| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 9/28/2007 8:05:17 PM | Thank you Texascrab for clarifying that for me. Yeah , I imagine what you ran into was a good bout of state taxes. Which to my knowledge most if not states ( except Texas) has. I was amazed when I moved here and found out I didnt have to pay them. I was like alllllllllllllllrightttttttttttttttt!!!!!!...lol.
Well, I am sorry your marriage had to end on such a sad note.
and everyone else, thank you for sharing your stories too.. Thank you for trusting us here in the forums with your memories.. and perhaps.. pain.
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 9/30/2007 8:00:59 PM | | I honestly don't know, she wouldn't tell me why she left me =/, easily the most heart-wrenching moment in my life, the only girl to make me cry tears of happiness...and sadness. :|. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/1/2007 5:40:44 PM | WELL LET'S SEE I DO BELIEVE THAT THE LAST SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP ENDED BECAUSE I WAS TIRED OF BEING USED FOR A PUNCHING BAG. I THINK THAT RATES RIGHT AT THE TOP OF ANY LIST OF REASONS FOR ENDING A RELATIONSHIP.      | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/2/2007 9:40:42 AM | | Bless your heart. I've been there hun. 4 years worth of that kind of abuse, and all others imaginable. I swear...some men just have no clue! Hey, I know that this will sound lame, but I know that it's helped me tons, if you ever need someone to talk to about this, feel free to write. But mega hugs for finally making it out of there. Good luck in life, and in love. And yea, not all of them out there are didiots! (made up word, goofy I know. Haha) | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/3/2007 6:38:29 PM | My last relashonship end when the haveing a decent job,honest,preachers son who
would never cheet or lie or steel,and loved the free sperit in me kinda guy did
a complete 360 as soon as he thought I was locked in. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/3/2007 8:25:05 PM | | My last serious relationship ended when she decided that she would rather be with a guy she met at work. Even tho she had sworn to me that she would NEVER cheat on me. I caught them kissing on the steps to our front door (yes we were living together) after she thought I had gone to sleep. I moved out a few days later. About 1 year after I moved out she dumped that guy and immediately started seeing ANOTHER guy and got married to him. All within the last 3 1/2 years. GOOD RIDDANCE!! I do miss her kiddos tho, they were some really good kids and my son also had a great time with them too. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/9/2007 10:09:23 AM | | Well I guess mine is just like everybody else! I Had been married for 20 years.Mine came home late from work again and I was sitting on the bed and said "Honey these late hours are killing me ,I'm lonely,my mind is playing games with me" He said I have something to tell you! He then sat down next to me to tell me that he was in love with his secretary that was 13 yrs his younger and was moving out! This happened 2 days before Christmas and it was my grandson's first Christmas at that! I'm glad he did it before I did cause he worked so much we had no time for each other. He spent alot more time with her than he did me and I really think it was a mid-age crisis cause he is miserable now and calls to tell me about all thier fights! LOL ! | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/10/2007 11:13:47 AM | 1) April 6, 2005 - Day after 8th wedding anniversary
2) I'll list all the reasons I believe it ended.
Me:
I took for granted that she'd always be there
I didn't do enough to prove I loved her
Her:
Had been previously abused and apparently took all her pent-up agression out on me (verbally)
Spent entire marriage trying to change me into someone else
Talked "down" to me
Rarely talked, would rather yell
Fought to win....not for the relationship
Toward the end I finally got her to start communicating but she absolutely refused to admit any responsibility or faults...while I laid mine out. She was very attractive..and knew it.
I let her take her name off of everything we owned before she left. I wanted there to be no doubt that I loved her and wanted no lingering negative feelings. Because of that, I lost my car trying to save my home and eventually lost that as well. Now I wouldn't be with or get back with her if my life depended on it. She moved 2 states away and good riddance! :op
I've grown into a much better person because of all of it though. Communication, trust, loyalty and dedication to one another are now my top priorities, whereas before they were things I hoped would eventually happen. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/11/2007 7:34:05 PM | | So hard to understand why great people like you ..so you seem..from your honesty.. have to go through such a hard time. How he left was mean and stupid. Good for you to move along. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/13/2007 5:44:25 AM | my last relationship ended because he had a rare disorder that i couldn't deal with .
