| how do you get rid of an ex
Posted: 5/9/2005 1:21:24 PM |
hes made me hate him and thats that.
Do you express this hatred when he tries to contact you?
I've been the guy who wouldn't take the hint before... and being able to evoke ANY response, even a negative one, was often preferable to not meaning anything at all to her.
You know your situation better than I do so I won't offer any advice... good luck. | |
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| how do you get rid of an ex
Posted: 5/9/2005 1:31:19 PM | You are the girl who thinks this is an annoying but "cute" attempt to win you back... you hate him, but not enough to get your point across, know this: if he truly liked or LOVED you he would know that to make you happy, which you OBVIOUSLY (did you?) let him know you were done, he would love you enough to do what YOU think is best for you... your naivity infuriates me, and if you just lied, you have made a mockery of all the nitwits and ignorant ones like those I knew who disgustingly thought their exes were not that far gone yet.
He just wants me to know he's changed... oh now he's a stalker... but he would not hurt me... neither did the wives who married the mild manered submissive men think that they would be losing babies due to blows to the abdomin.
Do you have any idea what it feels like to be consumed by passion and be disillusioned for logic? Watch the news... don't become apart of it!!!
People will feel sorry for you, but if you don't help yourself, no one can help you when hurt allow the access.
Yes, it is your fault if something happens because you took it lightly... would you like me to go on?
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| how do you get rid of an ex
Posted: 5/9/2005 1:34:50 PM | dont think he is at the point of doing any damage to me (physically).
oh yea, not physically- first off- crock o sh....
2nd, mentally is okay right... let it get to the point where he says something really disturbing then you are afraid to take a shower alone... AAAAAUIGGh | |
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| how do you get rid of an ex
Posted: 5/9/2005 1:37:50 PM | im just not willing to see the "improvements"
Oh great, don't do anything---anything at all- because NOT talking to a guy you are leading strangers to believe is obsessive, that won't piss him off... I gotta get off this forum or I may scar you mentally...
Just for being a stereotypical IDIOT GIRL!!!! | |
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| how do you get rid of an ex
Posted: 5/9/2005 1:40:52 PM | | Collect as much evidence as possable. Record times, dates, places he contacts you. Answering machine recordings. Then take to the police, its hard to disreguard hard evidence. | |
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| how do you get rid of an ex
Posted: 5/9/2005 1:55:55 PM | Hi,
I just want to tell you MY way of doing it. Doesn't mean its the right way. You tell him what you have to tell him (her), then, You stand your floor. Once that is done, don't go for the lines like I just want to talk to you a minute, or, I won't do it again, we'll go your way from now on. Tha others are, I think I still have a few things over at your place, I didn't mean what I said, for the other person, there's always something special. Think about yourself and your feelings, where you are at in your state of mind, assert yourself. Stay your ground and, never never forget that there are people out there to help if you reach out. I didn't do it in time and it took me forever, but I finally got it right. Don't hesitate, it's your life.
      
Don't let go.
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| how do you get rid of an ex
Posted: 5/9/2005 1:59:15 PM | Hi,
I am pretty happy to hear someone sees where things are at. I approve. save the problems of communicating and talking wich is a downer.
i like the way you think
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| how do you get rid of an ex
Posted: 5/9/2005 3:02:22 PM | Bunnybaby, you've either got to Sh*it or get off the pot. Choose. Boyfriend or Not.
Keep up your wishy-washy, change your position ways and people will think you're a Flake, the Police included. Cry Wolf enough and you'll see.
i dont think he is at the point of doing any damage to me (physically).
he is just trying to show me that he has changed and such.
im just not willing to see the "improvements"
hes made me hate him and thats that.
Calling him a Stalker then making the above statement could end you up in the hospital or the morgue. You better get your head on straight. | |
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