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 thestuff

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 26
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/1/2007 9:06:20 PM
Yeah good luck Chiwrtr72
 snaggs68

Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 27
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What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/14/2007 5:12:36 PM
Someone like trailertrash, she rocks. Check out her profile.Careful she has a potty mouth.
 michiganman734

Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 28
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/14/2007 5:53:57 PM
My car keys.
;-]
 str8ahd

Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 8/14/2007 6:37:33 PM
I have some keys, & Robbie, would you like to check my sock box?
 trailertrashh

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 30
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/14/2007 6:42:45 PM
someone to hold my hand and beat my horrible son...I have had way to much fun on the forums these last 2 days and got no work done. Ooops! Come out come out where ever you are.......
 forums1

Joined: 5/14/2007
Msg: 31
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What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/14/2007 6:58:12 PM
I've got these 2 little kittens I just got, and they tend to get into *everything*, and a couple times have knocked my glasses off the nightstand to "somewhere under the bed". Its really hard to find your glasses in the darkness under a bed, when you're nearsighted and can't see to well without them anyways (never mind its dark)!

Other than that, I wouldn't mind "finding" the winning Lotto numbers one of these days!
 beachchick

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 32
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/15/2007 5:24:58 AM
It's one of those things where you should be able to choose multiple choices. I am looking to "date," but with an eventual goal of a "long term relationship." I'm picking up "friends" along the way. I'm "emailing/chatting" with people in other countries, esp. some of the ladies on the forums. Why can't you be "looking for" a bunch of different things? I would choose all of the options except "intimate encounters."
 itsjsmejj

Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/15/2007 5:29:52 AM
Reading your post OP, I'd think your subject line should be What do you need, instead of want. Myself, I'm very happy and very content in my life. I made peace with my life and with God many years ago. However, as for what I want, I would enjoy the companionship and love of a woman again. To have someone I can give a big hug and kiss every day, listen as she tells me how her day went, snuggle up with a bowl of popcorn on the couch with a good movie, etc etc. I don't need that in my life, but it would be nice to have that.

Jim
 beachchick

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 34
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/15/2007 5:33:05 AM
She didn't say "what do you want," she said "what are you looking for?" As in, the question in one of the the drop-down boxes on our profiles. It can be hard to pick just one of them, unless you are so short sighted that you can't possibly see finding more than one thing here.
 Heathenesque

Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 35
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/15/2007 6:57:31 AM
I'm looking for my glasses, a good cup of coffee and my cigarettes right now.

Anybody seen them?
 loyal T

Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 36
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/15/2007 7:10:11 AM
On a serious note (hate to spoil the "Fun" here but taking the opportunity to "advertise" what I'm seeking..LOL) , I would STOP posting a profile on any site IF I could find that one guy who is sincere, down to earth, attentive enough to share things in response in contact, makes the effort to meet,etc. The type of guy that IS how he actually appears to be later on. Tired of guys that chat and then" disappear" as they OFTEN are just looking for who is out there, not anyone in particular.
I don't like false impressions and often find that others try too hard to impress only to actually be a letdown later . I find online dating often is too much an "addiction" for many to get caught up in not seeing who is right in front of them to begin with often. Many pass by a good person as they get TOO caught up in browsing online instead. That's just a waste of time for everyone then.
 mlm_mlm_mlm

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 8/15/2007 7:13:27 AM
In some cases, all a gal needs to look for is the perfect push up bra...
everrything else in life takes care of itself when the suspension is in good working order.
 SapphyreSkye

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 38
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/15/2007 7:23:47 AM
I'm looking for the good and beautiful things that surround me...if I take the time to notice them. I'm looking for opportunities and life lessons (hopefully I'll 'learn' something). I'm looking for ways to continue growing as a person and to embrace the bad with the good, because life consists of both.
 mlm_mlm_mlm

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/15/2007 8:06:52 AM
TT where is that hand holding military guy you dated? he will hold your hand and whip that boy into shape.... with proper military training, he will be able to get that boy to clean up your beer cans, cigarette butts and spit shine on command !


;)
 notajoke

Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 40
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/15/2007 9:44:06 AM
I am looking for someone I can love - havin a lil difficulty with that tho looool
 Krimiariver

Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 41
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/15/2007 1:51:18 PM
Loyal T wrote:

Many pass by a good person as they get TOO caught up in browsing online instead.


