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| | What caused your last serious relationship to end? Page 6 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | What caused the breakup? I came to Dallas (never been to Texas before)on leave from the Army, with a friend who was from here. The last night of our leave, we went bowling. Two pretty girls were bowling a few lanes over. I went and invited them to bowl with us, and they did. I talked to the one brunette the rest of the evening. We exchanged numbers. Never talked to her again.
Six months later, I came back to Dallas with the same friend on leave. One of the evenings we went out clubbing. Got separated, and I ended up with one of his buddies from the high school days. We went to JoJo's on 75 and Walnut at the clubs closing. While we were sitting in our booth, to beautiful girls came past, I thought I knew the brunette. I kinda grabbed her by the elbow, and stated, " Dont I know you from someplace?" She jerked her elbow away and exclaimed "I dont think so!!!" I was humbled, and apoligized to my friends buddy, for the embarassment. Soon after that a woman came to me and asked if a couple of girls could come sit with us, as they were followed, and being harassed by some guys from the club they were at. I said sure, she went back and brought the brunette and her friend to our table. (It was the same girls that gave me the cold shoulder earlier).
I aplogized to the brunette for the earlier grabbing of her elbow, but I insisted I have met her at one time or another. My Army's buddys friend said "when have ever been to Dallas? ( knowing I was from Iowa originally) At that moment the brunette and I blurted out...."Big Time Bowling Alley!!!!!!" We both thought is was fate that we were to meet up like this again..............We got married two days later. In March it will be for 23 years.
Anyways it was this that broke me up with my fiance, of 4 years..... | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 1/19/2009 12:00:40 PM | he was a terrible listener
we were together for a year and 3 months and he asked me--what happens if i buy you a ring without thinking i said for the love of god (name) please don't because the answer is no. (we were much to young) 3 moths later he proposed to me...in front of his parents i had to pull him aside and share a few nasty words before i finally told him that i had it. | |
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 2/17/2009 8:46:21 PM | Dont know what to say to that other then sorry and old habbits are hard to brake. The last relationship I was in I told her that if there was anything about me that you dont like let me know and we can talk about it because I wanted it to work and I know my flaws or habbits some women dont like. She said great and me too. ( And I have to say they are not that bad )
I guess what I am saying is after so long of a time of being who you are it is hard to change unless you want to and more importantly have a reason, wheather its for health, love, cant affore it, just want to change, ect. We really didnt know alot about each other going in other then we liked each other and just let it ride. Then the personal stuff started wearing on us and we didnt talk about it even though we planned on doing it but didnt make the effort.
So, looking back I did see a few signs of irritation when I did certain things and should have reconized it. I didnt and it became a problem. The last time we were together we were watching TV, talking but we didnt have that close playfull connection. I remember asking her why she was playing with her hair, she had never done that before and now I know its a sign of someone that doesnt want to be there. Then it was over. Lesson learned, make sure you talk and if your/them are not willing to change a few things then its not meant to be.
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| What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 3/2/2009 11:15:47 PM | | I was with him for almost three years, it ended quietly 10 days after May 17th, 2008. I say quietly because we've not spoken since May 17th of 2008. Why did it end you ask, well I'm sure for me it was a long time coming, but I wasn't sure how to end it or if I really wanted to. The night of May 17th, we were at his sisters house playing cards. We were playing poker and other card games, then decided to play Spades. I know how to play it, not as well as them, but I know the concept, sometimes I have to ask questions about things, but hey when you don't play it all the time it's hard to keep things straight. Well my first mistake was being partners with him. My second mistake was not knowing how to play the game as "well" as he did. Let's just say he got pissed at me several times during the game because he felt that I could have played a hand differently or whatever. Then during his sister and brother-in-laws smoke break we got into an argument because he was being a****and I wasn't going to let him be mad at me for a stupid card game. Well I told him that he was being stupid, and that was when his sister and her husband came back inside. Before they came back in he told me that if I were a man it would have been on. Which in my mind said that he would have hit me or something. The rest of the night was a bit silent and then he took me home. We argued more, and I wasn't going to let him treat me like I had done something wrong, though that was what he was doing. He didn't call me for over a week, and during that time I was able to wrap my mind around what had happened and realized that if I were a man and he would hit me for saying he was being stupid, what more would I have to have said for him to hit me as a woman. So I decided that I didn't need to be with him, and we've not spoken since that night. Well now I am in Texas and he's still in California for all I know. | |
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