| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/28/2007 7:50:44 AM | Hi OP,
Post #69 Cedar...
I think you are dating the wrong type of guys if this is your experience and your attitude. Your post is degrading to men , and don't do anything you don't want to do.
Although I always try to keep an open mind and not judge anyone on their lifestyle choices, I have to agree with the above poster that your post is very degrading to men.....to imply that men in general are not clean "down there" and that they have "dried pee" on their genitals is quite simply ridiculous, and in my opinion only goes to tell me on what type of men you choose to sleep with in the first place, no?
I've had my share of... er..."adventures" in my life and I can honestly say that I've only come across this situation once in my entire life...and I didn't go on blaming the guy in question as much as I blamed myself for my obvious poor choice and temporary lack of judgement......let alone blame ALL men for having a dirty "rooster"...geesh!
And as a side note, I just happen to ge a HUGE Alice in Chains fan...."they've come to snuff the rooooster.....oh yeaaaahhhhh"....now I wonder if I'll ever be able to hear that song again without thinking of this thread...and that song just happened to be one of my favorite too....dang!!
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/29/2007 3:03:07 PM | | Most men like getting oral sex and if your not into it you should let him know early so he can decide whether to stay or move on. I find it funny that some women will do it while they are dating but after thay get married she stops....she is only fooling herself if she thinks he wont get it elsewhere | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/29/2007 4:05:18 PM | | Well, some women love it, some don't. If you're one that doesn't, I hope you have alternative plans regarding a relationship. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/29/2007 6:45:38 PM | If your man doesn't get it from you, he will get it from some other girl. For most men it is a requirement, a regular need that must be fulfilled, and non-negotiable.
If you have any question about why you are single. Consider it answered. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/29/2007 7:24:43 PM | Maybeyou aren't into it because you think of it as rooster. Picture it as a little fireman, and what woman doesn't like firemen?
As far as a partner not wanting to do it, it wouldn't bother me too much. It has never really been that important to any of the relationships I have had previously. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/29/2007 7:25:40 PM | Most of the women I have been with really enjoy it !
I must admit I do keep myself very clean so there is no problem.
Doing it to a woman is a much dirtier thing as a woman is full of bacteria. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/29/2007 11:17:06 PM | OP is a troll :D
Kill with fire, or will regenerate 5-10 hp per round | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/30/2007 2:57:33 AM | Thankfully the women I prefer, actually enjoy oral to the point of almost orgasming from not only receiving, but from giving me oral! I love both and consider both important to share with my lover.
Try googling "Jacob Zuma" and shower, if you haven't seen it on the news before.
Now I need a shower for just reading that crap...how pathetically that the spread of this disease is because of such ignorance! | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/30/2007 10:52:19 PM | | this is probably way more candor than any of us care to venture into, but i actually don't care for receiving the polesmokage too much. it's okay, but when i get thuroughly hard, i can hardly even feel a girls mouth at that point. she could use two hands and a rolling pin on it, or maybe a 4 lb. sledge hammer, and i'd finish quicker. that's exactly why rubbers are such an enormous pain in the ass. i will actually turn sex down with a hot girl, rather than wear condom. that's no lie, cause i know i won't arrive, instead i will turn into a blue-balled, ape-shit psychopath with a pecker tent. a powder keg ready to kill the first person that i see. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 9/30/2007 10:55:44 PM | Excuse me.....Most men that are going to get there Rooster sucked usually are clean and very well shaven. Obviously you don't like to suck the "Rooster". Well guess what.......You have to like it to be good at it. Not to brag....but I love it. Good luck finding a man that doesn't want it. I think you should just get used to it. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/1/2007 12:26:34 AM | Dried pee? Are you kidding me? You gals have a lot more nooks and crannies down there to collect assorted fluids, including pee, and we (well, at least the good ones) are still more than happy to oblige when called into oral service. Some of us even relish the opportunity. And most of the time, it ain't too "dried" down there, sunshine. In fact, it takes a lot more than a quick dab with a tissue, and not every gal likes to work that hard. And don't bother denying it; I've been that soldier; I know with what I deal. Not to mention the inch-and-a-half proximity to another, far less appetizing orifice. Believe me, it's far grosser for us than it is for you. Forgive the pun, but "suck it up".