The need to put his male parts in an array of other people.
I searched the internet but never found a cure,so the relationship ended! | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/14/2007 7:35:27 AM | | I was married to this man for 3 yrs. then he started talking to his best friends fiancee. she said her and his friend were having problems and that my husband was just trying to help them out. well he spent alot of time talking to her on the phone and computer and ignored me. i didnt matter anymore. so we split up, she married the other guy but wasnt married a month and decided she wanted a divorce when she found mine and my husbands was final. so know they are married and have a baby. she dont act like a mother towards my child, she dont clean house and she dont hardly cook. my husband has to pick something up on the way home or cook when he gets home. i still love my exhusband, in my heart he is still my husband. i see them all the time, we all get along but it is hard for me to be around them. thank god for my child, he pretty much destracts me from them. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/23/2007 8:00:11 AM | Sept 04 was the ending of my last serious relationship or any kind of relationship for that matter.
Long story short. Truck driver (at the time) gone 5-6 days a week and we just grew apart. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/26/2007 6:06:18 PM | | I Am still trying out how a marriage that lasted for 14 years was over without anymore than and explainplation! Just good bye. No concact with our daughter either. Still hurts after three years. Still crying | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/27/2007 5:08:42 PM |
I gave her everything she was wanting in terms of being there for her and spending time with her,..so i think it was my fault for making it too easy and not having to chase after me..she said she loved me after the 2nd date! I never said it back, know better than that. Although I do tend to move fast and really want things to turn serious faster than most other guys I know.
Question for woman.. Why does a woman claim she wants it all and then when faced with it becomes afraid and wants to slow it down or end it?
Dan | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/27/2007 7:36:58 PM | | My last serious relationship only lasted about 3 months and really i shouldve ended it when he told me he was a polygamist and couldnt love only 1 woman. I made the mistake of thinking i could change him to love only me. We had a long talk a few days after he told me and for a while things seemed to be going great. He is a truck driver and goes all over the country but would come see me every 2 weeks. But when he was home he spent most of his time on yahoo or my space talking to ex girlfriends and female friends. I admit i was jealous of this but how was i supposed to feel? It just recently ended (or im assuming so) about 2 weeks ago because he was supposed to come see me on his off time but at the last minute decided to go home to Corsicana to see his family...after missing a very important doctors appointment he swore he would be there for...and assumed it was ok. Well, i havent heard from him since he told me he was staying there. I know he is back on the road now but i have seen him signed on to yahoo and at times my space but hes made no attempt to contact me. So i feel i should just move on. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 10/27/2007 7:46:43 PM | Question for woman.. Why does a woman claim she wants it all and then when faced with it becomes afraid and wants to slow it down or end it?
Well I wouldnt know the answer to that because ive never been offered "it all". Seems like all the men i meet are either perverts or cheaters/liars. And the ones who seem honest enough live too far away for me. I am in school and cannot relocate anytime soon so I try to find people at least in my state. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 11/28/2007 2:28:08 AM | well my marrage lasted 3 days short of our 27th anavesery when she came to see me whil i was on an outage about 130 miles from the house she wated until saturday night to come up usly came on friday night spent the night with me got up the next morning i thought we were going to chatanooga for the day but she told me she was seeing another man and was filing for a divorce I was so devestated i could work for 3 months and didnt care if i lived.
Mabie when my girls were growing up I should have made her work but belived the kids should have a parent at home when she went to work my youngest daughter was in the 10th grade then she changed jobs and was working a job with a bunch of divorced women and they would go out for drinks where she met him and the rest is history got my home sold it bought my youngest daughter a mobile home gave it to her and started traveling but it gits loanly beaing a union welder i can travel anywere but it gits old not haveing someone to come home to and spend time with go camping and canoeing with or just be at home with | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 1/13/2008 11:17:03 AM | October of 2006. My last relationship ended when I suprised my ex by coming home early and finding her shooting up in the bedroom. She was shooting meth straight into her vein. Four years of my life down the drain. I even tried to work it out with her but she doesn't want to change.  | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 2/3/2008 3:38:32 AM | Mine passed away in 2004.
Picture is posted. Not only a spouse, but my best friend. The one who had my back.
I have a new best friend... I would seriously miss if things changed. | |
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