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 devilchild13
Joined: 7/21/2007
Msg: 51
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Oh god...I dont even like lookin at myself naked so there is no way in hell would I post a naked pic of myself...my b/f would go mental! But I do have a question which I will post in a seperate topic. (oh and before anyone starts...I am NOT naked behind the harley pic!)
 Coolgem
Joined: 9/20/2006
Msg: 52
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 8/3/2007 6:04:00 PM
What a stupid question; are you for real? Geezzzz...
 rasputing
Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 8/3/2007 6:04:35 PM
no that sends wrong signs theyshould ban nudity on internet and they should ban child porn has well but theydo it but i dont agree with it .you be open to all sorts in the wrong hands blackmail and even worse dont do it
 Spence56
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 54
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 8/3/2007 7:20:47 PM
Once you post a picture of yourself on the net it's out there forever! Personally, it doesn't make any sense to me to do that. Many things come back to bite you later on in life......

That doesn't mean it's not a good idea to have the pictures in your personal library. You will never be the person you are right at this instant. And lots of photos, sometimes even a few intimate ones, can be a great enjoyment later on in life. Like after cancer, or major surgery or losing a limb.

If you decide later you don't want them you can always delete or destroy them. But you won't be able to make that choice if you don't have them in the first place.
 divineadvisor
Joined: 7/28/2007
Msg: 55
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 8/3/2007 7:52:06 PM
Yes, there is a problem with that....I would end it. Even it the picture is not of them naked. That means they are out there looking. That is not a good sign of a healthy relationship.
 Tsorath
Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 56
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 8/3/2007 8:18:58 PM
lol before or after you two are a couple? Guess it depends on the type of relationship but if they are posting them on singles sites I might tke that as a sign.............



JC
 joebobbriggs
Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 57
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 8/3/2007 9:20:42 PM
Well - two cents girl - I'm glad I gave you a laugh. But it wasn't funny at the time. Oh well...

JoeBob
 SOUL AND HEART
Joined: 9/21/2006
Msg: 58
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 8/3/2007 9:32:31 PM
I'm not sure. Let me see the naked photos and I'll tell you. Ha! (lol)

I've heard alot of strange questions but this one really......
 grog27
Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 59
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 8/3/2007 9:40:40 PM
"Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?"

And the correct answer: STUPID!!!!
Anybody who would post nude photos of themselves on the net is just asking for trouble. Might not come home to roost for years, but you can bet it will be at a most inopportune time.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 60
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 10/1/2008 11:22:12 AM
I did a search for this because I was reading a blog about now there is "Revenge Porn". Basically where mostly guys (or girls) get revenge, post pictures/videos of ex lovers on the net to get back at them. To me that just proves that you never know how much of an a$$hole someone is until you break up with them. I think it's a very low thing to do especially if you don't have the person's permission. Just know, that if you do taked naked pictures, some day, somewhere, they may show up when you least expect it. If you want to read the article, it's here:

http://men.style.com/details/blogs/details/2008/09/revenge-porn.html?
 StealingPrinceCharming
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 61
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 10/1/2008 11:33:11 AM
Why would one post a naked picture on the internet whether he/she were in a serious relationship or weren't??? Probably, the person has some kind of mental problem!!!
 GoneSailinBabe
Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 62
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 10/1/2008 11:37:18 AM
I would NEVER do this.

It's my opinion that people who post these things are unaware of the security issues behind doing so.

Once you put something online -any one, any where, is FREE to do whatever they wish with your photo.

Period.
Including but not limited to - include you in porn, put you on the cover of a book or video, photo touch the photo and make it appear you're doing anal with a goat....

Anything.
So whether my lover minded or not is irrelevent - I won't do it.

Additionally - I love photography and my ex-fiance and I had some really EXCELLENT photos of each other nude. However, following the ugly breakup I destroyed nearly all of them, and the negatives.

I trust myself with those things, but I don't believe for one moment I could trust HIM with them or with my life.
 Bartleby Sanchez
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 63
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 10/1/2008 11:55:26 AM
No, I wouldn't be...

Knowing me I'd probably send the link out....lol....if she was okay with it...

of course, this is just forum talk, right?

 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 64
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Posted: 10/1/2008 12:31:55 PM
Personally I think you've have to be a total idiot to post a naked picture of yourself on a medium that can send it around the world and end up on anyone's computer including your children/grandchildren/parents/boss. I'm not even a prude about nudity, didn't worry about my kids seeing naked bodies, etc., but the idea of most naked Internet pictures is erotica of some sort or plain ole porn and that's suggestive in a way that everyday naked bodies aren't. If you wouldn't pose in a suggestive way in front of the world in person, I can't imagine why you would online. To each their own, but to me it's just a big DUH!! in that it can harm you. You'd be less likely to be exposed if you were to strip onstage, you'd have more control and protection there.