And to further disagree (nothing personal, I just happen to disagree with everything you said), I don't expect and/or request oral, ever. There are quality concerns, and frankly I find myself getting bored a lot of the time; no need for them to embarrass themselves. But if they offer, I won't be rude and refuse. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/1/2007 8:59:34 AM | mrsjcc0312:
So, whats another word for**** but Rooster, silly people!!
In response to the common 'Mr. Happy' nickname, I've jokingly referred to mine as Doctor Doom, but I'm not right in the head.
(Wouldn't you want YOURS to sound more imposing than average ... and perhaps qualified for medical school? Again, I digress.) --------- On the whole 'expectations of receiving oral' angle:
In one case, very long ago, the performance of said act was ... unpleasant. To the point that after several attempts over time got a: 'uh, no, that's OK' from me. Teeth seemed unavoidable, and no amount of instruction seemed to take.
In a more recent case, the mechanics were -spectacular-. The eye contact and expression during ... even better.
(Ladies, take note ... even if you're ambivalent about the act, if you like our response (I mean during the process) ... let us know ... it's -stellar-)
Unfortunately, it was apparent that her point of view on it was that it was obligatory, so it was tough to completely go with it. I liked she would do it. I REALLY liked she seemed to enjoy watching me look like a goon while she did it. :) I just got to the point I'd feel bad afterwards (and occasionally during). Seemed like it was a lot to ask.
As to my expectations nowadays:
I think I would hope for an unsolicited attempt while we're moving towards sex, but I don't think I'd actually put a request in until after we're comfortable going to bed together. ----------- In answer to the 'Then don't give her oral!' wags:
1) Flailing my tongue around down there without a sense of direction or a map is somehow a -reward- for the charity of a well-treated Doctor Doom? Ego check, gentlemen ... ego check.
2) Saliva ... down there ... ALWAYS good for the activities that are to follow the foreplay.
-John | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/1/2007 9:20:18 AM | | How did this survive the "Is This a Troll" test? | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/1/2007 12:36:46 PM | | For those that like it Oral sex is a gift that you never get bored of. As for why men expect it more ( And i'm not sure they really do I think they are happy to be so lucky ) but it has become far more accepted as modern sex where probably years ago you would date, eventually more to a sexual relationship and then after introduce oral sex maybe quite a way down the line. Now a lot of girls like oral sex a few dates before they are prepared to have full sex or at least at the same time. So it seems to me at least that where it used to be a more personal activity than sex it is now considered less of a step. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/1/2007 1:13:23 PM | | Honey, if a man lets you see his wallet to spend money on you, you just pretty much looked into his soul. So please, don't fuzz, just get down there and do God's work. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/2/2007 2:43:49 PM | | Not ALL of us men think that way. As great as it is, when the time comes to actually having sex I for one do NOT expect to have my "rooster" sucked. I would however appreciate some reciprocity if I did the same for her by dining at the Y. But we all don't expect it OP, so don't think it's something we ALL are expecting during the sex act. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/2/2007 3:04:09 PM | Why do men automatically think that if a woman wants to have sex with him, that she wants to put his "Rooster" in her mouth? Why do men think that if a womans interested in him, that he'll get his "Rooster" sucked?
I wouldn't say all men expect it, but many women do enjoy putting a man's 'rooster' in her mouth. In fact, some women actually prefer to give than receive blow jobs. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/7/2007 9:47:30 AM | | I dont have a rooster, i have a**** lol, and its prob cleaner than your mouth. | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/7/2007 11:45:42 AM | | Probably because most women don't have an issue with it. As Chris Rock said in regards to headless women. "Dey still make dim!? | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/7/2007 2:26:51 PM | To borrow a line from Chris Rock: "I look at a girl who doesn't give head like a BetaMax.... They still make you?" | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/7/2007 2:41:18 PM | WOW.....I guess it is fine if you don't want to give. But think you shouldn't recieve either!!!! But I bet you expect that....don't you?? If you want to get technical....there are probably more germs in a someones mouth than on a mans "rooster" as you call it. Sex is about giving your partner as much pleasure as they give you....willing to try anything and everything!!! When you realize that...then you will experience the most amazing sex of your life!!!! Be open!! | |
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| men and oral sex... Posted: 10/18/2007 6:17:35 AM | | If you like guinness, then must love haddock scented hallway juice... I love guinness... | |
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