A simple, intelligent, and enlightened comment.

It's the candy store philosophy: can't pick one because there might be another one that I like better. Decisions, decisions.

I remember a line from a song: "I wonder why it is that we stumble around, in search of the people we've already found?". Sometimes you cannot see the forest for the trees and a great one for you was right there, but you were so enamoured with your inflexible list that you never recognized them and went, "Next!" And then you read here, "Where are all the good men? Where are all the good woman?" Hidden in plain sight.
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 8/15/2007 2:16:34 PM
What I am looking for? Being a cyclist, in which you go into these long ass 5 to 6 hour rides, you realize that is not so much what you are looking for or the destination, but the journey. So make the journey the one you want it to be. To me that journey is filled with tons of things to learn, but it had plenty of hurtles, incredible events and just awesome people to learn stuff from. That means you value what an old man has to say, what homeless has to say, what a rich person has to say. You learn from them and then try to give back and be able to move and make others a little happier.
 DJChickie401

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 8/15/2007 2:18:37 PM
At the moment I am looking for some ambition to hit the gym and burn at least 500 cals...can anyone help me find THAT? Or let me borrow some. I so want to sit on my couch and eat ice cream sandwiches today. Sigh.
 fancynanci

Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 1/16/2008 4:52:45 PM
A wonderful, sweet, charming, charismatic man to sweep me off my feet. I don't ask for much.
 SuiteSOULBrotha

Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 45
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Everyone knows exactly what they don't want...
Posted: 1/17/2008 3:27:08 PM
and I am equally sure that everyone knows what they do want. The problem comes when trying to determine how to go about getting it.

When we go to buy a car, home, or new outfit we know exactly what we want before we go out to get it and we don't allow anyone to talk into getting something different. The problem with this is... I am speaking of objects of desire that don't have to desire us in return.

Well... therein lies the fear of stating alloud what we want in someone else. We fear that that person or someone else may "CHECK" us and say that our human object of desire is out of our range or league so to speak.

So instead we are vague... and have hopes that someone that is representative of what we desire will come along and desire us too.

What do I Want?

My Equal. SomeOne equally as attractive. Someone equally Fit. Someone equally employed. Someone of equal free time interest. Someone equally inclined to persue a comfortable life for the 2 of us together. That isn't Much to Ask for, is it?

Until I get... I'll probably pass the time and boredom of being alone with anyone.

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 angelah1975

Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 1/17/2008 6:27:54 PM

Has anyone seen my keys? I lost them back in May, and I still can't find them...

Have you ever looked in the same spot for something over and over, convinced that THIS time it'll be there, since it wasn't ten minutes ago, or an hour ago, a day, a week and so on....I searched my van three times for my keys (in the same day), each time certain that THAT would be the time I found them...then my son searched the van the next day....sigh. Still haven't found them.


I call that keyzheimers. It happens to the best of us. I haven't lost mine for quite that long, though.
 tatalinia

Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 47
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Posted: 1/17/2008 6:34:28 PM
The only thing I'am looking for is ME. When I figure out who the hell I am inside and out I will have a better idea of who I want later on.
 DJChickie401

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 1/18/2008 7:11:25 AM
Truthfully I don't usually look for anything. I totally enjoy life daily and accept what comes as best I can. I find when you don't look, you focus on the big picture more, and you're less frustrated about things you don't find.
 Guy4theForums

Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 49
What are you looking for?
Posted: 5/6/2008 11:03:42 AM

MSG#1~OP~TrailerTrashh(lotlizard) Wrote:How do you even answer this question?My answer is nothing because I havent "lost" anything.
Isnt anyone content anymore?Sure an occasional date is nice and if Mr. Right came around I wouldnt throw him away but I am CONTENT with my life and dont NEED someone to feel worthy.

Well I know what I'd like to find. I'd like to find an attactive woman about my age that is also active and not a couch potato that wants to be my best friend and something thats lasting as in life times would be great.
 wondering1980

Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 50
What are you looking for?
Posted: 5/6/2008 11:29:18 AM
well i don't think anyone knows what they want but they do know what they don't want....
i hate it when asked this cause theres only one answer and for some odd reason some still get confused...i always say i'm looking for something serious but don't want to rush into anything so if anything is to develope it will after a while of being friends
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