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 bayrab

Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 8/1/2007 7:13:19 AM
CDN, simple creature, it's why we women love you all soooooooooooooooooooooo

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yes, kisses and hugs to the guys on this forum
 WindRoper

Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/1/2007 7:21:54 AM
I somewhat agree with what the Wonderer (love that song btw!) is saying, but I also have been frustrated over the years that with men I have known it almost always seems that a hug or touch can't just be that sometimes. The only exceptions seem to be if they were in a hospital bed (and even that wasn't always a deterent... LOL!) and funerals.
 woobytoodsday

Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 8/1/2007 9:30:17 AM
Better than having a love affair with my hand.

A nice alternative to 3 1/2 pounds of calves liver.

Tired of sheep.

This is a gift of the mind/sense of humour of N8VSON
 bayrab

Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 8/1/2007 9:32:47 AM
OMG, WOOBY, am cracking up here. Thanks I needed that!
 missy_60

Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 8/1/2007 10:17:17 AM
If anybody saw the Today Show this morning, this very topic was on the show and you'd be surprised what the reasons were:

1) Because they can;
2) Use it as a tool to get something (like a promotion, etc.)
3) To get back at somebody like an acquaintance or "friend";
4) To anger a spouse ...

and there are 27 other reasons they listed, but what gets me is that intimacy and just wanting to be closer to the person you're with, fell toward the bottom!!!!

What the hell is with people these days anyway? I guess sex is no longer considered a special thing with someone you love, except that's the only reason I have it!
 zentral

Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 8/1/2007 11:12:24 AM
Do we really need a reason to have sex? If you're in a relationship, all that is needed is the opportunity!
 Loveswood

Joined: 3/7/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 8/1/2007 11:46:23 AM
Goosebumps
Backpressure (commonly referred to as blue balls)
Acne (no wait that was my excuse for the Playboy under my mattress my Mom found as a teenager)
It's fun and relatively inexpensive
It's natural and we have primal urges that need to be expressed
 Baco Negg

Joined: 7/29/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/1/2007 11:50:26 AM
The best one I can think of right now is to keep yourself too busy to make up lists. Idle hands, Devil's workshop, etc.

Why live? Why breathe? Why have sex? Why ask why?

OK, I admit I do have a secret motive for wanting to have sex. But I will never tell it.
 cdn_guy

Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 8/1/2007 12:13:20 PM
I remember wa-a-a-ay back in my mid 20's, when I was first married, that I got into a big discussion with a friend/co-worker about the importance of sex in a marriage. We eventually compared it to 'common interests' and debated which was more important in a marriage -- i.e. if (hypothetically) a marriage could still survive if there was a total loss of one or the other. My view at the time was that common interests were far more important to a marriage than sex. And as this discussion got other couples involved with it, I found I was the only one who thought that -- including my wife, at the time.

It's very hard to sit here at the age of 56 and realize that I was such a stupid man back then.

cdn guy
 cuddlybuddy

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/1/2007 1:31:25 PM
My thoughts on this have definitely changed as I've reached my 50s. When I was in my 20s I would have said because it felt good and he ( the man of the moment) wanted it too, but now it is simply because we (my SO and I) enjoy pleasing each other and I love the euphoric feeling of being totally relaxed as I drift off to sleep with him beside me.
 Eye Guy

Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 8/1/2007 2:33:30 PM
Hi,
Yes...I know it's been a while....
I just noticed the expiration date on my can of whipped cream......
And I thought we....err...should not let it go to waste.
 carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 8/1/2007 3:17:20 PM
As well as havings kids:
1/ Its a way to bond with a partner.
2/ Its very nice.
 Harry Harmony

Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/1/2007 3:58:24 PM
Because theres nothing better, than enjoying a cushty sess with your bird,
 JoeGood

Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/1/2007 4:11:26 PM
Well, I gave her a choice...golf course or intercourse.!!
 JoeGood

Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 8/1/2007 4:13:11 PM
OF course you know she chose intercourse on the golf course!!
 cuddlybuddy

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 8/1/2007 4:52:41 PM
Thanks eye guy,
Your post made me giggle as it brought back a very special, and very personal memory involving a can of whipped cream, and some chocolate syrup.....
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 8/1/2007 5:14:18 PM
Reasons for having sex ~~
a) because it is the greatest way to have fun and pleasurem between 2 human
b) because there are no good reasons not to
(protected, of course)
 eyesthatsee

Joined: 7/22/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 8/5/2007 2:55:12 PM
angelic................LOL............good one girl.........but there could very well be some back up to the medicinal..............

consider this.........at our age......when we wake in the morning.......bones hurt......things are slower than they used to be as far as being able to do the things you used to do.........................but notice........in a sexual experience......all those positions we manage to get in...........Its like a Yoga session.........lol.......and nothing hurts after...

unless of course things got too wild and you bounced off the bed..........but even that you don't feel so much.....................

LOL
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 8/5/2007 2:58:47 PM
Because philosophy without sex (and vice versa) is like a burger w/o cheese and Cola! Too raw!
"I think and I make love, therefore I am"
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Posted: 8/5/2007 3:02:25 PM

until I actually do the dirty deed (to coin an inaccurate phrase), my thoughts will be completely screwed up for the entire day. I guess it's a 'man thing'


Um, no - it's not just a man thing.
 Randominternetguy

Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 8/5/2007 3:59:48 PM

Women need a reason to have sex
Men just need a place.
 Muskoka Gold

Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 8/5/2007 5:56:29 PM
Women need a reason to have sex

An old and tired cliche........ho hum..............
I can't and won't speak for all women but for me I don't need a reason to have sex. Sex can be found on any street corner within 10 minutes and with any available D**K. So, why bother? except to get your rocks off? What's so special about that?.......I, as a woman, need to feel a CONNECTION on a deeper emotional level than just merely physical.When I make love with a man it's a total joining of heart and body.
Reasoning with the mind has nothing to do with it..........the heart is in control.
I've heard it said that sex is between the ears but in my opinion........sex is below the neck and above the waist.....in the heart area. Check it out sometime.....it's the best sex you'll ever have.

Muskoka
 smallblueplanet

Joined: 8/5/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 8/12/2007 8:28:52 AM
Only the top 2% of guys EVER have sex ... unless they're married. The females only want the "cream" of the crop (pun intentional). It's true. If you're Brad Pitt you have a chance. Other than that .... why bother looking?
 bayrab

Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 8/12/2007 9:11:06 AM
ROTFLMAO.....

whoohooo, chrissy's back... I'm released from time out.....................................

I suppose by now you all know my feelings on this subject.................

We need a reason???????????????????????????????????????????????????

Isn't "just because" a good enough reason???????????????

signed

the hussy from over the yellow brick road
 chelsea_hou

Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 50
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Posted: 8/12/2007 9:57:04 AM
LOVE perhaps....
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