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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 2/10/2008 8:10:28 AM | My desire is still strong. But the "urge" has slowed down. I still enjoy great love making, but have lost the urge for "just sex".  | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 2/21/2008 7:47:45 PM | I noticed the urgency went out of the pursuit around mid thirties. Everything still works, its still great fun, but that thing in my pants is no longer an attach point for a lead :-) I have this female acquaintance who is much younger than me, last year she thought she might want a sample of what we 'elderly' men might have to offer, and I think she was quite put out that the whole come here/go away bit only worked until the first 'go away', and that there was no restarting the process :-)
So I am still quite interested, but not so interested that I'll tolerate any nonsense. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 2/22/2008 4:56:02 AM | | Obviously this is worrying you, or else you would not have placed it here. I would say go to your Doctors and have your level of Testosterone checked, this change in sexual desire could be an indication of something else not being 100% with your physical or mental health. Good luck :-) | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/14/2008 4:37:47 AM | I am still attrasctive and very vigorous and longer lasting now that i am over 30 -so much more than when I was 16 or 17 an dknow more techniques for pleasing a lady now than I ever did.. have a look at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oK9Omg5iVtg to see my fave method.
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| What is wrong with you people?
Posted: 3/14/2008 7:09:28 PM | I don't believe the question was "are you horny?"
Of course there is nothing wrong with you. Just because you don't have a desire to hump every person in sight does not signal some abnormality (well maybe with this thread). I for one do not constitute viewing everyone who goes down the street as a potentiol sexual partner as a healthy sexual appetite. Am I the only female on this website that is not trying to impress people by how horny I am? You know what's gonna happen is you people that are making out like you are Ms Hot Catch of the year because you are so f'n horny- you are gonna wind up with a guy with a real (REAL as in not phony) sexual appetite and he will realize how fake you are! | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/15/2008 12:24:32 PM | | Personally, there's NOTHING wrong with my sex drive...but when you get to this age, I think you get your priorities straight. Yes, there's a deficiency in energy levels etc., but the drive is there, but the will just gets overcome by other things. Romantically, for me it's a lot more about having someone to hold and be with, love and be loved by, and to be there for each other. Sex is great, but it's only a small part of things. I think you get a better appreciation for that as you mature. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/15/2008 3:02:59 PM | Thank GAWD it slowwed down some.
On the other hand I know about and enjoy a lot wider range of sexual activity now.  | |
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| Testosterone levels drop after 30
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:27:41 PM | I also have less issue with raging hormones which is nice because I am more mellow and relaxed and not as desperate as I was at 18 to get laid and have sex with women. Now at 37, I am very mellow and relaxed and not controlled by my libido anymore. It really is a great feeling because women today do not like sex it seems because all the profiles want the whole lets just be friends for a long ass time like a few centuries and then maybe I may give you a hug.
It really is freedom for a guy to not be chained by his libido anymore. We can be more cautious in our dating and selections of women whom we choose to date and avoid red flags that may cause suffering in life. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/22/2008 6:56:47 AM | | My sex drive was fairly low in my twenties when I was married - but perhaps now I am in my naughty forties and single it has soared sky high. Probably my taste in younger men helps! | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/22/2008 7:46:36 AM | Stong as ever. Even more experianced now and as one other guy said. Not like when I was 20 and thought I was going to die without it. I do know if I start going out. I would like to have a little hot n heavy romance. It has never been a problem waiting a while to get to know the person. In fact I almost would like to require that. But I couldn't go for say 2 years before getting married. In fact the longest I went out with a lady is 3 months before sacking up. But I make 100% sure she is ready for it.
Though I do give hats off to the ladies and gentlemen who wait until they get married or farther into a relationship. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/22/2008 8:15:40 PM | | Sexual desire is a normal part of life, always has been and always will be. It's just that we are much more open about it now...just ask Elliot Spitzer (ex-NY gov) who got busted for soliciting a 'lady of the night'. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/22/2008 10:38:16 PM |
Ok so I have been thinking alot lately and I've noticed that I no longer get the strong sexual urges I use to get when I was in my 20's is it just me or does everyone have the same thing happen when they enter into their 30's. Now I know I would still have sex if the offer came about but I dont feel the need to go and actively search for it like I did when I was younger. Tell me there is nothing wrong with me here people.
Well they say guys hit there sexual peck at 18... I say that is BS  I'm in my early 40's & still going through it... Think there maybe a factor why this is happening to ya... So I think there is something wrong... | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/23/2008 10:08:00 PM | | As we age our bodies change. Check into your nutritional habits and alcohol consumption. Those could have an adverse affect on your libido. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/24/2008 7:20:52 AM | Everyone is different.
For me, I think my sexual desire is the same and maybe more, though I'm a little more selective now. And I need some kind of emotion connection to enjoy it.
And some poster already mentioned, I'm kinkier and have less hang up now. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/28/2008 9:53:18 PM | | Has your body changed? Not to put too fine a point on it, but are you less physically active and/or 'fluffier'? Sex drive is pretty closely linked to physical health. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/29/2008 7:09:27 AM | I guess its just different by person I have found my sexual desire increase when I turned 30!  | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/29/2008 10:26:10 AM | | I must say everyone is different. I havent seen a dip in my sexual hunger since high school. Still going strong and feel I have more to give....Go Figure | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/29/2008 6:06:40 PM | | My thing keeps fallin' off. I have to tape it back on every mornin' with duct tape. | |
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/30/2008 5:01:27 PM | I still have a strong sex drive but i like to think i have better control over it
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| Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/31/2008 9:37:04 AM |
Ok so I have been thinking alot lately and I've noticed that I no longer get the strong sexual urges I use to get when I was in my 20's is it just me or does everyone have the same thing happen when they enter into their 30's. Now I know I would still have sex if the offer came about but I dont feel the need to go and actively search for it like I did when I was younger. Tell me there is nothing wrong with me here people. You're wierd. Seek help or seek hotties. | |
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