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 Mik3yLoL

Joined: 10/4/2007
Msg: 151
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Posted: 12/5/2007 10:42:32 AM
it's a urge for some guys to wanna go down on a woman...
just more publicized for woman to go down on man..
my girl dislikes doing this so i stopped asking her to, she also dislikes it when i go down on her but hell i try and do it anyways, just an urge.. some have it others don't. personally though i wouldn't wanna suck a "rooster", but i don't think you wanna lick a vag so.. it's a matter of preference, and urges, whatever.
 frenchy84

Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 152
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Posted: 12/5/2007 10:56:24 AM
I find having oral sex isnt necessary

i havent had sex before & its not important 2 me.. ive never had to be horny.. ever

anyways ya.. why is is soo important for them to have sex etc..
 rock_hunter

Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 153
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Posted: 12/5/2007 12:06:45 PM
It's important because it's important. No additional explanation needed.

And yes, she'd better like oral sex. That's one of my non-negotiable rules.
 carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 154
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Posted: 12/5/2007 3:34:40 PM
Interesting attitude as most of the women I have been loved doing it !

A return favour usually goes down well.
 rowdysheis

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 155
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Posted: 12/5/2007 3:48:09 PM
If I care enough about a man to go to bed with him, I definitely care enough to perform oral sex. I love seeing the man I'm with totally satisfied. It is a huge turn on that I can drive him wild. I wouldn't be with any man who wasn't considerate enough to shower before being with me, that's a given. And vice versa. I wouldn't think of climbing into bed with a man unless I was immaculate from head to toe. That's just normal hygiene.
 kungfuguitarist

Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 156
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Posted: 12/5/2007 4:04:24 PM
fayepar, msg 148:

Most guys don't believe in washing their rooster often

So you must have smelled most of the roosters in your country then eh?


 TombstoneTom

Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 157
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Posted: 12/5/2007 4:06:16 PM
Personally, I enjoy it. I love to give it back to the woman, As a matter of fact, I will usually go there first.

Rooster? ROCK A DOODLE DOO! (please do)! Get the picture??

You recieve what you get,

Tom
 aloneinRI

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 158
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Posted: 12/5/2007 4:09:20 PM
This is my thoughts on Men and Oral sex...I dont think men actually assume they are going to be getting a BJ. I think they are too busy in the thought of getting L##D. Either way, it's all good. A secure woman/man just play their part and do what comes natural. If it is the smell on a person, why not begin the whole interlude with showering together...It is a nice way to begin dont you think. Then everyone is sqeaky clean!
 Bikerscum

Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 159
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:31:15 PM

So a man's PENIS is dirty and disgusting,but you want aswell as your husband to go down on you,other men also??

ok,can't say anymore,this is to funny


Classically female double standard.
 aNgeLiCbLoNdiE

Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 160
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Posted: 12/7/2007 3:21:14 PM
take a shower or bath together 1st....in fact...get started in the shower & work your way to the bedroom

A Lady should always come 1st, if she's with a gentleman

It is unfair for a man to expect to get oral & then be unwilling to give....

gentlemen, "Tis better to give than to recieve


or as Van Morrison sang:

You can take all the tea in china
Put it in a big brown bag for me
Sail right around the seven oceans
Drop it straight into the deep blue sea
Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Shes an angel of the first degree
Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Just like honey from the bee


You cant stop us on the road to freedom
You cant keep us cause our eyes can see
Men with insight, men in granite
Knights in armor bent on chivalry
Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Shes an angel of the first degree
Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Just like honey from the bee


You cant stop us on the road to freedom
You cant stop us cause our eyes can see
Men with insight, men in granite
Knights in armor intent on chivalry
Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Shes an angel of the first degree
Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Just like honey from the bee


You know shes alright
You know shes alright with me
Shes alright, shes alright (shes an angel)

You can take all the tea in china
Put it in a big brown bag for me
Sail it right around the seven oceans
Drop it smack dab in the middle of the deep blue sea
Because shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Shes an angel of the first degree
Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Just like honey from the bee

Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Shes an angel of the first degree
Shes as sweet as tupelo honey
Just like the honey, baby, from the bee

Shes my baby, you know shes alright.....

 mikie41

Joined: 11/17/2007
Msg: 161
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Posted: 12/9/2007 12:17:36 AM
I personally think oral sex is great and I love to make the man feel good. It is actually a turn on for me to give a blow job. Ooops that makes me a bad girl. LOL
 liv4lov

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 162
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Posted: 1/12/2008 12:16:15 PM
NEVER expect at all... But when it is done, OMG it is a great feeling... Just like I love going down on a lady. ummm... And I am always clean, not to mention endowed..Not hugh but nicely endowed...
 liv4lov

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 163
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Posted: 1/12/2008 12:16:56 PM
NEVER expect at all... But when it is done, OMG it is a great feeling... Just like I love going down on a lady. ummm... And I am always clean, not to mention endowed..Not hugh but nicely endowed...
 dwight1055

Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 164
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Posted: 1/12/2008 2:57:42 PM
..i see you're married! i'd love to hear your husbands side of this story! i feel for the guy..dried pee indeed!
 hardclimber

Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 165
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Posted: 1/12/2008 3:06:00 PM
Not everyone is into oral sex. Some couples thing it is not an act of love, just lust?
 taz in love

Joined: 12/11/2007
Msg: 166
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Posted: 1/12/2008 3:40:27 PM
OP are you sure you aren't a lesbian? Seriously. Do you expect any man to post on here that you are right and because of your posting, he will no longer want blow jobs? This has got to be the most bizzare thread I have ever seen on here so far. You're kidding right? How do you feel about oral on a woman? Do you turn men away from doing that because you took a pee that day?


 taz in love

Joined: 12/11/2007
Msg: 167
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Posted: 1/12/2008 3:45:58 PM
Okay,,,now I am definately confused. Very confused.

