| Need some advice
Posted: 8/1/2007 2:07:55 PM | | All this drama and upset after just 4 months? Wow! You should be still in the honeymoon period. Take some time out. Sounds like you both need a break to be honest. | |
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| Need some advice
Posted: 8/1/2007 2:15:52 PM | In a word, it's not a lack of good communication skills....or bad ones, his behaviour is of a person in need of control..and he's controling the situation with SILENCE.
You seem to be beginning a pattern of destructive behaviour. I would suggest re-assessing why you are even putting up with that. I'm not saying your hanging up and such is helping matters, but if you've only been seeing him a short period of time...sit down and weigh out all the pro's and con's.
I've been there and LEFT that....and it only took me a MONTH.
Good luck! | |
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| Need some advice
Posted: 8/4/2007 9:28:46 PM | | I am by no means a relationship expert, but if after 4 months he is treating you like this then something needs to be done. I tend to shut down myself, but for like 10 minutes then I call back. You are a beautiful woman that deserves a man that can respect you and the fact that you were needing to vent, and the fact that you need help every once in a while. I hope it all works out for you either way. Keep your head up. | |
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kent53
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Joined: 7/21/2007
Msg: 29 | |
| Need some advice
Posted: 8/5/2007 10:38:56 AM | | men who do this either are or totally passive agressive - punishing you to the point of making you think it is your fault - if you cannot deal with conflict right away with sheer honesty and utmost RESPECT then this relationship is doomed...it may hurt you to hear the truth but deep down your heart is whispering that something about this isnt right - either move to repair it and set a new set of respect or move on...life is too short. | |
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