will never again fall for their smokescreen of lies for to be played!
I will be very selective and choose wisely, from now on, only a female who will WOMAN-UP and firmly state "I am so different from most all other females on POF. I play absolutely NO games. If you will give me a chance, I will PROVE IT to you!!!"
I have yet, in over a year on POF, communicating with different types of females from all across the spectrum, have yet to have ONE, JUST ONE, STAND UP AND STATE the aforementioned!!! NOT ONE!!!   | |
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Posted: 4/21/2009 7:06:34 PM | | No. Money can be temporal and fleeting, you never know if it's always going to be there. Just look at the current economy. I'd much rather marry for Love, Respect, Compatibility and Loyalty. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 5:37:24 AM | | Absolutely not, if I am going to marry someone I need to have the right chemistry, attraction, emotional connection, trust, respect, love, committment, and what a marriage is really about. Money does not buy love. I have only been married once and we had money near the end and it didnt make either of us happy. I will not marry again unless I find somone that I feel all of these feelings with him. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 5:39:33 AM | | no they all would not, it is not worth having to put up with all the bs that goes with it.................. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 5:47:11 AM | | Altho outwardly it would seem like a match made in heaven but marrying for money and someone elses money doesn't put you at the same negotiating table. You are always going to be bottom line doing the bidding of the person with money. Because afterall it's not your money nor would it be if you divorce. The hypothetical in this scenerio is that you can't take it with you if you walk away. So the motivation would be the extravegant lifestyle but no one to truly share it with. That is because even if you begin the relationship liking them you probably will resent them in the end and feel stuck. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 5:48:34 AM | | You really dont know much about all women, not all women care about money and all the toys a man has. What is the point of marrying someone you are not in love with and have to put up with his running around and anything else he thinks he can do just because he married someone who wants someone to take care of her and knows he has control over her with his money. There are alot of women who are very capable of taking care of themselves and make their own money and really do not need a mans money and do not want it. It really is annoying that some people think they can compare all women to the gold diggers that are out there. But this goes both ways there are men who prey on wealthy women. There really are genuine people (men and women) in this world who really do not care about how much money a person has. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 6:20:41 AM | Thanx Marial, I appreciate your insight especially since the " Back Mountain " area is considered one of the wealthiest area's of real estate in all of pennsylvania. To be specific and no way defensive! I have traveled all over this country as an Army Officer
and in no way am I small town minded or, a native of this area. Merely renting here for the year. Educated at lehigh univ. and commisioned as an officer in 1987.
Other than vacations outside of pennsyltucky, were else have you resided? anywhere in Europe, South America, any other large populated region of this country? I lived and thrive in the busiest cities like Dallas,Tx metroplex, Tallahassee, Fl, Houston Tx. ect, ect. I know people who are wealthier than you, and they have reasons to be snobs.
You may want to deny your a snob, but while training for a Dallas, Pa pharmacy, I wittnessed all the " I'm Not superficial " ladies walking through those doors. Oh yeah, and the Grotto at harvey's lake, If that area isn't considered the snobs of snobs? Your lying to yourself.
Never " Assume" that you know who you are talking too, and what thier intillectual level is before you insult a small town type of person.
Have a wonderful day, Oh yeah ,I'll bet you drive to the shopps at Montage as well?
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Posted: 4/22/2009 6:47:51 AM | Morning Constant, Are you familiar with New Philidelphia, Va. ? a very good friend lives there that I have not seen in about 12 years. he owns 600 acres there with horses.
plus 400 acres in the Lehigh Valley area of Pennsylvania. Guess Marial would think that's poverty stricken, LOL! I served at Ft. Lee and was schooled as a quartermaster officer during the 1982 thru 1984 time frame. Spent 3 annual training periods at Ft. Pickett. You have some beautiful scenery down there. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 7:59:01 AM | | No wonder you think all women marry for money, dallas. Cuz all army officers are cheaters and wife beaters. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 9:24:12 AM | mandakay , that is the most irrresponsible statement I have ever read anywhere! I have never cheated on my son's mother, nor even thought about it! as a Chaplain who was available to troops 24/7, I spent countless hours keeping male troops from taking thier lives because while we were in a combat zone or as simple as away for 2 weeks annual training thier girlfriends and wives back home were cheating with anyone they could seduce!
I have conducted a multitude of counceling sessions with Military couple's dealing with temptation and Infidelity. the common denominator I heard from the woman's mouths, "well he was gone so long I needed someone"??? "I have needs ya know"!
excuse me mandakay, but a soldier away from home during desert storm, granada, and the extraction of the dictator in Panama was no trip to a strip joint.
When I was wounded in desert storm and my leg was tore up, the Red Cross attempted to reach my ex-wife to notify her of my situation. They couldn't reach her why? cause she dropped our 3 year old son in the lap of her grandmother to care for and spent the entire day with the married man she had been cheating on me with!
when she finally arrived home her uncle's and aunt's were waiting for her to demand an explination of where she was because I was wounded. Even her uncle a retired Army Intel officer couldn't even find her? Don't ever size up brave soldier's as if they all beat or, abuse thier spouce. there is more of that in civilian life than anywhere! | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 9:29:13 AM | i would marry for money...
just beed a paper bag to cover their head in the bedroom lol
no but seriously that would be the option | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 10:25:51 AM | I wouldn't mind having a Lady with money.... it would mean that i didn't need to go out and earn any | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 11:14:29 AM |
Anyone who answer's they would not marry for money verses "Love" ? are pure Liars!
There is no one who would forego a better lifestyle for the immediate than staying in a humble ,or very modest exsistance even for a few years.
As irresponiible as YOUR statement that anyone claiming they wouldn't marry for money is a liar.
So if YOU can claim that all women would marry for money, and those who say they wouldn't, are liars, I can claim that ALL military guy cheat and beat. Since your statement included me, my statement can include you. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 11:16:52 PM | To DallasFan:
Thank you Sir for being UNselfish and giving of yourself and many years of your life in serving our country and doing whatever HAS BEEN and IS asked of you in order to protect ALL of us Americans and in keeping ALL of us safe, including myself!
Because of your freehearted willingness and volunteerism to "step up to the plate" for ALL of us, we are able to exit out of our dwellings each day as free people, to move about and enjoy the gift of freedom, not having to be concerned that there might be a foreign "enemy" at the end of the block to cause us harm or to arrest us. My "hat" is off to you Sir!
Now, as to the other matter.
Think nothing of the low-cut cheap shot that mandakay took at you in trying to assess blame that ALL Military Officers, including yourself, quote, "cheat and beat" their wives/girlfriends!
All sensible people, of either gender know as common knowledge that NOT all males throughout all society are "bad eggs", if you will, just the same as NOT all officers in the Armed Forces are bad eggs either.
I would tend to agree with you, although I myself do not know it as a fact, that as you stated, there is far more of this conduct, (percentage-wise, my wording) in civilian life than in the Military. JMHT---just my humble thoughts | |
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