| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 12:15:05 PM | | Not everyone moans. Just like not everyone likes certain foods. Everyone is different, though I cannot stand if a girl doesn't get LOUD. Moaning is something, but being LOUD is my preference, and furthermore, when she starts getting loud, I start vocalizing. Not necessarily moaning (though it occurs at times), but dirty talking to my lover. | |
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 1:09:28 PM | Im one that does not usuallyt like 'talking' when bumping uglies. I want to concentrate on the pleasure not the words. But! there was one person who was noisy when very aroused and it sent me WILD! He would have some sort of animalistic grunt, it turned me on and he got thye benefits from it... boy, I miss him (smiles)
I would not want to TELL anyone to make noise - it should come naturally, just as I would not want to be told to be noisy. If its there, its there... | |
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 4:55:09 PM | ^^^ I had the same thought. 
There's "being frank" and then there's "potenial nightmare material." I've never experienced a thread that is so titillating one second and so bile enducing the next.
Keep it coming, gang!!! | |
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 6:29:01 PM | | This is funny cuz I want him to shut up. I'm in an apartment, my neighbours look at me funny. The last man I was intimate with moaned so loud I started laughing at him. I'm like are you kidding me, be quiet. Chew on something, just shutup. | |
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 6:53:36 PM | | I had this happen to me for the first time not long ago. I had sex with a guy and I don't think he made ANY noise whatsoever. At least not during the intercourse part. It was "disturbing," to me...but, that's just how he has always been apparently. I use that as a gauge for whether the person is enjoying himself or getting pleasure from what I am doing for one. On the other hand, he couldn't handle me making all the noise I did because he wasn't used that either. Let's just say...I am pretty damn vocal! I mean, he liked it...all too much from his "hasty finish" the first time...LOL He said that he wasn't used to women that made noise period. I asked him what sort of women he had been having sex with...*wink* At any rate, I think that moans and the like as well as "dirty talk" enhance the sexual experience and I certainly enjoy them! | |
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 6:54:37 PM | I don't care what ya'll think, but dirty talk in the bed is erotic as all get out. Guys can't act like us saying "give it to me big daddy" during the act is not erotic to you. Why not return the favor? Sex is about sensing things. Smelling the other person, tasting them, seeing the look on their face and touching their body, why would you leave out the last sense!???????
LOL Tell me how you want it, tell me I'm hot/sexy/beautiful/exciting, and moan everyonce in a while. OMG guys don't like it when we don't talk to them, (heaven forbid there be a comfortable silence during dinner) but then they won't so much as breathe heavily while I'm going down on them or letting them inside my world. Nope, stop being selfish and think of someone other than yourself. (BTW I used to never be verbal, one guy told me he liked it and I haven't stopped since bc it heightens the exerience and doubly so if they guy is vocal too)
OT mizdameanor, i live in an apt too, why do you care what your neighbors think?
BE VOCAL MEN!!!!
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 7:13:27 PM | | GOODKISSA....Now, when you HAVE to be quiet because you're in a public place, that's different story. Then I'm the one that has to bite my lip or his or his shoulder and just breathe thru my nose to keep quiet. That's hot too. | |
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 7:18:28 PM | Are there actually people that are quiet, wow thats news to me. I say open the windows and let the neighbors hear. Sell tickets if you can. Those unforefilled women in the neighborhood will be knocking at your door! | |
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 7:18:48 PM | PATROL:...I'm not ALWAYS bossy during sex - just when I'm feeling a little aggressive or extra horny .
But, don't tell me you don't like to be in control just a little bit sometimes. Nothing hurtful or painful...just fun? | |
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| WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/14/2007 12:10:20 PM | Well *I* LOVE to be loud. But after every single relationship getting mad at me for being loud, I've been whipped into quietude.
So for me, I err on the side of quite so she does not decide at the last minute I'm too loud and she wants to stop :))
If she says she likes noise then I'd be all over that. Of course I'd have to learn to let loose again after all these years but I'd love to be with someone that enjoyed loud and raucous.
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