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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:25:39 PM | | i am going on 40 in march and damn my sexual drive is stronger than ever....watchout jim all i gotta say | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/10/2007 3:56:05 AM | | I think that the fact you have a lot of time to think lately could be part of the reason you are thinking that way, the more sex you get the more you want, for men and women. If you have a long abscence sex seems to become less important. I think what your missing is not your sex drive but your lust urges that were just part of growing up. Now you want more from a relationship so there is nothing wrong with you, you just need to find some passion, and stop thinking too much! love from UK xxx | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/10/2007 11:41:05 AM | | Men peak in their early 20's women supposely in their 30's and it keeps peaking for some until their 50's. Men lose a little bit of the endurance or stamina as they age but have a tendancy to be much more experience, comfortable with themselves, and better in bed in their 30's. I have always been a pretty horney person for as long as I can remember but it gets really unbearable around 30 but have had friends that said it gets worst in their 40's, of course these were two bi-sexual women. And, in my experience they are more sexual. And, maybe I think that because they end up hitting on me or luring me to their love cave. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:30:57 PM | | You shouldn't have any problems until guys hit 40 or so.....if you are having problems - definitely talk to a doctor or order some viagra. I agree with the other posters - the more sex you get the more you want it....so go lower your standards and start getting busy. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/10/2007 2:29:55 PM | interesting thresad,
I am 47 and I think I am just getting started
I have never enjoyed sex this much
or had the opportunity I have now to enjoy sex this much
I did not date much and married young so i wonder if I am
........ making up for not making out more when I was younger ....................
maybe baby, but I am having some good safe fun now
Still looking for that perfect partner.............
ta ra
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/24/2007 9:25:10 PM | "Now I know I would still have sex if the offer came about but I dont feel the need to go and actively search for it like I did when I was younger."
The reverse effect has happened to me... as I get older, I can't see keep my mind out of the gutter. Strange. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/24/2007 10:40:00 PM | Oh yeah, the desire part's in overdrive, but the equipment only works for the very special little honey that's got my heart.
Well sh1t, looking back, that sounds a little ghey...faak it, I'm over it. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:09:17 PM | could just be a mood thing-I didnt have sex for about 8 months when I was still with my ex-too much work can do it too. since I've been single again the sex drive has kicked back in big time(bit more chosey nowdays)-but I feel like I did when I was a twenty. At the moment lack of sex makes me horny & so does regular sex-its a win/win situation You might just need to find someone who really clicks with you-a very different thing to random sex-a lot more satisfying. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:43:32 PM | My drive Rocks!!!
It's way better now then when I was in my 20's....My younger (6 years) ex-wife said that I wanted it more then she did at times.
Everybody is diffrent, if everybody was the same, you wouldn't be asking this question to a bunch of strangers....
If I don't get something at least 5 times a week, I start to think about it all the time...if I do it goes away....never had that in my 20's.
I know for women if you get DEPO shots as birth control the sex drive goes way down to nothing for every cycle you get..(3 month per shot)..or some pills do the same thing and if they been taking it since they were a teen it gets worse and worse the longer they take it...
Whatever normal is, you are normal.....everybody is diffrent!
jay | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 1/24/2008 8:43:05 AM | God I have a stronger drive now then I think I ever had! and sadly it isn't getting and weaker...seems like the older I get the stronger it gets with no one who appreciates it around...
Damn..looks like its more porn and more masturation for me....lol | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 1/24/2008 10:38:58 AM | migod, some of you people are pretty bold...not that there is anything wrong with that...
Let's just say...mind over matter... :) | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 1/24/2008 2:12:44 PM | | just one more thing that frightens and depresses me about being a virgin....my sex drive will soon be out the window un-used.....tell me why again waiting is a good idea? | |
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| Wait till you get forty
Posted: 1/24/2008 2:37:14 PM | | In my twenties I was looking for love and was ok with men satisfying themselves instead of me, now I would throw their clothing out the door and they would be following soon after. Maybe you are not interested at the moment because no one is bending over backwards to please you. It called wishy washy, once they get their wish you have to wash. It could be that your desires are for members of the same sex. | |
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| Wait till you get forty
Posted: 1/25/2008 4:09:45 AM | As soon as my age hit around the 30's, some biological sexual boost mechanism has kicked in and now I feel that my sexual urges are in overdrive!
I agree with some other posts here. If you feel that your libido has diminished and you’re still relatively "young", then maybe you need therapy or a hot new love in your Life  | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 2/3/2008 5:47:55 PM | Im almost 31 now and a few months ago I havent been able to get sex off my mind!
Before it was managable and seemingly normal but now I feel like there is a switch that has moved into the overdrive position and has snapped off!!
Im getting into things that I would have never thought of before with a woman or have asked either lest she should slap me and storm out but I find for the most part trying something new is interesting to most girls but never wanted to ask.
I personaly think it your drive gets better in time and you mind wakes up to new possibilities. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 2/6/2008 11:08:56 AM | i turned thiry and had more needs than ever.... the corner shop now takes my orders for batteries every week. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 2/6/2008 5:49:00 PM | Ever since I turned 35, my sexual desire shot up the roof! :) I am 38 now and it just got stronger...so I had urges and used my sex toy more often. :P
It's true that women in their late 30s and 40s have higher libidos. :) | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 2/7/2008 6:40:24 PM | | Outlaw i totally understand what you are talking about, and believe me, there is nothing wrong with you. when guys hit their 30s, there is so much more going on in the mind other than sex. Stuff like SUCCESS SUCCESS SUCCESS, meet the right girl and you will be back in your 20s | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 2/8/2008 7:49:52 AM | | When i was in my 20's i was looking to put my seed out there lol.but now that I'm over 30 it's not about sex any more but i'm looking for love wow it's alote hard to find than sex's | |
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