Of course many won't care and many want all that exposure, so no big deal, but thinking you can be naked online and only the intended person(s) will ever see it, is simply stupid. You might as well walk down your street naked, you'd get much less exposure that way. As for people who use suggestive photos on dating sites and then gripe about getting hit on for sex, well duh

I think if you are wanting to sexually expose yourself and wondering if it might upset a partner, that's something you need to talk about and is going to be a deal breaker for many, you'd have to expect that. I mean you are an adult, it's your choice, but while some partners will be thrilled with it, others may pack your bags and leave them at the curb. It's something you cannot take back after you've done and you will never know where it will end up or who will be looking at it. I know that's a big turn on for some but it's also something that can ruin your life at some point...depending of the type of life you lead. As always, to each his own, personally, I'd never want to date a man who sends naked pictures over the Internet, even though I would look at them (I'm nosy and curious) but it would be a deal breaker for me and no I have no such pictures out there nor would I ever want any.
 SassySky
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 65
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 10/1/2008 12:32:26 PM
I personally have a huge aversion to this type of activity. I for one will not pose for any of those type of pictures nor would any man I would be in a long term relationship with either if he did it would be later days.
I think there is a bit of an exhibitionist in all of us. But leaving the evidence floating around the internet is a bit much.
The sad thing is when you have shots like that of yourself and you share them you have just implied consent to have that person share them with anyone they choose. So you really don't know who or where those type of pictures are going to end up.

I also like to imagine what my guy looks like a bit and I sure don't want any Jill,Jane or Sally knowing the intimate details of my man.

Bad enough living on a small island and sometimes I feel like the men are sometimes passed around like musical chairs. Not my style of desires.
 MissEmpress
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 66
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 10/1/2008 1:33:41 PM
Ummm yes I have a problem with that. Why do they have naked pics of them self online anyway?
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 67
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Posted: 10/1/2008 2:34:51 PM
Sure-for the lawyers and potential heartbreak it can all lead to-I wouldn't, but, hey, that's just the 'Kev...some are probably fab with it all...I can get all the nakedness I want with my lady...
 screenangel
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 10/1/2008 2:54:33 PM
Internet nakedness is for the crazies.....
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 69
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 10/1/2008 3:13:42 PM
Curve ball...


3 pages, and nobody has said, "It's her body, and she can do what she wants with it." If she were dating a man, and got an abortion without consulting him, a lot of you people would be defending her actions. Not trying to get all judgemental about abortion or anything, but I thought this an interesting point. I don't agree that either is OK.
 mystery2me
Joined: 4/15/2008
Msg: 70
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 10/1/2008 3:25:22 PM
I think it is totally up to the one posing. Her/his decision completely. First of all, I think people are way too uptight about the naked body. Second of all, I think, yes, there is risk -- it is the person who posed who must weigh the risks, because that is who could be hurt the most. It's just a body, folks. We all have one. Personally, wouldn't want to see mine on the net...
 Octobersixty3
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 71
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Posted: 10/1/2008 4:25:41 PM
I personally don't see anything wrong with it. There are several websites for posting of nude photos which actually pay prize money to winning contributors, based on votes from people who visit the website and vote. Yes, I've submitted and won. I'm a photographer though and nude photography is an art form in itself. Guess I'm different, I see NOTHING wrong with nudity and am quite happy with my nude appearance. As for whether or not my partner agrees, well- when I did post those photos I was single. If I were to do it again while in a relationship, I'd at the very least let her know I was planning on doing it and hopefully receive her blessing. If she is of the mind set that posting the photos was somehow wrong or "dirty" she's probably not the right person for me. I'm a bit more openminded.
Also, I would like to add that under NO circumstances would I ever post photos of someone other than myself on the internet without their written consent/permission.
 SassySky
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 72
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Posted: 10/1/2008 5:38:44 PM

I'm a photographer though and nude photography is an art form in itself

While I totally agree with you that some forms of nudity is an art form Heck in College I have even posed nude. I have just seen in my short time on the internet how much damage can be done by posting nude shots of yourself out here and then having some idiot snag them take them into photoshop or some other program multilate them to where it isn't even you. Well I will pass.
Now if my guy wants to pose nude for me I will be getting the props in ahurry.
 dawn1114
Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 73
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Posted: 10/1/2008 6:14:03 PM
Wow, people are really paranoid about this. It's not like someone needs a NUDE photo of you to photoshop your face onto a porn or ridiculous image.

I can't imagine, personally, posting my own photos on the Net (I hardly think there's a huge call for naked images of MOST of us, anyway), but if I had a boyfriend who wanted to post his photos it wouldn't bother me. I'd also not get particularly freaked out at the thought of a naked photo of me winding up somewhere in cyberspace somehow. I sure don't lose any sleep at the thought of it.

I'm positive it wouldn't cause me any of the problems some people are going on about. What? I won't be elected prime minister or get that sainthood? Oh, dear. Fired? Are you kidding? Unless you're working for a religious or ultra-conservative org that has a so-called "morals" clause in the employment agreement that would also allow them to fire you for going to a nude beach or posing for nude for an artist, there's no way they could fire you. (The OP said "naked," after all, not pornographic.)
 Rock_Gnome
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 74
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Posted: 10/2/2008 7:05:34 PM
As amazing as this might sound,
I've never dated anyone who has posted
nude pics of herself on the internet.

Months ago, a skanky woman sent several nude
and attempted provocative pics of herself
to me.
All I can say is Dayum! There are just some
people who shouldn't be allowed unfettered
access to any photography equipment.

What I learned from that woman's nude pics?
Well, judging from the angle she had the camera,
those kegels just ain't working for her.

On Topic:
As for my girlfriend posting or even sending nude
pics to people on the internet?
Thankfully, my girlfriend has enough class that I
don't have to worry about that occurring.

Don't get me wrong. I do believe that the human body
is an artform in and of itself. I just believe that it's
best when shared privately.
 cedar77
Joined: 7/17/2006
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Posted: 10/2/2008 7:20:28 PM
On the internet or anywhere else that is public.....
At the very most , and to keep some decency , naked pictures must have a big maple leaf over the privates.
Just one big leaf , and that goes for women as well ...not three leaves , just one.


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