| men and oral sex...
Posted: 3/5/2008 2:36:28 PM |
Guys should keep in mind that it is much easier for them to be stimulated than it is for us. It's not fair, but that's the way it is.
I am sorry, I have to disagree here. I will admit, I have not had a LOT of partners, but I have found that they pretty much all can get going about as fast as I can. Men, in general, are a little simpler, but once you figure out the combination to a particular woman's "body" it is really easy to get her going... it is easier, since you can get her thinking about things, by giving her a look, or a special "leer" at her body... to get her thinking... when you get a woman thinking erotic, her body follows.
As for being fair or not... remember, women get multiple orgasms. I think that pretty much trumps everything else. :-) | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 9:48:55 AM | | awww be quiet and put my rooster in that talking hole! Best thread ever! | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 10:26:10 AM | To each their own.
Just know your competion will drop to her knees with gusto if she wants your man.
I happen to be more of the giver type then receiver which for some strange reason I've never met a woman with the "not tonight I've got a headache" problem.
Oral isn't for everyone...giving or receiving, but just know it's one more way to get and keep a relationship. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 11:03:22 AM | To each their own.
Just know your competion will drop to her knees with gusto if she wants your man.
Woww.... That girl must really be a hoe then... you don't just give in to someone else because you want there man... | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 12:29:36 PM | | Sorry I'm the type who can't wait to give it. (It is better to give than to receive) | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 3:07:23 PM | This thread has my FULL.....ATTENTION!!
TEN..........HUT! [standing at ATTENTION]
[part of ME....anyway]
Why do you think PRISON is so rough on a guy?
HUH? HUH?? HUH???
NOOO ORAL Se.......wha?.......huh?.....WHAS..DAT?
they............do?  my.....bad. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 3:30:57 PM |
Just know your competion will drop to her knees with gusto if she wants your man.
Oral isn't for everyone...giving or receiving, but just know it's one more way to get and keep a relationship.
pokerjimmy
Wow, so we are in competition, worried about losing a relationship over sex preferences? If that is what loses him, I am happy to hold the door and wave bye bye.
Sex is an intimate decision between two people. The best is when mind, soul and body are all involved. I consider oral sex to be one of the most intimate things two people can do on a physical level. Like any stage of intimacy, it needs to be a mutual decision. I can relate to the OP not liking to be asked. I personally never ask, we mutually decide to do what is comfortable. I don't like to be asked. Love is something we give. Someone wanting to push your comfort level may need a redecision.
Remember the Love is.... cartoons? One good one is: Love is....Never feeling like I HAVE to do something to keep you or make you happy.
For those you who are out playing sex like it is a sport or a game, then you run into all kinds, good and bad. This is the risk of that game. People who are out for hedonistic pleasure may be oafs at times. Animals act like animals because they ARE animals. Don't think I am judging, just observing, as a female who has sometimes had to beat the animals away. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 5:27:48 PM |
OK guys, I have to ask...
Why do men automatically think that if a woman wants to have sex with him, that she wants to put his "Rooster" in her mouth? Why do men think that if a womans interested in him, that he'll get his "Rooster" sucked?
I don't automatically think those things. In fact, before I have time to think, Rooster's disappeared. Guess where?
Think about it guys, would YOU want to suck "Rooster"? Nope, didn't think so.
If I was a straight woman or gay guy? Absolutely. I'd also want to swallow (and more ;).
It's disgusting and let's face it, not all men are clean down there.
Apparently, from a bacteriological standpoint, it's cleaner than the mouth.
I don't want no man's dried pee going in my mouth.
Well, I suppose you could always rehydrate it with your tongue beforehand. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 6:10:09 PM | | what is the tissue thing? Honestly guys if u like oral than go for it, it can be fun. enjoy | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 7:04:20 PM | | I don't think you should automatically look at it in a negative way. I mean I love to give and I do it to please the woman. that's mostly what it's about. I don't try and look at it in a negative perspective, you think pees groose talk to all the women that have had to taste a cum shot. lol, then they'll tell you how disgusting that is. lol | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 8:46:56 PM | Hmm… How to comment.... It amuses me that you would even think ALL men… If you would have said MOST men I might have not even given it a second thought.
First off I love to give a woman oral if she has good hygiene. I usually don’t even ask her is she wants it I just give it without expecting any in return. Personally I figure if she enjoys giving oral then she will go down on me without me saying anything or asking about it.
And if you and your husband are looking for people to have oral with then maybe you should go to some adult oriented site. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 8:47:27 PM | Janiegirltx.....you are exactly right....I never feel so vunerable than when being controlled by a woman .....an awesome experience....and humbling. I have agreed to so many things at that 'perfect' time....  | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 10:58:04 PM | "No Strings Attached" except no blow jobs. Maybe guys are so interested in blow jobs with you because you, in fact, have what guys consider to be blow job lips. Its a good thing if you like to humm a tune every now an then while playing the skin flute.
Cunnilingus...in essence the same thing. Some guys like doing it, some guys don't...we understand it is the same for women. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2008 5:09:42 AM | Think about it guys, would YOU want to suck "Rooster"? Nope, didn't think so.
Well, of COURSE a straight guy isn't going to want to do that. Duh. Would you, OP, want to go down on a woman? Nope, didn't think so. It has nothing to do with disgusting blah blah.
Most people just aren't as uptight as you are, so we enjoy giving and receiving oral.