You are married and a SWINGER. You get "taken" by men who are not your husband, but yet you are opposed to oral sex? You dont want to swing with married men, although you are married? Do you have a therapist by chance?

 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 168
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Posted: 1/12/2008 4:01:42 PM
Men Love Oral Sex . . and so do Women . . !!!
Having enough Respect for each other to maintain Cleanliness only Adds to the enjoyment . . !!!
I like the *77* technique, myself . . because I Love to please my Partner . . !!!

* 69 . . and you get 8 {Ate[Eaten] More} . . !!! *
. . !.. !.. ! !! !!! . .
 Justcauz1

Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 169
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Posted: 1/12/2008 5:00:39 PM
mrsjcc0312 OK guys, I have to ask...
Why do men automatically think that if a woman wants to have sex with him, that she wants to put his "Rooster" in her mouth?
Why do men think that if a womans interested in him, that he'll get his "Rooster" sucked?
Think about it guys, would YOU want to suck "Rooster"? Nope, didn't think so. It's disgusting and let's face it, not all men are clean down there.
I don't want no man's dried pee going in my mouth.



Unfortunately for him, I have a severe case of TMJ, and my jaw has a tendancy to lock up.



I call Bull$hit!! You are selfish and as far as TMJ My ex wife had TMJ and she did fine when she did it.

Another BS call goes to the fact it looks like you never had a problem eating seconds so I am not so convinced of the severe TMJ story.


To harsh? Maybe? I still think it is all about you, and you will come up with an excuse rather then the truth.
I have never posted a harsh answer to anything I have commented on but I could not styful myself this time.
 janiegirltx

Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 170
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Posted: 1/12/2008 5:33:38 PM
Girlfriend, first of all, where the heck did you learn to call it a Rooster??? A phallus is a thing of beauty. The balls are something else, though..... I love to give oral because it gives me ultimate power over my man's pleasure. It turns me on to turn him on. Shower with him first or something!!!
 whothehellknows

Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 171
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Posted: 1/12/2008 5:56:24 PM

Girlfriend, first of all, where the heck did you learn to call it a Rooster??? A phallus is a thing of beauty. The balls are something else, though..... I love to give oral because it gives me ultimate power over my man's pleasure. It turns me on to turn him on. Shower with him first or something!!!


I think I'm in love!!

But seriously, I think the OP would be surprised to learn how many people actually enjoy doing oral on their partners. I am all for respecting people limits, but if she thinks it is disgusting and dirty, perhaps the OP should raise the quality of people she dates.
 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 172
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Posted: 1/12/2008 10:12:37 PM
I wonder how many others have noticed that the OP has 'Intimate Encounters' listed . .
#1....Talk about defeating your own 'purpose' . . !! . . . .
#2....The thread may be designed to attract men to contact her . .
resulting in more men being stricken with the 'I-E Penalty'
..H-m-m-m-m-mmm . . . .
#3...For a moderately attractive lady . . she picked only the 2nd Worst possible Photo to display . . H-m-m-m-m-m-mmm...
. . 2B backs away . . a l o n g way away . . very Slowly . . then . .
R U N S L I K E H E L L . . !!!
 keng71

Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 173
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Posted: 3/5/2008 11:58:52 AM
you don't want his dirty unit in your mouth but you are ok with it elsewhere? Yay dirty unit!
 Tara

Joined: 8/18/2004
Msg: 174
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Posted: 3/5/2008 2:18:34 PM
I would just like to state a quick thought. It's probably already here, but I'm having a hard time watching all the floggings.
So, here's my thought, as someone who also DISLIKES going down on men.
Relationships, whether casual or serious, are all about compromise. Perhaps explaining to the gentleman you are with will prevent further disappointments on both sides.
Inform him you have a rather strong dislike for it. Does he have a favorite position he would like to try instead? Does he have a fetish that he wouldn't normally get to explore? Instead of saying no outright, bring up some options, let him know that while you have your limits, you are willing bend (no pun intented) in other areas.
Since you and your hubby are looking for a playmate, you might be surprised how reasonable guys can be when you present them with options.
Oh, and the bathing of a... ahem, "Rooster"... can be a very erotic experience and a part of foreplay all on it's own. Perhaps purchasing a cloth specifically for that purpose (soft, lol. Most dishclothes aren't really up to the sensual side of the job) to keep in the "Toybox".
As for the guys threatening to remove one for the other, well, you guys should take a look above as well. It's not fair to say "an eye for an eye" in intimate situations. Either you enjoy doing it, or you don't. It's very simple. If you don't, compromise.
Guys should keep in mind that it is much easier for them to be stimulated than it is for us. It's not fair, but that's the way it is. Have a little consideration for your partners. If you don't enjoy oraly stimulating your partner, then it's a waste of effort doing in the hopes of getting the same favor returned, because you'll find the same lack of enthusiasm when it comes your turn. Then no one's is happy.
Be fair to your partners, considerate, open and honest. Both sides have their flaws in design, and their perfections. A little research can open a lot of doors.
 strangerstill

Joined: 12/20/2004
Msg: 175
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Posted: 3/5/2008 2:33:26 PM

Why do men automatically think that if a woman wants to have sex with him, that she wants to put his "Rooster" in her mouth?


I can't answer the question but I would be damned impressed if she can.
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