The answer to your question about automatically assuming is this:
Because the majority of women DO like it and want to do it. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2008 6:08:40 AM | Forgive the intrusion into the 'ask a guy' forum but this thread tickled me, although I do admit to not having read all of it (lazy cow, yeah I know).
Firstly, if a guy has bad personal hygiene I'm not gonna let any part of him near any part of me.
Sex is about mutual satisfaction, yes? Most guys like a good bj (I say most because there are the occassional few who don't). There is nothing quite like the expression on a guys face when you go down on him, kind of admiration, gratitude, lust and pleasure all mixed together. If you don't like it don't do it but don't have a go at the guys who enjoy it, go find yourself one who doesn't - they are out there.
H.x | |
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Posted: 3/7/2008 6:54:48 AM | Mrs.Jcc,
I'm not here to pass judgement on your personal preferrences, because everyone has the right to do as they please, I was married for 24 years and we both did everything we could think of for each other, with the exception of including outsiders! To each his own....but maybe just maybe if you both took the time to concentrate your efforts on each other, you wouldn't find the need to include another?
Why do men automatically think that if a woman wants to have sex with him, that she wants to put his "Rooster" in her mouth?
Why do men think that if a womans interested in him, that he'll get his "Rooster" sucked?
Think about it guys, would YOU want to suck "Rooster"? Nope, didn't think so. It's disgusting and let's face it, not all men are clean down there.
I don't want no man's dried pee going in my mouth
I have had my fair share of encounters with women, I've never came across one that thinks in those terms? I've known a few who were uncertain as to what to do? but based on the foreplay, they were more then willing to try. If your coming across "Dirty Men" that stink and have urine residue as you have explained? You may want to re-think we your finding these men. I think most men and women take pride in keeping them selves well groomed and clean, and want to present them selves as desirable rather then nasty!
But if you love your man and he loves you I would think you both would have the desire to seek out ways of pleasing each other, it's a natural thing to want your mate happy, knowing you know all it takes rather then needing a ringer to fill in what you can't do? That lock jaw thing is an excuse  if you can eat, drink from a straw, eat ice cream you can take care of your man! Seems to me it's more of an idiosyncrasy?
Do you eat Banana's? practice with that....it's not how long you do it? but rather how effective you do it... foreplay Girl....you guys are married act like it!
You wrote it's "Disgusting down there???  If a man and woman take time to prepare them selves for each other, it's not "Disgusting" at all it can be one of the most beautiful aspects of making Love! just like kissing! If two people are into each other they love each other from their head to their toes! It's called Total Acceptence! but I guess to each his own.... I would feel like less of a man if I had to have someone come in and help me satisfy my Girl...that's my job! That's why were together!
Good Luck! | |
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Posted: 3/7/2008 7:15:06 AM | Ms.Aitche,
Wow!!! you nailed it
Sex is about mutual satisfaction, yes? Most guys like a good bj (I say most because there are the occassional few who don't). There is nothing quite like the expression on a guys face when you go down on him, kind of admiration, gratitude, lust and pleasure all mixed together
The expression you speak of...is absolutely right on! and is equally as satisfing to a Man to see his woman with that same expression! Because as you say it's so personal and so satisfing, and leaves you both weak knowing you have that much love and desire to satisfy each other, with so much personal attention. I like it...who am I kidding I love it....
I have found that most who don't have either had a bad experience, were told it's wrong or dirty, or just lack confidence and don't want to feel incompitent, they don't know what to do and don't know how to talk about it? Because it is so personal...but on the other hand it can be such a beautiful aspect of the relationship! | |
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Posted: 3/7/2008 7:54:49 AM | ^^^^^I'm with her! I love doing it. Mmmm. Yep. ^^^^^^^^^^ | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 8:02:11 PM | .......fruity rotten tuna.......gag....
Are we talking about adults here? ...Or has soembody thrown a few pre-teens in the mix???????
Can you say soap and water?  | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 9:42:28 PM | LOL Actually, I wouldn't even consider dating someone who would have a problem with it. If you were going to be with a guy like me, you'd have to learn to get dirty! HA HA! I'd lick a girl out on the rag, man! I'll even take her backdoor and clean it with my tongue. Yeah, I'm dirty like that.
Having said that, I personally don't like oral sex. It is to delicate, and I'm not that sensitive to it. The real deal is where it's at! | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 10:49:56 PM | Oral is no longer a Luxury that only the Fanciest Models come with... it's a Standard that only lemons come without. Send'em back to the factory.
I don't exactly get the point of the post..? You don't like doing it, so... you want everyone to know? Why? To... rally support? To recruit members to the Felatio Free Army? and you thought that Ask a Guy would be a good forum for this?
I would rather give that receive, but if I'm never receiving I'm going to start to feel like I'm being taken advantage of.
PS: No one has ever used "not clean" as an excuse with me (but it would be valid, if it were true). I did have a girlfriend that really didn't care for the scent of my body scrub, so I switched. Soap is the word... don't just spread it, use it. | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 10:51:27 PM | Uh...a few questions...
1. What's a happily married woman doing on a "dating site?" And "yes," I know there are the polyamorous, for whom open relationships are okay...but really, "there's something afoot at the Circle K..."
2. Have you been married for 7 years (sounds like you have the 7 year itch).
3. Sex is some messy business, haven't you figured out that it's fun?
I sense a little confusion over there... | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 10:56:30 PM | LOL
Rooster??
WTF?
Seriously.
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